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Witnessed something bad at work a couple weeks ago

TripleAAA

Golden Member
YOU DON't HAVE TO READ THIS ENTIRE THING..I know its long, but if you read the first two paragraphs at least, you will get the general idea of whats going on.

First let me give you a brief background on my job:

I work for a foster care agency who also has group homes for children that are wards of the state. I particularly work at one of these homes as a child care worker. I work with teenage boys who are all in high school and basically just am there to make sure they stay out of trouble, make them meals occasionally, and most importantly try to be a good role model and someone they can trust and look up to.

So, here is the situation. I was working with one of my co-workers a couple weeks ago and to make the long story short, I observed him showing a shotgun to a couple of the kids. He had it in his vehicle and was cocking it and showing them all the intricacies of it. A few minutes later, I felt compelled to call my manager (who also works at the house, but wasn't working that day). I told him what I saw and he said he would talk to the guy about it.

Now to backtrack a bit, this particular employee has had numerous accusations against him in the past 6 months he has been employed. Several of the kids I work with said that he had given them marijuana, alchohol, and porn magazines. This employee also admitted that he smoked marijuana while at work. He was also scolded for driving erratically with the company vehicle while the kids were inside it.

I feel that morally I need to take further action on this matter. My house manager wants to avoid conflict with this individual, but he has also let the directors (the directors of the group home program) know of these things. Although they have knowledge about the situation, they haven't taken much action on the matter. It is my firm belief that the company is struggling to retain employees and that they don't want to fire anybody, hence the reason for all this.

At this point, I've written an incident report about the situation, but have yet to turn it into the management. I know that by submitting it, they have to legally sign the document which would be proof that they had knowledge about these incidents and didn't take any action.

Above all else, I feel on behalf of the kids and myself, that safety and well-being is being ignored here.

So whats your take, any comments, suggestions, questions. I really need to get this taken care of. Thank you everyone!


UPDATE 2/15

So my manager just got back from vacation and I discussed the situation once again with him. He seems to understand where I'm coming from and said he will go into the upper management and talk to them again, mentioning everything that I told him. I'm going to follow up with him this afternoon and find out what they have to say. I'll do another update when I find out more.
 
If he is giving them illegal materials, then it is obvious that he must be turned in. I'm no snitch -- or a believer in snitching -- but these are already high-risk kids. Some numbnuts exposing them to things without proper guidance -- or at all -- is simple something you have to take action on.

I know easier said than done. However, your conscience will be a lot clearer once you do this. Good luck.
 
Originally posted by: Mill
If he is giving them illegal materials, then it is obvious that he must be turned in. I'm no snitch -- or a believer in snitching -- but these are already high-risk kids. Some numbnuts exposing them to things without proper guidance -- or at all -- is simple something you have to take action on.

I know easier said than done. However, your conscience will be a lot clearer once you do this. Good luck.


QFT
 
Originally posted by: Mill
If he is giving them illegal materials, then it is obvious that he must be turned in. I'm no snitch -- or a believer in snitching -- but these are already high-risk kids. Some numbnuts exposing them to things without proper guidance -- or at all -- is simple something you have to take action on.

I know easier said than done. However, your conscience will be a lot clearer once you do this. Good luck.


Thanks Mill. I'm aware of what I need to do, it's just the way of going about doing it that's the problem.
 
Wow, that guy is a douche...do whatever it takes to get him away from those kids!!

Report him to the police for the marijuana incident if your work refuses to do anything.
 
On one hand, I think that teaching kids about guns and gun safety in a structured and responsible manner is a good thing regardless of who the kids are.
On the other - it doesn't sound like this individual is the person to be doing it.

Did this action violate any specific policy at your company or state rules that it operates under? Are there any other witnesses? What is holding you back from forcing the issue?
 
Well, you did your part by verbally reporting to them. If they didn't take action, then all you can do is file a written report with them or a memo.
 
The agency is now responsible if his actions harms/endangers any of the clients, since they know of illegal/inappropriate behaviours.
i'd suggest sharing that with supervisor...and maybe anonymous call to states child welfare agency itself...or tips line to police, esp if you know when he is carrying...
 
