I'm 14 and I prefer my mom. Yeah my dad doesn't give me the occasional lecture on not having sex before marriage, and doesn't say things like (if you watched pornography, you would tell me, right?), but my dad just isn't all that friendly. He wakes up a 6am, goes to work, comes home at ~8PM, goes to sleep in the basement while my mom sleeps upstairs. He stays in the basement all weekend doing work. And he's seriously doing work sometimes I go down there and he has like a 100 page article that he's typing up. My mom homeschooles me too so needless to say I spend ALOT more time with her.
EDIT: He doesn't talk to my mom much either and when he does it's usually either saying "hows the money in the account" or "the house is so messy".

. He hasn't slept in the same room as her for about 10 years so I'm a bit worried

.