Think of the free body diagram of a small control volume of gas molecules floating around in our atmosphere. The forces acting on it are:
1. Gravity from Earth - normal to the Earth's surface
2. Shear stress - in the direction of prevailing winds (perhaps tangential to the Earth's surface)
3. Gravity from the Moon - normal to the Moon
There are other factors that would be less important, such as diffusion/Brownian motion, but the first two should suffice as I would guess that they are the dominant forces. So, if you consider such a force balance, you could calculate how much shear stress it would take to throw air out into space. The solution would vary with respect to lattitude. Without actually solving the problem (which could be a bit tricky, though not terribly difficult), I would guess that the highest rate of loss would be at the poles.