EA seems to be offering refunds now.
http://i.imgur.com/mIvml.png
Source:
http://social.bioware.com/group/5245/discussion/20779/
The ending is just full of plot holes. Good on EA for allowing refunds, and I hope that EA seriously re-evaluates Bioware's future and either makes some changes, or decides to just stop rather than going further down.
Given that DA3 has been reset, and the new DA3 will be transparent during development and will accept community feedback, I suspect SOMEONE realized that they'd totally lost touch of their fanbase.
Also, I think the whole writer at bioware saying she's better than everyone else because we all wish we had female reproductive organs...well, that ALSO kinda alienated people I think. If I did something at my work to draw negative attention to me (in direct context of my workplace) I'd be SEVERELY reprimanded, if not fired. But Bioware, no- they just come out and say how much they support her.