when you compare yourself to others... how does that make you feel

skim milk

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it makes me feel like sh!t.

didn't enjoy a thing, graduating late by two years, no relevant experience, no job prospect, couple more years of solving bunch of math problems, and etc.
Plus my personality combination is one of the worst

the least I can do is try to have fun and live it up.. I can't even do that
 

Dangerer

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same, played no sports in hs. joined no clubs, had little friends.. argh, i blame the internet. oh well i guess it's not so bad comparing myself to you fritolays
 

iamtrout

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Never had a girlfriend yet. 20. Introvert. Graduating late by three years probably (3 major changes). Hoping business will change things, or at least make me money to go travel and live day to day.
 
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start taking risks and go outing. try new things, sports/exercise, clubbing, etc.. best is to go to places ideal/comfortable to you so it wont be as hard to make new friends than some random place that just has people there everyday.
 

Conky

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I feel superior to everyone I have ever met. :beer:

Some say delusions of grandeur, others say I am grand. :D


 

YoshiSato

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I'm better than everyone. That's what happens when you are god like(but I prefer the term daemon; which is a being between god and man)

Throw in the fact I make twice that of most people my age. I'm hell of a lot better than them.


:cool:
 

skim milk

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Originally posted by: iamtrout
Never had a girlfriend yet. 20. Introvert. Graduating late by three years probably (3 major changes). Hoping business will change things, or at least make me money to go travel and live day to day.

Same situation, except I'm 21 and minus the business money making part.
You're in a better place than me
 

iamtrout

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Originally posted by: fritolays
Originally posted by: iamtrout
Never had a girlfriend yet. 20. Introvert. Graduating late by three years probably (3 major changes). Hoping business will change things, or at least make me money to go travel and live day to day.

Same situation, except I'm 21 and minus the business money making part.
You're in a better place than me

Are you ugly? Cuz I think I am. I don't ever show my teeth when I smile.

Are you fat? Well, I'm short. Shorter than most guys and many girls.

Are you asian? I'm Asian and girls go for caucasians.

Business hasn't left the ground yet. I'm hoping money will solve all my problems. If I can't find happiness in people I'll find happiness in green.
 

YoshiSato

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Originally posted by: iamtrout
Originally posted by: fritolays
Originally posted by: iamtrout
Never had a girlfriend yet. 20. Introvert. Graduating late by three years probably (3 major changes). Hoping business will change things, or at least make me money to go travel and live day to day.

Same situation, except I'm 21 and minus the business money making part.
You're in a better place than me

Are you ugly? Cuz I think I am. I don't ever show my teeth when I smile.

Are you fat? Well, I'm short. Shorter than most guys and many girls.

Are you asian? I'm Asian and girls go for caucasians.

Business hasn't left the ground yet. I'm hoping money will solve all my problems. If I can't find happiness in people I'll find happiness in green.

And if your busineess fails you may want to consider sempukku.
It would do us all a favor no more self pitty whining.

 

iamtrout

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Originally posted by: YoshiSato
Originally posted by: iamtrout
Originally posted by: fritolays
Originally posted by: iamtrout
Never had a girlfriend yet. 20. Introvert. Graduating late by three years probably (3 major changes). Hoping business will change things, or at least make me money to go travel and live day to day.

Same situation, except I'm 21 and minus the business money making part.
You're in a better place than me

Are you ugly? Cuz I think I am. I don't ever show my teeth when I smile.

Are you fat? Well, I'm short. Shorter than most guys and many girls.

Are you asian? I'm Asian and girls go for caucasians.

Business hasn't left the ground yet. I'm hoping money will solve all my problems. If I can't find happiness in people I'll find happiness in green.

And if your busineess fails you may want to consider sempukku.
It would do us all a favor no more self pitty whining.