You could report this to the social services agency in your particular state that is in charge of licensing of the foster care agency.
 
Originally posted by: Armitage
Did this action violate any specific policy at your company or state rules that it operates under? Are there any other witnesses? What is holding you back from forcing the issue?

I'm sure the actiion violated some type of policy or state rule. I'm not well-read on this though. What's partly holding me back is that I know this is a very major situation that could potentially cause even more problems. This company is all about presenting a good image to the state (because the state funds them) so they could be shut down. This would mean a lot of people who I know are struggling to get by each month, might be out of a job.

 
Originally posted by: Mill
If he is giving them illegal materials, then it is obvious that he must be turned in. I'm no snitch -- or a believer in snitching -- but these are already high-risk kids. Some numbnuts exposing them to things without proper guidance -- or at all -- is simple something you have to take action on.

I know easier said than done. However, your conscience will be a lot clearer once you do this. Good luck.

:thumbsup:
 
If something happened to them as a result of this and you had not taken action, you would probably feel guilty. Don't put yourself in that situation.
 
Originally posted by: Xyclone
Originally posted by: Mill
If he is giving them illegal materials, then it is obvious that he must be turned in. I'm no snitch -- or a believer in snitching -- but these are already high-risk kids. Some numbnuts exposing them to things without proper guidance -- or at all -- is simple something you have to take action on.

I know easier said than done. However, your conscience will be a lot clearer once you do this. Good luck.

:thumbsup:

Yes Sir, This is the path I would take.
 
Originally posted by: TripleAAA
Originally posted by: Armitage
Did this action violate any specific policy at your company or state rules that it operates under? Are there any other witnesses? What is holding you back from forcing the issue?

I'm sure the actiion violated some type of policy or state rule. I'm not well-read on this though. What's partly holding me back is that I know this is a very major situation that could potentially cause even more problems. This company is all about presenting a good image to the state (because the state funds them) so they could be shut down. This would mean a lot of people who I know are struggling to get by each month, might be out of a job.

On the other hand:

This employee also admitted that he smoked marijuana while at work. He was also scolded for driving erratically with the company vehicle while the kids were inside it.

He is a danger to the kids, and doing nothing could result in harm or death.
 
Bro if you feel convicted to do something, then you have to do it. The safety of these kids is more important than anything else. If this guy is damaging the growth and care that these guys should be getting, then he should be removed, because he's helping to ruin their lives in the long run. These kids need stability and love. Pr0n, mary jane, and alcohol aren't the foundations for a stable life. Seriously.
 
I work at a group home that caters towards boys who are Developmentally Delayed and Severe Emetionally Disturbed (DD & SED). If one of my co-workers was exposing my kids to Marijuna I woulldn't hesitate to file a report. I also would bring it to attention to the highest person I could (in my case the family owners of the agency). Too many of the kids in our homes were exposed to various drugs in utero, or in infancy. Furthermore many have suffered abuse or neglect or a great loss sometime in their life. They don't need the added pressure of an illegal drug habbit.

Your job is to be a positive role model, and make sure of the kids safety. Where do you draw the line? What if he started giving them coke, acid, herion? Your co-worker is acting way out of program and shouldn't be working in this field.
 
Originally posted by: illusion88
I work at a group home that caters towards boys who are Developmentally Delayed and Severe Emetionally Disturbed (DD & SED). If one of my co-workers was exposing my kids to Marijuna I woulldn't hesitate to file a report. I also would bring it to attention to the highest person I could (in my case the family owners of the agency). Too many of the kids in our homes were exposed to various drugs in utero, or in infancy. Furthermore many have suffered abuse or neglect or a great loss sometime in their life. They don't need the added pressure of an illegal drug habbit.

Your job is to be a positive role model, and make sure of the kids safety. Where do you draw the line? What if he started giving them coke, acid, herion? Your co-worker is acting way out of program and shouldn't be working in this field.

I agree. Many of the kids I work with are the same way. This guy actually wants to become a teacher too. The more I read your guys' comments, the more courage and strength I'm getting to take care of this. Thanks.
 
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