Are you the OP? You sound like "a loser" to me...
in 2003, when our son's helicopter squadron came home from Iraq a couple of weeks before Turkey day, we put out word that any and all who either had no place to go (or couldn't afford to go) were welcome to spend the day with us.
IIRC, we ended up with 8 or 9 Marines at our house for the holiday weekend.
They demolished a 25+ lb bird, a large beef roast, a large ham, 20 lbs of sweet potatos, 20 lbs of mashed potatos, 6 or 7 pies, a couple of loafs of different fruit breads, a couple of cakes, "Why Mrs. Boomer, that there's an upside down pineapple cake. That's my favorite!" and at least a couple of gallons of milk.
Having been a Marine once myself, I had a well stocked bar waiting for them, several whiskeys, vodka, rum, tequila, wine, and a couple of cases of beer. To my HUGE surprise, between them all, they might have drank a 12 pack of beer.
Later, we were told that the squadron commander had heard that we were inviting them to the house and ORDERED them not to get drunk and embarrass him...
He personally called up the week after Thanksgiving and thanked us for allowing his Marines to call our house "home" for the holiday. He's the one who explained about the drinking...
The next time we were at Miramar, we got to meet him and he thanked us again profusely. <shrug> Apparently we were the only family who had extended such an invite.
We were Camp Boomer for the holiday.
Semper Fi
USMC 1970-73