If you can't see the difference in the two scenarios, your blindness is willful. Recall petitions and subsequent elections don't occur unless the target has grievously offended a fairly large segment of the electorate. That's entirely different than parliamentary grandstanding.
Reid handled it wrong. McConnell sought to suspend the rules so that the raw Obama stimulus proposal could be attached to the China currency bill as an amendment, which requires a 2/3 majority. Reid should have allowed that, called upon his entire caucus to vote for it, then called for cloture and a vote on the amended measure. Repubs would have been forced to filibuster, caught in their own trap. He then should have entertained a motion from the floor to remove the amendment, which would have passed by majority vote. It's not like Repubs ever wanted the measure to pass, and we both know it.
Either that way or the way Reid handled it would have arrived at the same outcome, which can't be said for what Wisconsin Repubs are trying to accomplish.
They're running scared, rightfully so, and it shows.