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She will be approxy 8-9 weeks preggers, what can I expect to happen at the appointment? Any women want to share their side and the men theirs?
Wifes first OBGYN appt on Oct 5
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C'mon at least one person here has accompanied their wife/gf to their first appointment and call tell me what kind of stuff im in for. This isnt /. i hear people here actually have seen and sometimes reproduced with a woman
I went to a gyno appt. with an ex gf once. It was just a regular checkup. Don't ask me why I went, but I did. Anyways, I regret not bringing something to do, something to stay occupied. I wish I brought a magazine, a book, a god damn spinach color gameboy at least, because it was real awkward in there. A bunch of women staring at you, nothing but women magazines everywhere.....
You're not in for much, from your perspective, they probably won't do an internal. Urine test, blood pressure, regular checkup (heart, breathing, etc.) they'll measure the uterus, and that's the only difference from a regular physical.
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Real men go to show their support for their wife who is putting herself through hell to carry the child
My wife bore three children and never felt she was in hell. She enjoyed her pregnancies very much.
I have, on two occasion, fornicated with a woman in such a manner that it led to a partial replication of my DNA.
So, what to expect?
The first thing is that you want to take your wife to a male OBGYN so he isn't "vagina biased." Since he doesn't have his own, he is more likely to be attentive to other's vaginas.
Second, make sure he does a smell test. Good OBs can tell many things by taking a strong whiff of the area. It may help him detect an infection, STD, or anything of the sort. Occasionally they may also take a taste to determine if there is a yeast infection, but not often, and this usually only happens during the first visit or two, not later in the months.
Third, expect extreme discomfort as he inserts seemingly random objects into his orrifices. It is considered in poor taste, although it happens frequently, for the OB to look at you in the eyes while he does this and smirk.
Fourth, make sure he doesn't wear gloves. Like condoms, they cut down on the sense of feel and he may not be able to tell if the womb is in the correct position, the cervix is point down, or if she shaves.
Lastly, watch his technique to see if your wife enjoys it. If she does, either do the same things he did with that cool duck-bill looking thing, or invite him over for dinner.
Ask him to bring his stirrups.
So, what to expect?
The first thing is that you want to take your wife to a male OBGYN so he isn't "vagina biased." Since he doesn't have his own, he is more likely to be attentive to other's vaginas.
Second, make sure he does a smell test. Good OBs can tell many things by taking a strong whiff of the area. It may help him detect an infection, STD, or anything of the sort. Occasionally they may also take a taste to determine if there is a yeast infection, but not often, and this usually only happens during the first visit or two, not later in the months.
Third, expect extreme discomfort as he inserts seemingly random objects into his orrifices. It is considered in poor taste, although it happens frequently, for the OB to look at you in the eyes while he does this and smirk.
Fourth, make sure he doesn't wear gloves. Like condoms, they cut down on the sense of feel and he may not be able to tell if the womb is in the correct position, the cervix is point down, or if she shaves.
Lastly, watch his technique to see if your wife enjoys it. If she does, either do the same things he did with that cool duck-bill looking thing, or invite him over for dinner.
Ask him to bring his stirrups.
QFT.
I couldn't be an OB/GYN for the same reason I couldn't work at my favorite restaurant: once you see what goes on behind the scenes, you will never want to eat there again.
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Mines been sick as a dog the whole time, throws up like clockwork each morning and then sometimes at night. Is dead tired all the time and is constantly nausious (sp?)
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Originally posted by: senseamp
Ask the Dr. to check out your mangina while you are there.
Maybe they can check it out together......ok that was bad
BACK TO TOPIC!!!!
One of my friends dad is a OBGYN and he met his wife at his office, she was a patient. Never got the chance to ask how ackward that pass had to be, but she was pretty hot.
TMI.
Frankly the only ones you need to go to are the ultrasounds. If you do choose to go, you may get to hear a heartbeat, but the rest holds no interest for you
Frankly the only ones you need to go to are the ultrasounds. If you do choose to go, you may get to hear a heartbeat, but the rest holds no interest for you
I went to a couple visits (my wife is currently pregnant w/ our first), it wasn't so bad. Her Doc is a huge football fan so that helped a lot. I didn't really sit there staring while they were poking around, but it was awesome to hear the baby's heartbeat for the first time. I would have gone to more, but my work schedule doesn't allow it.
I did bring my GBA and played it while we were waiting in the waiting room.
I did bring my GBA and played it while we were waiting in the waiting room.
At 9 weeks, there's not much to see. They may do an internal since nothing would show up on the external. It's fairly uneventful this early on, it's not until later do you get to see something that closely resembles a human, and you won't hear a heartbeat for a while. As for your SO's nausea, it will go away soon. It's usually only there for the first trimester, but she will be tired for the duration, and her feet may start to swell much later on and that's not cool.
<---- wife has 60 days left until the due date of our first child (boy)
<---- has not missed a SINGLE OB/GYN appointment with her
<---- wife has 60 days left until the due date of our first child (boy)
<---- has not missed a SINGLE OB/GYN appointment with her
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