Women(and smart people) need help...

[kcklla]

I haev asked this one time before, but I didnt get anythign to it so I will try again. I messed up with my gf a while ago and she isnt talking to me, on the advice of someone I have just let her work things out, but I cant take this any more. I have a plan that involes flowers and some songs. Need adivce on a good "sorry" flower and some good songs that say Im sorry. Thanks in advance.

 

[TripleJ]

I dunno, mabye some daisies. They're humble and pretty flowers.

About the song... I'll have to think a bit more about that one.

Anyway, I think it's gonna take a little more than this stuff. Have a good think about what you are gonna say, throw that out the window and say what you feel.

 

[kcklla]

Oh believe me there is a LOT more to it then just those 2 things, I have had time to thnk

 

[Tauren]

Just talk to her and tell her the truth: that you f*cked up and you are VERY sorry. IMHO: if you play games, you may just end up losing in the long run.

 

[kcklla]

Well I plan on talking, but she is not even talking to me right now and I have to get her attention some how. Another way I was thinking was to call her mom, who really likes me, and see when she would be home so I could stop by when I can talk to her in person.

 

[Azraele]

I think the flowers would work, as would a song, but Tauren does have a point, you do need to apologize to her face to face and talk things out with her.


Good luck.

 

[Jfur]

how much time have you given her?

 

[kcklla]

<< I think the flowers would work, as would a song, but Tauren does have a point, you do need to apologize to her face to face and talk things out with her.


Good luck. >>



Come on guys do you think Im stupid, I would'nt just send the flowers and leave it at that. Liek I siad i have been thinking about this everyday

Jfur-It has been about a month... LIke I said I cant take this anymore, she had been out fo town for most of that time, and I couldnt talk to her.

 

[Azraele]

I would base the flowers/song on something that is meaningful to the relationship. What sort of flowers does she like (scent, color(s), etc)? Do you two have a special song?

 

[chrissyo4]

Good Sorry Song: &quot;Hard To Say I'm Sorry&quot; by Az Yet
Maybe if you two have a song, you could use that?
Or any special moment with a song...

I would say any flowers are &quot;sorry&quot; flowers.. except the ones u find growing ur yard.

Make sure to tell her what you feel and why, how you are going to change, and don't hold anything back... this is your chance. Good Luck!

 

[kassy]

Women(and smart people) ?? If women don't fall into the same catergory as 'smart people' then I see half of your problem (j/k)


According to 'flower meanings' sorry flowers are as follows :
Primrose = &quot;I can't live without you&quot;
Lily of the valley represents = &quot;You have made my life complete.&quot;
Red Carnation = &quot;My heart aches for you&quot;
Red tulips = &quot;Believe me!&quot;
Pink and white flower combinations =&quot;I love you still and always will.&quot;
Purple Hyacinth = I am truly sorry

Have no idea about songs.

 

[flippinfleck]

First off, how long is a long time? I mean, a long time to you could be waaay different than for anyone else.

My thoughts? Skip the flowers for now. You need to get her talking to you first. Right now the only way to do that is to talk to her first. You say you've given her time. How does she know that you haven't just 'walked away' from it all?

Communication my man, communication.

After the two of you are back together, then you can shower her with all the flowers you want. Let her know that you don't want to make the same mistakes this time.

 

[kcklla]

Well maybe I will do that and try to get ahold of her in person. SHe knows I wouldnt walk away from her, I know she nows that.

 

[Jfur]

yeah, that's a good amount of time. talk to her mom and try and get a feel for how she is perceiving things.

I don't know what type of music she likes -- here's one: sorry song

ans a simple flower, like the daisies mentioned above -- don't go overboard with red roses...

 

[kcklla]

I dont like red roses and she doesnt either so that good

 

[kcklla]

Well thanks for your advice, I will use some of it and throw some away, if you have anythign else please post