Well, I know two male hairdressers that are actually straight (they don't even swing, imagine!) and I knew a very straight seeming banker who was gay. Actually, I don't know any gay male hairdressers, but I do know one gay male dog groomer. He's a hoot.... a drag queen at night. Pink poodle, anyone?
Actually, one of the BEST parties I ever went to in my life was 15-20 gay men and me and my sister. I had the time of my life. I was surrounded by men! Wooo hooo!
There were "mom" gays... "Honey, let me get you a drink! Here's a pillow, you'll be more comfy sitting there now." These are probably my favorite kind. I love, love, love being mothered by guys.
There were military gays... the kind that SEEM so straight you can't believe they really are gay... but they are!
There were swishy gays, the funny dramatic type that I usually associate with community theater...
And then there were a couple of beautiful gay guys, the ones that make us women cry with disappointment when we find out.
The gay men I have known (and I have know many... I'm quite fond of them, actually. They treat me right.) either are in fields where they are 'safe' which I guess would include hairdressing but is mainly the arts OR they are in very conventional careers like banking and they hide their gayness for all they are worth.
Some gay guys I know have FABULOUS taste and yes, I look to them for advice. Others are taste-challenged.
To make my point, if I have one.... Given the sample I have to work with (and it's probably bigger than most 'cause I'm artsy) is that I have no idea what the answer to your question is.
