shortylickens
No Lifer
- Jul 15, 2003
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I think there's something of a chicken and egg question here. If you're living on welfare in the ghetto, you can't give your child a nice home, or a good education, or even a father without losing your check. You CAN give a child a unique name, something that is his/hers alone, something of which to be proud, something which no one can take away. It's ultimately a bad decision, providing both negative feedback to future career opportunities and a false sense of pride (no one's name is a cause for pride), but it's what they can do.
That's a good point. Far too often for the sake of political correctness we pretend that cultures are value neutral, that each is inherently as good as the next. That prevents (or at the least greatly discourages) fixing the things that need to be fixed within that culture. But as someone said, we can't really unilaterally change someone else's culture. About all we can do is to provide honest opportunities for those who do want to work their way out of the ghetto, provide positive role models (those Tiger Moms again), and display the benefits of making better decisions.
Yup, if people tried saying white trailer trash was a culture and it needed protecting there would be all kinds of uproar.