Which type of person would most likely be a more faithful spouse?

StormRider

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1) A person who has slept around with a lot of people before marrying.

2) A person who only had 1 or 2 partners (or perhaps even a virgin -- by virgin I'm also including not giving a handjob, blowjob or anal sex) before marrying.

Some would argue that a person who had few sex partners would later because curious or desire sex with more people to make up for lost time. So, in the end, they are less faithful.

Others would argue that a person who had many partners would tend to separate sex and love more easily and hence be more likely to cheat on their spouse.



 

PunDogg

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i would have to go with number 2, number 1 would want to get out and keep trying new people, espically if you weren;t the best for them

Dogg
 

Ronstang

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Why do you care? You will never have to worry about it, your hand will always be faithful.
 

TommyVercetti

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Confident and secure people will say #1
Jealous and suspecting types would prefer #2

In real world they will pick the opposite

Edit: I can't believe it. A serious post by StormRider? Well not really, I have seen him post in the P&N forum.
 

yllus

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Option #1, with very few exceptions.

My belief is almost every young lad and lady spends a period of time (usually between 18 - 24) experiencing as much as they can, while they can still stay up all night without needing a complete blood transfusion the next morning. :p Get it out of your system once and you'll settle down.
 

HappyPuppy

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And to think, my thread got locked.
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Iron Woode

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Originally posted by: StormRider
1) A person who has slept around with a lot of people before marrying.

2) A person who only had 1 or 2 partners (or perhaps even a virgin -- by virgin I'm also including not giving a handjob, blowjob or anal sex) before marrying.

Some would argue that a person who had few sex partners would later because curious or desire sex with more people to make up for lost time. So, in the end, they are less faithful.

Others would argue that a person who had many partners would tend to separate sex and love more easily and hence be more likely to cheat on their spouse.
I am still dealing with the emotional fallout of option #2.

I guess it would depend on the situation. Either option has good and bad points.
 

Mrburns2007

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I had a friend who married a slut and she was into the marriage for about six months and then started screwing around on him. I think sluts get bored with married life and can never stay settled down. It's just there nature to mess around.
 

fumbduck

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Well, just get into the bondage thing, leaving your partner chained to the bed at all times.

 

DurocShark

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Originally posted by: TheShiz
Originally posted by: IgoByte
Sluts are always less faithful.

I'd prefer #2 in any case.

what about male "sluts"?


I was a (male) slut in high school and until I was 20. My wife wasn't exactly a virgin, but she had like 5 partners. In fact, she was dating my friend for a while and saw I could easily go out with 5 girls in less than a week (I was insecure, can you tell?)

After marriage, she's the one who cheated. :p
 

Supahfreak

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Originally posted by: IgoByte
Sluts are always less faithful.

I'd prefer #2 in any case.

Girls with only 1-2 partners have the "what if's". They wonder if they missed out on the experiences more than experienced girls.

FreAk:D
 

Mrburns2007

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Originally posted by: Supahfreak
Originally posted by: IgoByte
Sluts are always less faithful.

I'd prefer #2 in any case.

Girls with only 1-2 partners have the "what if's". They wonder if they missed out on the experiences more than experienced girls.

FreAk:D

What about women who are virgins when they marry, I'm sure some only want to know one man.

 

Siddhartha

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Originally posted by: StormRider
1) A person who has slept around with a lot of people before marrying.

2) A person who only had 1 or 2 partners (or perhaps even a virgin -- by virgin I'm also including not giving a handjob, blowjob or anal sex) before marrying.

Some would argue that a person who had few sex partners would later because curious or desire sex with more people to make up for lost time. So, in the end, they are less faithful.

Others would argue that a person who had many partners would tend to separate sex and love more easily and hence be more likely to cheat on their spouse.

Unless you physically isolate someone, there is no guarantee either way,
 

GalvanizedYankee

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It is a no brainer #2. From 66 to 75 I was wasting my time running around.
Players think everyone else is a potential player, this is not true.
The best "normal" relationships are had, when the male is respected and the female
is cherished. These two do not go with "swinging".........:sun: