That wasn't the problem. Even if X is set to autostart then you can type 'linux single' at lilo and get back to the single user (no X11) mode (I think you can also specify the run level at lilo too, but I've not ever tried). The problem was that after this first crash the partition was trashed. No booting into single user, X11, prompt, nothing. It was dead. Afterall, I didn't say that it wouldn't boot into X, I said that it died after the crash.