Originally posted by: cKGunslinger
Originally posted by: RedRooster
Physical.
A complete change of attitude CAN be done, which would improve your personality. But outside of surgery, physical beauty can't be changed easily.
So I'm saying anyone can have a nice personality(some just have to try harder), but you're only born with the physical gifts you were given(good or bad).
I hate being an ugly nice guy.
But it's not like you *did* anything by being physically attractive. Yeah, maybe you take care of your self and work out or something, but that's it. God or genetics or whatever gave you your good looks. No one deserves praise for that. That's why most beauty contests are so stupid. Nobel Prizes and academic acheivement awards, now that may mean something. Rewarding someone for hard work and dedication.
Complimenting someone on physical assests is like complimenting someone on the millions of $$ they inheireted from a rich relative. La-de-da!
(and yes, I *am* unattractive, but that's not the reason for my feelings!

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