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Why oh why ATOT?

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manlymatt83

Lifer
I used to think I had testosterone problems. I never worked.

For some reason, almost no girl, except this one girl, who I absolutely can't stand, can turn me on. Most girls have a lot of trouble: this girl has absolutely no trouble whatsoever.

Why? Why?
 
I'm not gay. I think I just hook up with girls I'm not attracted to and expect to work fine.

I get turned off by rolls of fat or gigantic zits... yet I still try anyway.

This girl isn't the cutest thing in the world, but she's got a really nice body. I think that's why she has no trouble.

And yes, I've been to the doctor. she tested my testerone. It was low normal.
 
You know how those girls who would steal your building blocks in kindergarden were really just looking for your attention?
 
Originally posted by: mjuszczak
I'm not gay. I think I just hook up with girls I'm not attracted to and expect to work fine.
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Why?

Originally posted by: mjuszczak
I get turned off by rolls of fat or gigantic zits... yet I still try anyway.
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Really? I dont know anyone who gets turned off by fat girls with zits.

Originally posted by: mjuszczak
It was low normal.
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So which one is it? Low or Normal?
 
Originally posted by: akshatp
Originally posted by: mjuszczak
I'm not gay. I think I just hook up with girls I'm not attracted to and expect to work fine.
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Why?

Originally posted by: mjuszczak
I get turned off by rolls of fat or gigantic zits... yet I still try anyway.
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Really? I dont know anyone who gets turned off by fat girls with zits.

Originally posted by: mjuszczak
It was low normal.
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So which one is it? Low or Normal?
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Should be between 13 and 43. Mine was 18. So its in range, but low.
 
I do it because I feel like I should be attracted to those girls. They are really nice, etc.... and then I get attached to the personality but when sexual stuff comes I just don't work unless I am physically attracted to them.

Can't most guys work with ANY girl? Even if they aren't sexually attracted to them?
 
Originally posted by: mjuszczak
Originally posted by: akshatp
Originally posted by: mjuszczak
I'm not gay. I think I just hook up with girls I'm not attracted to and expect to work fine.
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Why?

Originally posted by: mjuszczak
I get turned off by rolls of fat or gigantic zits... yet I still try anyway.
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Really? I dont know anyone who gets turned off by fat girls with zits.

Originally posted by: mjuszczak
It was low normal.
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So which one is it? Low or Normal?
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Should be between 13 and 43. Mine was 18. So its in range, but low.
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Get on a testosterone patch (Andromeda?) and see if it helps. That seems pretty low for such a huge range.
 
What the hell brought on this thread?

Judging by ALL your other threads, your problem is in your head. I'm convinced you suffer from depression. Ever since you broke up with your first girl you've been desperately searching for that feeling of acceptance that you had with her.

I have no good advice other than to say that once you are comfortable with yourself... and believe in yourself... (and not just when it comes to girls... ) your junk will work fine regardless of who you are with.
 
Originally posted by: mjuszczak
I do it because I feel like I should be attracted to those girls. They are really nice, etc.... and then I get attached to the personality but when sexual stuff comes I just don't work unless I am physically attracted to them.

Can't most guys work with ANY girl? Even if they aren't sexually attracted to them?
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beer helps, lots of beer

Seriously dude your thinking too hard about it, let nature take its course and you'll be fine

 
Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
What the hell brought on this thread?

Judging by ALL your other threads, your problem is in your head. I'm convinced you suffer from depression. Ever since you broke up with your first girl you've been desperately searching for that feeling of acceptance that you had with her.

I have no good advice other than to say that once you are comfortable with yourself... and believe in yourself... (and not just when it comes to girls... ) your junk will work fine regardless of who you are with.
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Incorrect. I suffer from anxiety, not depression. Mainly health anxiety. The anxiety stems from me getting diagnosed with high blood pressure when I was 19, and continuing to gain weight.

In the past year I've lost 60 pounds. I'm still losing more. Yeah, I was sad when I lost Heather, but I eventually got over it.

I get anxious about health, anxious about the future, anxious about a lot of things. Anxiety is a big problem in my life. But I'm happy.
 
Originally posted by: mjuszczak
Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
What the hell brought on this thread?

