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Whenever you are in a relationship...

When I'm starting a relationship, I'm not looking for sex. In fact, if it comes too easy, I have a problem with it. I'd rather get to know someone, and maybe after 5-10 dates, or at LEAST a month, before delving into the nakedness.

I'm old and I've come to realize a quality companionship > a fling.

Just my 2 cents. 🙂
 
Originally posted by: Mojoed
When I'm starting a relationship, I'm not looking for sex. In fact, if it comes too easy, I have a problem with it. I'd rather get to know someone, and maybe after 5-10 dates, or at LEAST a month, before delving into the nakedness.

I'm old and I've come to realize a quality companionship > a fling.

Just my 2 cents. 🙂
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I totally agree. When the time is right, it will happen.

There's more to a relationship than "hitting it".
 
Originally posted by: RossMAN
Originally posted by: Mojoed
When I'm starting a relationship, I'm not looking for sex. In fact, if it comes too easy, I have a problem with it. I'd rather get to know someone, and maybe after 5-10 dates, or at LEAST a month, before delving into the nakedness.

I'm old and I've come to realize a quality companionship > a fling.

Just my 2 cents. 🙂
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I totally agree. When the time is right, it will happen.

There's more to a relationship than "hitting it".
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Met this girl who said she gives it up after 3 dates. Guess where that relationship went...lol

Honestly, like the above poster said...there's a lot more to a relationship than just sex.....a whole lot more.

 
Personally, I'd prefer to take things gradually and enjoy the buildup, anticipation, and exploration...but it's been my experience that if she's willing to wait (or wants to), she's not waiting for the right time, she's waiting for someone else who turns her on more to show up. But, that's how life goes, I suppose.
 
All relationships I've had sex with quick went bad. Either I'm no good, or there is something psychological to it. This one girl fought it, waited, and said we should wait for the right time. We waited, waited, fooled around, waited, etc............. Finally, it happened. Sometimes waiting is good, MARRIED 5.5 YEARS TO HER NOW. Easy is fun, but most likely not long lasting.

If you really like her, as nerdy as it may feel, try and hold off and tease her. Make her want it more than you. Trust me, it can and will happen. Be funny, smart, sexy, and wait. (But don't wait too long, that's the tough part). When you finally give in, she will be a screaming, twisted, ball of orgasmic silly putty.

ON EDIT, I'M LIKE 33 OR 36 OR SOMETHING
 
Originally posted by: johnjbruin
when the time is right it will happen
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Ditto.

Well being single before it wasn't an issue. But now it still wouldn't be an issue.

Just wait it out and it will happen naturally. Enjoy the tease and the waiting and the other intimate things you can do without full sex.

It will just happen in it's own time. If not just bend her over anyway 😛

Koing
 
Originally posted by: RossMAN
Originally posted by: Mojoed
When I'm starting a relationship, I'm not looking for sex. In fact, if it comes too easy, I have a problem with it. I'd rather get to know someone, and maybe after 5-10 dates, or at LEAST a month, before delving into the nakedness.

I'm old and I've come to realize a quality companionship > a fling.

Just my 2 cents. 🙂
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I totally agree. When the time is right, it will happen.

There's more to a relationship than "hitting it".
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unless you're looking for some serious POON =)
 
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