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Why is it when you didn't have a girlfriend, no girls want you

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PandaBear

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That is just so wierd and unfair. What is wrong with girls?

I have a friend who went after one girl back in HS, she wasn't interested, then later he got a gf and that girl change her mind, and became desperate about my friend.

The same happens to me. When I was single, I got turn down by "average" girls like 3 meals a day. Then when I end up getting a hot one, all the "above average" ones started hitting on me.

The even more crazy thing is, I was much more muscular and fit when I was single: swimming 30 laps a day, work out every other day, bike to school.

Ladies, what is going on?
 
question of whats wrong with him is partially answered when you are already attached. apparently u aren't defective enough for her to leave...yet...😉
 
This is true. Go out to a bar with some chicks and you get handed phone numbers left and right.
 
It's your mentality. When you talk to them, and show that you're not interested in them, they want you more. If you show that you're interested in them when you talk to them, they get turned off.
 
Originally posted by: virtualgames0
It's your mentality. When you talk to them, and show that you're not interested in them, they want you more. If you show that you're interested in them when you talk to them, they get turned off.
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Girls are dumb 🙁

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i was just thinkign about this recently.

i think they just want attention, not necessarily to get with you..but to get attention from a guy they know is not available.
either that or ....the perceived value of a guy becomes higher when he is with good looking female company.

thats why i keep my hot but not available friends around....they are great wingman. (wing-woman)

Im at the point where Im just gonna settle for average looking females. Tender love and care, and frequent tail cant be beat.

edit for unclear remark.
 
its the way we act, think about it. when we are single, we act like the horny losers that we (at least myself) are. When we are in a relationship, we are more stable and intellegent (and not as horny b/c we are getting it on a regular basis), thus more attractive. Thats my hypothesis anyways.
 
LOL ya know if someone was to come here with no experience w/ women they would get the impression that every chick is a gold-digging, cheating, jealous cum dumpster :laugh:
 
i know a girl who said she dumbed one of her former bf because she found out he had feelings for her before she did. It made her feel like it wasn't a challenge, so she lost all feelings for him, and dumped him.
 
Originally posted by: Proletariat
LOL ya know if someone was to come here with no experience w/ women they would get the impression that every chick is a gold-digging, cheating, jealous cum dumpster :laugh:
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wow, that's pretty descriptive. and based on ATOT's responses to YAGT's, that's a fairly good characterization of the reponses 😛

i don't get women, so i'm not gonna even try to answer this
 
Originally posted by: virtualgames0
It's your mentality. When you talk to them, and show that you're not interested in them, they want you more. If you show that you're interested in them when you talk to them, they get turned off.
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Bingo. You can still pull this off when you're single. Be nice at certain times, and don't care at all other times
 
Originally posted by: her209
Originally posted by: cerebusPu
Something to do while i work on myself.
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Dude!!! Too much fsckin info.
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hah..thats not what i meant. i mean work on my own attributes like working out, getting a graduate degree, learning new hobbies...

Im still gonna edit out what i said because it sounds weird
 
Originally posted by: PandaBear
That is just so wierd and unfair. What is wrong with girls?

I have a friend who went after one girl back in HS, she wasn't interested, then later he got a gf and that girl change her mind, and became desperate about my friend.

The same happens to me. When I was single, I got turn down by "average" girls like 3 meals a day. Then when I end up getting a hot one, all the "above average" ones started hitting on me.

The even more crazy thing is, I was much more muscular and fit when I was single: swimming 30 laps a day, work out every other day, bike to school.

Ladies, what is going on?
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thats a lie. i have a gf and i cant get girls. not that i try to 😀
and why are you addressing your post to "ladies". there are no ladies in ATOT
 
and if your desperate enough. head to a bar with a sister or a cousin or a platonic female friend just to test that theory
 
Originally posted by: RebelDog
its the way we act, think about it. when we are single, we act like the horny losers that we (at least myself) are. When we are in a relationship, we are more stable and intellegent (and not as horny b/c we are getting it on a regular basis), thus more attractive. Thats my hypothesis anyways.
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I think we have a winner. Yeah, this happen after I have a gf even when they didn't know I have a gf, but when I was single, it never happened, ever.
 
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