Judging by ALL your other threads, your problem is in your head. I'm convinced you suffer from depression. Ever since you broke up with your first girl you've been desperately searching for that feeling of acceptance that you had with her.

I have no good advice other than to say that once you are comfortable with yourself... and believe in yourself... (and not just when it comes to girls... ) your junk will work fine regardless of who you are with.
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Incorrect. I suffer from anxiety, not depression. Mainly health anxiety. The anxiety stems from me getting diagnosed with high blood pressure when I was 19, and continuing to gain weight.

In the past year I've lost 60 pounds. I'm still losing more. Yeah, I was sad when I lost Heather, but I eventually got over it.

I get anxious about health, anxious about the future, anxious about a lot of things. Anxiety is a big problem in my life. But I'm happy.
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Depression and anxiety are two sides of the same coin. They both hold their roots in stress. It just depends on what you stress over. You've obviously moved on from Heather but I've read your threads... you're not over her. There's a big difference between "moving on" and "getting over."

As for my "diagnosis..." It shows up when you talk about your job... where you want to live... who you're seeing... everything. You're very uncomfortable with yourself. I've been there. Sometimes the hardest person to be comfortable with is yourself. Once you figure that part out everythig else is cake.
 
Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
Originally posted by: mjuszczak
Odd that you remember her name...
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I didn't. You mentioned her name in your post that I quoted.
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Ahh yeah, I'm tired.

See the thing is, I know exactly what I want. EXACTLY. I just don't know how to get there, and I get anxious about whether or not I will get there, or whether or not my health will prevail to allow me to get there -- meanwhile increasing stress.

Honestly? I stress about being stressed.
 
Originally posted by: mjuszczak
Originally posted by: Whoozyerdaddy
Originally posted by: mjuszczak
Odd that you remember her name...
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I didn't. You mentioned her name in your post that I quoted.
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Ahh yeah, I'm tired.

See the thing is, I know exactly what I want. EXACTLY. I just don't know how to get there, and I get anxious about whether or not I will get there, or whether or not my health will prevail to allow me to get there -- meanwhile increasing stress.

Honestly? I stress about being stressed.
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My advice: Take some time to figure yourself out. I've never been comfortable in my own skin. It took me a long time to figure out how to be me without stressing over it all the time. Once you figure that out, everything else is easy.

The first step is to stop worrying all the time. Your blood pressure doesn't matter if you get hit by a bus tomorow. That's not to say that you shouldn't take care of yourself... you should. But you're not even close to dying of the things you worry about. If you skip a work out every once in a while... BFD.

Stop worrying about whether or not you end up where you think you want to go. If I had ended up where I wanted to go when I started college I'd be an english teacher making half what I make now. I can't even imagine that as my life now.

Just do your thing. You're young, capable and smart. Instead of worrying about how to get to some pre-conceived end, see where your talents take you. Ever heard the saying: It's not the destination, it's the journey? Well, there ya go. My journey to this point has been strange and unexpected (compared to where I knew I was supposed to go 15 years ago) to say the least. But it's brought me to where I am and I'm as excited as I've ever been. And this includes a potential YAGT for the ages that I'm in the middle of right now...

Like I said, you need to figure yourself out. Knowing what you want is not the same as knowing who you are. Set your goals and realize that when your priorities change, your goals should change with them. And above all... Relax! Believe in yourself. Don't panic if your life isn't headed where you think it should be. Life has a funny way of guiding you to what you never knew you really wanted.

 
if you suffer from anxiety, then go see a therapist. or if girls keep on intimidating you, take some time off. take a couple month of from trying to relax, gather your nerves and try again. i think nearly half your posts on ATOT have been YAGT. it's getting ridiculous. true this is a public off topic forum, but since you seem to have so much trouble with girls, take a break and talk to a therapist.
 
Originally posted by: ForumMaster
if you suffer from anxiety, then go see a therapist. or if girls keep on intimidating you, take some time off. take a couple month of from trying to relax, gather your nerves and try again. i think nearly half your posts on ATOT have been YAGT. it's getting ridiculous. true this is a public off topic forum, but since you seem to have so much trouble with girls, take a break and talk to a therapist.
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The other half being YADrT ?
 
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