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Why do chicks like to date older guys?

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holden j caufield

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very true drysdale but um I'm sure I noticed this too trend in college too. Two girls who lived on the same floor as I were both dating guys in there 40's. I mean these are 18 year old girls. I don't want to make judgements or anything what could a 18 year old and a 40 year old guy have in common? I did know that these guys had money. In fact one of the 40 year old guys owned a bar and let a bunch of the good looking girls of our dorm drink and hangout there.
 

AncientPC

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Both my exes are older than me . . .

Why do I date older women? *shrugs* In general about 90% of my friends are older than me because I'm a grade ahead so I just find it normal to hang around people of my grade level and therefore are older than me.

I'm only 18 though, and just a soph in college . . .
 

Drysdale

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<< Two girls who lived on the same floor as I were both dating guys in there 40's >>



Sounds like those two were in it for the reasons you go on to state: money, the bar=free entry/beer (most likely). Some women figure out early on (late teens, early 20s) the benefits of &quot;gold digging&quot; (I hate that term, and I'm sorry if that offends anyone, but I don't know what else to call it). And the older men get without finding the perfect mate, the more vulnerable they become to these tactics. I should know. The last girl I was with (over two years ago) was 23 and her only interest in me was to take her there, buy her that, etc...she never wanted to get to &quot;know me&quot; or do things I liked to do, nor did she ever let me hang out with her friends or want to meet my friends. I put an end to that quickly. So, for all you younger guys out there who know girls that are &quot;dating&quot; older men, think about it for a minute. Are they in it for a meaningful relationship, or are they in it just to have some fun? And do you really want to be with that someone if they're only in it for the money, cars, etc.? I doubt it. Find yourself a girl that wants to be with you for what you are, not what you have.
 

Anghang

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<< Yes, many of the young ladies want to be spanked by &quot;daddy.&quot; Sure, it's sick, but what you gonna do? :D >>


LMAO!!....
 

Emulex

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My gf is 10 years younger than me. She's very mature for her age. I on the other hand, am probably a little immature :) I don't look 30, she looks 20 :)

we are perfect for each other? What else is there to say. I have a stable job, great income, nice place, too. Girls dig that, but quite frankly many guys at 20 are eating ramen in their college rooms, with $2 bux to their names.

 

MuffD

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I agree with most of the comments mentioning that they date older guys because they are more mature, have money and (some) actually have something going on with their lives.
 

Emulex

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Its funny. when i met my girl i had no job, no car, no money (call me a loser, i was on a sabbatical..)

She fell in love with me with nothing, and now that i have a nice place, nice car, wad of cash (okay enough), and a career that pays near 6 figures, she still loves me.

I think age is less of an issue when you start to mature.

Btw, i've got both ways -10 years younger, and 10 years older (im 30), i definitely like younger women better..

The older lady i dated , she was pimp rich, i mean well over 6 figures. It was nice to have a sugar mama :) But you can't beat them teenager boobies.

 

holden j caufield

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yeah I do believe drysdale hit right but I think money and the &quot;cool&quot; factor have a greater impact. I mean these 40 ish guys were not good looking or anything, I can't see either of them having any real personality although I've only met them like once so I can't say it with 100% accuracy. Probably just confidence and money going for them. The bar owner had a active social life but the other guy looked like her dad. I think the girls got off on the fact that there was always a buzz around them about dating someone that much older. Who knows, I do know that women like confidence and you have to be able to make them laugh. Other than that I'm lost :)
 

lowfatbaconboy

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man our HS is full of fake bake ditzes that are bleach blonde
if i were in college i wouldn't want to date the girls from my HS
 

b0mbrman

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It happens a lot when you're younger (i.e. college and below) but once everyone catches up in maturity, it can go either way...I think...
 

ayn

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&quot;a lot of them are stuck up b!tches. sure, there are some nice ones, but again, there's the stuck up b!tch complex that many have&quot;

Same thing can be said about the men I have dated :D
 

Blundar

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all I have to say is you guys that date HS chicks better know what the laws are for age of consent and you better check ID. I had a girl lie to me about her age about 4 years ago ...

Summer after I turned 18... Me and my friend Todd picked her + her friend up at some concert. Forget which. They said they were 17, we figured they were probably 16 trying to sound older cause they saw both of us buy smokes blah blah blah. We get back to the girl's house, making out, half nekkid. Hear front door slam, girl says oh sh1t that's my mom. Get dressed in a hurry, I jump out of a window, run to car and start the car, wait for Todd. Todd runs out of the house a couple minutes later with his pants half hanging off his ass being pursued by a drunk drunk drunk mom waving a f!cking handgun.
I later found out after I screamed at the girl over the phone that she was 15 not 17 and her friend that Todd was banging was 14.

Moral of the story: if you play with underage girls their mom's may try to hurt you.

Other Moral of the story: Young chicks are immature and will lie to you about everything.

Other Other Moral of the story: I never talked to either of those girls ever again and I have no regrets about it. How meaningful was that?
 

chiQ

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Some of us just don't give a monkey's about age...

Quite frankly it comes down to the mental age of the guy. If you're on the same maturity level as a chick and she finds you attractive she'll go for you, regardless of whether you're older or younger. Numbers mean nowt.
 

zimu

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its even funnier when you wonder what a girl sees in this guy (not just age) and wonder what you don't have that this other retardo does....
 

StormRider

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She fell in love with me with nothing, and now that i have a nice place, nice car, wad of cash (okay enough), and a career that pays near 6 figures, she still loves me.

You make close to a million dollars a year? :Q
 

ManSnake

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You make close to a million dollars a year?

Six figures: 100,000 not 1,000,000
 

SJ

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Theres some truth to that, but theres a down side

As you age the ligament that holds your &quot;unit&quot; in place gives way, and that part that was inside comes outside(which is normally 2-4 inches), and it will point straight down all the time, plus it isn't stable and will flop around. People actually have surgery to do this.

But we all know girth is more important than length... And knowing how to use your tounge is more important than either...
 

StormRider

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You know, guys peak sexually around the age of 18 I think . . .

I've heard that. I've also heard that girls reach their sexual peak at 30. That means young guys should go out with older women *and* young girls while older guys like me (who lack the stamina) should just be happy with our hands.