my belief is partly 2 fold on this issue:
1) the actual (handfull of) LCD manufacturers are trying to keep a 'standard' in terms of size/resolution so as to not 'confuse' the average consumer so they don't have to decide between 20 different native resolutions on 20 different makes of the same physical size, otherwise it'd be easier to decide to stick with a CRT and pay less... plus laptops are usually mean to be closer to the face, so the smaller pixels are more tolerable by the eyes, whereas a desktop crt/lcd is usually further away and the smaller pixels would be harder to work with, requiring scaling of things which leads again to the whole non native resolution issue.
2) they can continue to provide easier to manufacture (read: cheaper and higher yields) technology and still milk the consumers for all they're worth, the current desktop lcd's are still at a nice price/profit premium for the manufacturers, why ruin it for themselves.
stab in the dark opinion though.