again, just depends how you want to use it. Some of the Harmony remotes do have HTPC capabilities IF you have the RF receiver.
Am I asking too many questions?
Never. But it's 4AM so my answers might be half-effort right now.
I was about to give up this idea and go for an ipad and hope that somehow i can connect it with the TV. I also thought of buying Galaxy tab for the same purpose, which i don't know if it will do the job. Somehow I think a phone will do the job in the near future, which is why i thought "screw it, just buy a wireless video card for now." But that doesn't work, like all previous plans.
beginner99, it was from SirGCal that i learned what HTPC is(I called them Mini PC due to lack of terms), what is a WDTV live? And more importantly does it work in my case? I can operate a PC, but I suck at remote. Also, I probably won't have a lot of ISO to play as I am planning to play Youtube and alike (tv series from other countries.)
Something like the WDTV would be a mini-box to do parts of what your thinking about. If all you plan for is youtube/hulu and not Blu-ray, then it might be what you're after. However the reviews of them I've seen are quite mixed.
The 360 option, again depends what you plan to do with it. I have a ton of my personal DVD/BluRay collection which is quite extensive ripped to my 12TB server and the 360 can't play any of them. I could rip them in a way that it could by sacrificing quality but that's not my goal. And honestly, I don't even use my 360 anymore just cause it's not capable. And you'd spend way more on one then you would to finish up an HTPC, especially with the parts you already have...
Back to your setup:
So if you only needed HDMI for example for both your audio/video output, then you could use that
ASUS P5G41C-M $64.99, use the onboard video (for now at least), a case and power supply (say $50ish) and a slim height Draft-N wireless PCI card (not PCI-e cause you might want to upgrade the video later, and there's only one on this board) like the
Rosewill RNX-N150PC PCI 2.2 Wireless Adapter for a whopping $14.99 and an optical drive of your choice if you don't have another one laying around and you're good to go.
You'd have an HDMI output audio&video, Q6600, 4G DDR2, Draft-N Wireless HTPC up and running for as little as ~$130 out of pocket not including the operating system if needed. You could use a slim case like the Rosewill I listed or a full-sized unit like any of the uATX mini-towers, towers, or desktops. Doesn't have to be a slim case if you don't want it too. Doesn't have to be expensive either.
You can use what-ever keyboard/mouse you have extra right now to get started, even wired, or any of the possible wireless combination boards. (I like the ones with trackballs on the keyboard instead of touchpads, for HTPC use, but that's just my preference. There's tons of options, even fullout remotes or air-mice even. Just depends what you want to spend/do.)