Meh, if my business fails I'll just keep on killing people for a living.
 

eflat

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Originally posted by: fritolays
it makes me feel like sh!t.

didn't enjoy a thing, graduating late by two years, no relevant experience, no job prospect, couple more years of solving bunch of math problems, and etc.
Plus my personality combination is one of the worst

the least I can do is try to have fun and live it up.. I can't even do that

it makes me feel like i have too much time on my hands.

i know lots of perfectly happy mexicans mopping the floors for minimum wage.

you are probably both depressed and have ulrealistic expectations for yourself. you can at least get help for the former. it's nothing to be embarassed about.
 

JLGatsby

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Originally posted by: CitizenDoug
Originally posted by: fritolays
it makes me feel like sh!t.

didn't enjoy a thing, graduating late by two years, no relevant experience, no job prospect, couple more years of solving bunch of math problems, and etc.
Plus my personality combination is one of the worst

the least I can do is try to have fun and live it up.. I can't even do that

it makes me feel like i have too much time on my hands.

i know lots of perfectly happy mexicans mopping the floors for minimum wage.

you are probably both depressed and have ulrealistic expectations for yourself. you can at least get help for the former. it's nothing to be embarassed about.

That does not mean you shouldn't maintain standards which to live by.
 

YoshiSato

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Originally posted by: iamtrout
Originally posted by: YoshiSato
Originally posted by: iamtrout
Originally posted by: fritolays
Originally posted by: iamtrout
Never had a girlfriend yet. 20. Introvert. Graduating late by three years probably (3 major changes). Hoping business will change things, or at least make me money to go travel and live day to day.

Same situation, except I'm 21 and minus the business money making part.
You're in a better place than me

Are you ugly? Cuz I think I am. I don't ever show my teeth when I smile.

Are you fat? Well, I'm short. Shorter than most guys and many girls.

Are you asian? I'm Asian and girls go for caucasians.

Business hasn't left the ground yet. I'm hoping money will solve all my problems. If I can't find happiness in people I'll find happiness in green.

And if your busineess fails you may want to consider sempukku.
It would do us all a favor no more self pitty whining.

Meh, if my business fails I'll just keep on killing people for a living.


They can use guys like you in iraq. Bounty hunters make good money too.
 

eflat

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Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: CitizenDoug
Originally posted by: fritolays
it makes me feel like sh!t.

didn't enjoy a thing, graduating late by two years, no relevant experience, no job prospect, couple more years of solving bunch of math problems, and etc.
Plus my personality combination is one of the worst

the least I can do is try to have fun and live it up.. I can't even do that

it makes me feel like i have too much time on my hands.

i know lots of perfectly happy mexicans mopping the floors for minimum wage.

you are probably both depressed and have ulrealistic expectations for yourself. you can at least get help for the former. it's nothing to be embarassed about.

That does not mean you shouldn't maintain standards which to live by.

as long as you have food, shelter and health care you are better off than most of the world. be thankful for that.
 

xSkyDrAx

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Originally posted by: Crazyfool
I feel superior to everyone I have ever met. :beer:

Some say delusions of grandeur, others say I am grand. :D

Your user name is fitting.
 

JLGatsby

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Originally posted by: CitizenDoug
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: CitizenDoug
Originally posted by: fritolays
it makes me feel like sh!t.

didn't enjoy a thing, graduating late by two years, no relevant experience, no job prospect, couple more years of solving bunch of math problems, and etc.
Plus my personality combination is one of the worst

the least I can do is try to have fun and live it up.. I can't even do that

it makes me feel like i have too much time on my hands.

i know lots of perfectly happy mexicans mopping the floors for minimum wage.

you are probably both depressed and have ulrealistic expectations for yourself. you can at least get help for the former. it's nothing to be embarassed about.

That does not mean you shouldn't maintain standards which to live by.

as long as you have food, shelter and health care you are better off than most of the world. be thankful for that.

If you have less than what you're able to get, you should be ashamed of yourself.

What kind of society will be created if the motto is to only do as much as you need to suvive and nothing more and no one cared to achieve anything in life? Stonertopia? HomerSimpsonville?

