who pays for the wedding?!

[caitlion]

random question.. i was just wondering since i always thought i was the father of the bride.. my bf said his mom told him it was the mother?

(sorry i keep making so many topics)

 

[kami]

Whoever has the money, sometimes both.

 

[Kev]

bump

 

[lukatmyshu]

Originally posted by: caitlion
random question.. i was just wondering since i always thought i was the father of the bride.. my bf said his mom told him it was the mother?

(sorry i keep making so many topics)

You're not sure if you're the father or the mother of the bride? Need help figuring it out?

 

[waylman]

traditionally, it is the bride's parents. But, it really boils down to who actually has the money.

 

[caitlion]

Originally posted by: lukatmyshu

Originally posted by: caitlion
random question.. i was just wondering since i always thought i was the father of the bride.. my bf said his mom told him it was the mother?

(sorry i keep making so many topics)

You're not sure if you're the father or the mother of the bride? Need help figuring it out?

yes... is there a way to tell? 😉

 

[notfred]

The bride's parents.

 

[Fausto]

Originally posted by: waylman
traditionally, it is the bride's parents. But, it really boils down to who actually has the money.

Yup.

 

[blackdogdeek]

my parents and my wife's parents split most of the bill. we footed the rest.

 

[nativesunshine]

Originally posted by: kami
Whoever has the money, sometimes both.

I think that's the most ideal way to work out the financial matters of a wedding.

but traditionally it is supposed to be the bride's family.

 

[FoBoT]

Originally posted by: kami
Whoever has the money, sometimes both.

^^^

i paid for my best man's tuxedo and the rings of course

my parents paid for the reception in my home town, my wife's parents paid for the reception in her home town

 

[anxi80]

yes, traditionally the bride's parents cover the costs. thats why guys, if anyone here ever marries paris hilton, you'd be set with a fantastic wedding. just leave the camcorders at home! 😉

 

[Aquaman]

Originally posted by: waylman
traditionally, it is the bride's parents. But, it really boils down to who actually has the money.

In the Chinese culture the grooms side pays but since I live in North America usually everybody pays for who they invite (ie. grroms side pays for thiers, brides side pays for thier guests & the bride & grooom pay for thier guests).

Cheers,
Aquaman

 

[Miramonti]

 

[Miramonti]

Originally posted by: caitlion

Originally posted by: lukatmyshu

Originally posted by: caitlion random question.. i was just wondering since i always thought i was the father of the bride.. my bf said his mom told him it was the mother? (sorry i keep making so many topics)

You're not sure if you're the father or the mother of the bride? Need help figuring it out?

yes... is there a way to tell? 😉

Is it just my browser or is there no "wink" emoticon at the end of this original post? It appears you've been cheated! 😛

 

[captains]

Originally posted by: notfred
The bride's parents.

 

[caitlion]

Originally posted by: jjsole

Originally posted by: caitlion

Originally posted by: lukatmyshu

Originally posted by: caitlion random question.. i was just wondering since i always thought i was the father of the bride.. my bf said his mom told him it was the mother? (sorry i keep making so many topics)

You're not sure if you're the father or the mother of the bride? Need help figuring it out?

yes... is there a way to tell? 😉

Is it just my browser or is there no "wink" emoticon at the end of this original post? It appears you've been cheated! 😛

😛 i turn the emoticons off. i cant like them.

 

[BCYL]

Originally posted by: Aquaman

Originally posted by: waylman
traditionally, it is the bride's parents. But, it really boils down to who actually has the money.

In the Chinese culture the grooms side pays but since I live in North America usually everybody pays for who they invite (ie. grroms side pays for thiers, brides side pays for thier guests & the bride & grooom pay for thier guests).

Cheers,
Aquaman

Really? I should tell my parents that... cuz my gf and me will be paying for our own wedding...

 

[Miramonti]

Originally posted by: caitlion

Originally posted by: jjsole

Originally posted by: caitlion

Originally posted by: lukatmyshu

Originally posted by: caitlion random question.. i was just wondering since i always thought i was the father of the bride.. my bf said his mom told him it was the mother? (sorry i keep making so many topics)

You're not sure if you're the father or the mother of the bride? Need help figuring it out?

yes... is there a way to tell? 😉

Is it just my browser or is there no "wink" emoticon at the end of this original post? It appears you've been cheated! 😛

😛 i turn the emoticons off. i cant like them.

haha, I didn't realize that could be done. 😀

 

[Aquaman]

Originally posted by: BCYL

Originally posted by: Aquaman

Originally posted by: waylman
traditionally, it is the bride's parents. But, it really boils down to who actually has the money.

In the Chinese culture the grooms side pays but since I live in North America usually everybody pays for who they invite (ie. grroms side pays for thiers, brides side pays for thier guests & the bride & grooom pay for thier guests).

Cheers,
Aquaman

Really? I should tell my parents that... cuz my gf and me will be paying for our own wedding...

Any single brides maids 😉

Cheers,
Aquaman

 

[BCYL]

Originally posted by: Aquaman

Originally posted by: BCYL

Originally posted by: Aquaman

Originally posted by: waylman
traditionally, it is the bride's parents. But, it really boils down to who actually has the money.

In the Chinese culture the grooms side pays but since I live in North America usually everybody pays for who they invite (ie. grroms side pays for thiers, brides side pays for thier guests & the bride & grooom pay for thier guests).

Cheers,
Aquaman

Really? I should tell my parents that... cuz my gf and me will be paying for our own wedding...

Any single brides maids 😉

Cheers,
Aquaman

Sure, but I'm not sure if I should invite AT people, cuz I really dont want any drooling at my wedding...

 

[Aquaman]

Originally posted by: BCYL

Originally posted by: Aquaman

Originally posted by: BCYL

Originally posted by: Aquaman

Originally posted by: waylman
traditionally, it is the bride's parents. But, it really boils down to who actually has the money.

In the Chinese culture the grooms side pays but since I live in North America usually everybody pays for who they invite (ie. grroms side pays for thiers, brides side pays for thier guests & the bride & grooom pay for thier guests).

Cheers,
Aquaman

Really? I should tell my parents that... cuz my gf and me will be paying for our own wedding...

Any single brides maids 😉

Cheers,
Aquaman

Sure, but I'm not sure if I should invite AT people, cuz I really dont want any drooling at my wedding...

Don't worry I can wear my tux bib 😉

Cheers,
Aquaman