Women think they can change men and can't realize the fact that it's a next to impossible task. Sure, there are exceptions to the rules, but based on my experience and the people I know, it no women have succeeded in doing so..
Women like challenges.
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HardcoreRobot
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why are they trying to change men if it's impossible?
I think because women want to have control over men. By changing men to their wishes they try to achieve that. That is partly the reason I'll never get married.
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I could write a book on this.
The trick is, find a woman who is mature. There are some, I've encountered several.
One of my best friends is one of them.
:thumbsup: not all women are out to change a man. there will always be a few things you do that they dont like, but the trick is finding one that accepts you for you, and loves you for it.
Women have been tricked, imho, into thinking they can have it all. What I mean is that they are told they can have a career, children and a great marriage and that they are actually entitled to it.
It's rare that they get put in their proper place these days.
You'd think they have testicles the way they bow up these days.
It's rare that they get put in their proper place these days.
You'd think they have testicles the way they bow up these days.
The main question is, why do people do what they do? After observing people for a long enough time, and familiarizing myself with their habits, I must say I agree with a certain philospher who shall remane nameless, but needless to say that essentially people are driven by the need to feel pleasure and escape pain. This operates from the most basic level (ie; catching yourself in a fall to prevent injur) to it's more complex levels ( getting in a relationship because you believe that is the way you will alieviate the problems in your life). Whether people realize it or not, they adjust their thought processes to support that they are either increasing pleasure or decreasing pain in any given experience. I shall use an example, though he/she shall remain nameless, but I know who this is (merely for the sake of reference on my part, a bystander should ignore that last a statement). A young man/woman falls into a relationship. Their life, prior to the relationship, was in something likable to a wreck. This person sought a relationship as a refuge, believing it was the cure all for their alements. This person began to see their partner in the relationship as a savior, the one person who completed them and made their life better. Of course, what happens when life continues to get hard? The "cure all" is blamed, and the relationship eventually fails.
Don't get me wrong I feel that relationships, when properly utilized, have a wonderful effect. Unfortunately people do not take into account all possiblities in a relationship. They see only one side of it. How unfortunate. Ah well, that is all for now...
Don't get me wrong I feel that relationships, when properly utilized, have a wonderful effect. Unfortunately people do not take into account all possiblities in a relationship. They see only one side of it. How unfortunate. Ah well, that is all for now...
too over simplified for this conetext....women are seeking security and a good provider
Because in essence the ultimate driver for every person is the propogation of our DNA. So your theory fits righ tin there too...we catch ourselves when we fall because we want to survive long enough to propogate our DNA as much as possible.
Women are thinking hmmmm....he make me feel secure and he would be a great provider for our kids(ensure DNA surivival by helping to raise child) if I can just change him......man isnt interested in that he wants to spread his seed as far as possible.
I dunno maybe we are saying similar things.
women go after men thinking they can change them
men go after women cause they like how they already are
i heard that somewhere
men go after women cause they like how they already are
i heard that somewhere
A woman gets with man hoping he will change, and he doesn't
A man gets with a woman hoping she'll stay the same, and she doesn't
i don't get that logic though, you don't buy a crap car hoping it will get better, so why think like that when picking a mate?
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