"A day merely survived is no cause for celebration."
--Og Mandino
 

l Xes l

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try to think of thousands of those who are dying at the moment just because they are short in food... or medical care... and feel better..
 

l Xes l

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Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: CitizenDoug
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: CitizenDoug
Originally posted by: fritolays
it makes me feel like sh!t.

didn't enjoy a thing, graduating late by two years, no relevant experience, no job prospect, couple more years of solving bunch of math problems, and etc.
Plus my personality combination is one of the worst

the least I can do is try to have fun and live it up.. I can't even do that

it makes me feel like i have too much time on my hands.

i know lots of perfectly happy mexicans mopping the floors for minimum wage.

you are probably both depressed and have ulrealistic expectations for yourself. you can at least get help for the former. it's nothing to be embarassed about.

That does not mean you shouldn't maintain standards which to live by.

as long as you have food, shelter and health care you are better off than most of the world. be thankful for that.

If you have less than what you're able to get, you should be ashamed of yourself.

What kind of society will be created if the motto is to only do as much as you need to suvive and nothing more and no one cared to achieve anything in life? Stonertopia? HomerSimpsonville?

"A day merely survived is no cause for celebration."
--Og Mandino

your mentality is the bi-product of today's elistism and capitalistic society...
do you have any idea what some people have to go though just go get a cup of drinkable water.. when people are cursing the another human being who gives them "regular" coke instead of "diet" coke by mistake.. i hope you will come to a realization one day to see through the blinds of YOUR world...
 

JLGatsby

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Originally posted by: krnxpride83
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: CitizenDoug
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: CitizenDoug
Originally posted by: fritolays
it makes me feel like sh!t.

didn't enjoy a thing, graduating late by two years, no relevant experience, no job prospect, couple more years of solving bunch of math problems, and etc.
Plus my personality combination is one of the worst

the least I can do is try to have fun and live it up.. I can't even do that

it makes me feel like i have too much time on my hands.

i know lots of perfectly happy mexicans mopping the floors for minimum wage.

you are probably both depressed and have ulrealistic expectations for yourself. you can at least get help for the former. it's nothing to be embarassed about.

That does not mean you shouldn't maintain standards which to live by.

as long as you have food, shelter and health care you are better off than most of the world. be thankful for that.

If you have less than what you're able to get, you should be ashamed of yourself.

What kind of society will be created if the motto is to only do as much as you need to suvive and nothing more and no one cared to achieve anything in life? Stonertopia? HomerSimpsonville?

"A day merely survived is no cause for celebration."
--Og Mandino

your mentality is the bi-product of today's elistism and capitalistic society...
do you have any idea what some people have to go though just go get a cup of drinkable water.. when people are cursing the another human being who gives them "regular" coke instead of "diet" coke by mistake.. i hope you will come to a realization one day to see through the blinds of YOUR world...

Do you know how our society created the luxuries we have today? By thinking the way I described.

Question: Would you rather us all live in huts and do as little as possible?

Do you know why some societies thrive and others don't? It's the culture.

Ambition creates prosperity.

I understand you're probably in that "adolescent hippy" phase and it may seem fashionable to be the "activist" fighting against "the man," but in reality, the greedy businessman creates more prosperity and puts more food on people's plates than the "zen activist."

Take the Amish as an example. Their lives are miserable because of their dysfunctional culture. They have very little joy (of course joy can be relative, but it could be so much better for them) outside of working and they have an entire world filled with encyclopedias, museums, art, business, material possessions (which this entire site is dedicated to), and the diverse philosophies of life which can bring them so many different kinds of joy, but instead they ignore those things and waste their lives living the same way for generations. Almost as they do not know what joy, life, or love is outside their unexperienced opinions because they refuse to acquire to means to learn how to comprehend new philosophies. They live to survive, nothing more.
 

l Xes l

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Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: krnxpride83
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: CitizenDoug
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: CitizenDoug
Originally posted by: fritolays
it makes me feel like sh!t.

didn't enjoy a thing, graduating late by two years, no relevant experience, no job prospect, couple more years of solving bunch of math problems, and etc.
Plus my personality combination is one of the worst

the least I can do is try to have fun and live it up.. I can't even do that

it makes me feel like i have too much time on my hands.

i know lots of perfectly happy mexicans mopping the floors for minimum wage.

you are probably both depressed and have ulrealistic expectations for yourself. you can at least get help for the former. it's nothing to be embarassed about.

