- Nov 5, 2001
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It is funny to see how much social awkwardness inhibits people from going out and trying to achieve their goals.
For example:
Why is it that you can't just tell a girl that is your friend, that she's attractive?
Answer: because then she might think you are interested in her, and that would make things awkward.
or.. Why is it that you can't just ask a girl to go see a movie or something if you dont know her that well? Why is it that the "friends first" approach to dating is the one that society looks upon as 'the best'
in other words, society frowns upon two people meeting together and getting to know each other better, if the primary reason for doing so is that they are looking for a girlfriend/boyfriend.
You have to 'accidently' find each other, or get to know each other. You can't just 'seek' out another mate.
What is it with this? Do people have any clue how much faster you could get to know someone and hook up with someone, or how much easier it would be to find a 'good match' for you, if we just let go of these social inhibitions, and took more steps forward, not letting ourselves become paralyzed by the fear of "social awkwardness?"
For example:
Why is it that you can't just tell a girl that is your friend, that she's attractive?
Answer: because then she might think you are interested in her, and that would make things awkward.
or.. Why is it that you can't just ask a girl to go see a movie or something if you dont know her that well? Why is it that the "friends first" approach to dating is the one that society looks upon as 'the best'
in other words, society frowns upon two people meeting together and getting to know each other better, if the primary reason for doing so is that they are looking for a girlfriend/boyfriend.
You have to 'accidently' find each other, or get to know each other. You can't just 'seek' out another mate.
What is it with this? Do people have any clue how much faster you could get to know someone and hook up with someone, or how much easier it would be to find a 'good match' for you, if we just let go of these social inhibitions, and took more steps forward, not letting ourselves become paralyzed by the fear of "social awkwardness?"