Why are women so confusing?

[Chrishuff1]

No offense to all you ladies out there

We(my woman and me) are chatting about movies then all of a sudden she says "chris? what do you think will happen with us?" That kinda took me by surprise....after all we've only been dating 1 month! So I asked her to elaborate on it and she said "...maybe if we're actually right for eachother? i don't know chris." "now don't start getting worried. i'm just trying to sort things out. i want what God wants. i just wish i knew what that was" Now keep in mind this is all in reference to marriage...And I told her to take it 1 day at a time and not look forward to the future, it will only make things worse.

Now how many of you agree women are confusing?

 

[shiner]

Heh...heh...heh....bwaaaaaaaahhh!!

Sorry dude...been there and I know how it feels. By the way...there is no good answer to the question.

 

[nateholtrop]

wow..you would have handled it better than me i would've been like uh uh uh look a shooting star!

nate

 

[KatLei]

what's new?:disgust:

 

[Chrishuff1]

Well to answer her question I said "I think/hope we get married" she said "We'll wait and see"

 

[rippy]

Yup. I recently got hit with the same question. I know how it feels. As stated, no correct answer... but it seems as if you answered the best you could. I said something similar to my gf.

...and yes, women can be very confusing at times

 

[shiner]

See...if you say you want to marry her then she thinks you are some sort of clingy desperate freak. If you say "let's just take it day to day" she gets all upset and accuses you of not loving her.

 

[spanky]

then just close AIM and don't log on til tomorrow. maybe she forgot by then.

 

[Clinotus]

Not trying to be a dork, but after only one month either you guys are deeply in love or someone is a bit clingy.

 

[Chrishuff1]

LOL spanky. Its been bothering her for a while...but dang, she didnt have to just pop that in the middle of a movie conversation, just lead up to it for pete sakes! I thought she was gonna break up with me:Q

Maybe a little of both Clinotus.

 

[spanky]

maybe u can pop the same question to her next week and see how she likes it

 

[Chrishuff1]

LOL!

 

[linuxboy]

no, why lead up to it?

she feels comfortable enough just blurting this out. Either the trust level is high or she's unreserved (or both). Both can be very good, combined or separate.

good luck to you two

oh and women are NOT confusing. Not any more than men or life in general.

 

[Clinotus]

Chrishuff1, love your sig!

 

[urameatball]

given if I were in your situation, I'll just make so many jokes regarding the topic that she'll just get frustrated and say "you are so immature". I love it when that happens.

 

[imported_vr6]

just tell them, GO with the flow baby.

 

[spanky]

<< oh and women are NOT confusing. Not any more than men or life in general. >>



stop brownie nosing...it will get u nowhere on these forums

 

[linuxboy]

<< it will get u nowhere on these forums >>



bah, it's the truth !
and why would I want to &quot;get somewhere&quot;

I doubt my IP would be blocked since I rarely flame and this isn't some sort of reality for me in the way my real life is. It's just a place to gather new ideas and exchange views and possibly help the occasional reader with an insight.

 

[Chrishuff1]

linuxboy: The trust level is very high between us...we tell each other everything, although I still dont know her eye color

Clinotus: Thanks

urameatball: she'd pry beat me up before then, or dump me

 

[Blades]

Hey whats all the worrying about? If after one month she wants to marry you, ur a freakin pimp. Its not like if she asks you to marry her you HAVE to say yes.. Ur obviously in control of the situation if shes all clinging to you.

side note - Yes, women are very very confusing..