women troubles, need some advice...

loudog9999

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I need some advice on how to break up with someone. This girl is crazy, let me tell ya. I made the mistake of telling her that I cheated on my girlfriend in high school and now she is convinced that I am doing the same to her. The other day I went with my little brother to look for MGS 2 and the whole time I was gone she lit my phone up. I had like twenty calls from her and she left about seven message cussing everyone from me to my grandma saying that she has friends that had just seen me with a girl and that I am a cheating ba$tard, its insane. I feel like if I do break up with her she will see that as an indication that she was correct and I am really the person she thinks I am. I really liked this girl and don?t want to hurt her, but sometimes you just cant forget things that have been said. Really need some advice here. Thanks.
 

RegaPlanet

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Think the best way to go about it is to give her a stern altimatum. Tell her either drop the cheating crap ,and give her some kinda explantation why, or that yer gonna leave cause you're not cheating and shouldn't have to put up with this crap when you havn't done anything wrong. Especially when all she's heard is hear-say and can't prove anything. Sorry to hear yer in this situation. One of the most annoying I must say.
 

TapTap

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In all seriousness: one name you should remember--John Wayne Bobbitt.
Run.
Run like the wind.
And:
Save the messages from your cell phone for the INEVITABLE Stalking case you will have to file......
 

Servnya

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Just talk to her and tell her how you feel. If she refuses to trust you and makes accusations towards you, then tell her it's not going to work out. Once that's done, who cares what she thinks about you anymore. That's not your fault, it's hers.
 

loudog9999

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n all seriousness: one name you should remember--John Wayne Bobbitt.

LoL
I actually did save the voice mails, I guess I have some kinda complex were Im afraid to break up with someone because I dont thin I could find anyone else. This is driving me crazy though and I need to just get my nerve up. I have confronted her about it but she keeps bringing up the old saying, once a cheater always a cheater, come on that was in high school and Im now 22 years old. This is so frustrating.
 

Grunt03

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If she is like this then why even bother staying with her....
You will regreat it in the long run........
If you are not hiding anything then screw her......

Many more women will walk into your life so why waste the time with just this one.....
Envite her over, tell her the way you feel and what you think about her calling like she did.
Demand that she apoligize to the grandparents...
Set the record straight and if she cannot handle it tell her to step......

grunt03 sends....
 

jjones

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she sounds like a psycho-b!tch. i wouldn't even think twice about it if some chick left messages like you're describing on my phone. i'd call her up and tell her to get out of my life; i wouldn't even bother with a face to face, she's not worth the trouble.
 

rommel

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dude if your not cheating on her and your strait up...play that tape back and make her listen to it..tell her you aint gonna live like that and break up with her....dont feel sorry for her....you go this road it will get worse.
 

loudog9999

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Thanks for the advice guys, I know that everything you are saying is true, I guess Im gonna just have to forget about her. Thats too bad, I was hoping something better would come of us but that does not change the fact.
 

UnixFreak

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Be nice to her. I mean Really nice to her. Open doors, be a little puppy dog.. next thing you know, she will lose respect for you, and be a "good freind" and "like a brother to her". Trust me.. Be an ass, she'll just want you more.
 

GL

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<< Be nice to her. I mean Really nice to her. Open doors, be a little puppy dog.. next thing you know, she will lose respect for you, and be a "good freind" and "like a brother to her". Trust me.. Be an ass, she'll just want you more. >>



LOL, oh so true in my experiences:)...oh wait those weren't good experiences:(