what band? is it an A network? That card is (most likely) CCX v2 certified, meaning it should take anything that the 3com can throw at it as far as authentication/encryption.
I would...
1. Turn of mac authentication (for now)
2. Turn on ssid (if it's off)
3. report back on if you see it or not.
there are 2 parts to wireless that are often intermingled/interused (but are seperate)
1. Authentication: Open, Shared, Eap/Leap. What one are you using? any of those can be used with mac, so you could have open with mac, shared with mac, leap with mac, etc.
2. Encryption. This is the WPA/WEP/TKIP/CKIP, etc. Again, what are you suing.