That does not mean you shouldn't maintain standards which to live by.

as long as you have food, shelter and health care you are better off than most of the world. be thankful for that.

If you have less than what you're able to get, you should be ashamed of yourself.

What kind of society will be created if the motto is to only do as much as you need to suvive and nothing more and no one cared to achieve anything in life? Stonertopia? HomerSimpsonville?

"A day merely survived is no cause for celebration."
--Og Mandino

your mentality is the bi-product of today's elistism and capitalistic society...
do you have any idea what some people have to go though just go get a cup of drinkable water.. when people are cursing the another human being who gives them "regular" coke instead of "diet" coke by mistake.. i hope you will come to a realization one day to see through the blinds of YOUR world...

Do you know how our society created the luxuries we have today? By thinking the way I described.

Question: Would you rather us all live in huts and do as little as possible?

Do you know why some societies thrive and others don't? It's the culture.

Ambition creates prosperity.

I understand you're probably in that "adolescent hippy" phase and it may seem fashionable to be the "activist" fighting against "the man," but in reality, the greedy businessman creates more prosperity and puts more food on people's plates than the "zen activist."

Take the Amish as an example. Their lives are miserable because of their dysfunctional culture. They have very little joy (of course joy can be relative, but it could be so much better for them) outside of working and have an entire world filled with encyclopedias, museums, art, business, material possessions (which this entire site is dedicated to), and the diverse philosophies of life which can bring them so many different kinds of joy. But instead they waste their lives living the same way for generations. Almost as they do not know what joy, life, or love is outside their unexperienced opinions because they refuse to acquire to means to learn how to comprehend new philosophies. They live to survive, nothing more.


wow. you are on the wrong train buddy.
do i have anything against luxurious living? Hell no. hook me up.
my point was that today's society drove people to be mindless patrols who believes the "luxuries" to be the "necessities"... i do not object the "to the fullest potential" living.. but i want you to ackowledge that some people are living in worlds where there's no such meaning that we that we call "potential".... do you think people are starving to death because they are lazy and refused to work?... it's just simple and clear: there is no work and no food.
 

compuwiz1

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I don't compare myself to others....It's just too hard to be humble, when I'm perfect in every way. LOL :D
 

eflat

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Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: krnxpride83
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: CitizenDoug
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: CitizenDoug
Originally posted by: fritolays
it makes me feel like sh!t.

didn't enjoy a thing, graduating late by two years, no relevant experience, no job prospect, couple more years of solving bunch of math problems, and etc.
Plus my personality combination is one of the worst

the least I can do is try to have fun and live it up.. I can't even do that

it makes me feel like i have too much time on my hands.

i know lots of perfectly happy mexicans mopping the floors for minimum wage.

you are probably both depressed and have ulrealistic expectations for yourself. you can at least get help for the former. it's nothing to be embarassed about.

That does not mean you shouldn't maintain standards which to live by.

as long as you have food, shelter and health care you are better off than most of the world. be thankful for that.

If you have less than what you're able to get, you should be ashamed of yourself.

What kind of society will be created if the motto is to only do as much as you need to suvive and nothing more and no one cared to achieve anything in life? Stonertopia? HomerSimpsonville?

"A day merely survived is no cause for celebration."
--Og Mandino

your mentality is the bi-product of today's elistism and capitalistic society...
do you have any idea what some people have to go though just go get a cup of drinkable water.. when people are cursing the another human being who gives them "regular" coke instead of "diet" coke by mistake.. i hope you will come to a realization one day to see through the blinds of YOUR world...

Do you know how our society created the luxuries we have today? By thinking the way I described.

Question: Would you rather us all live in huts and do as little as possible?

Do you know why some societies thrive and others don't? It's the culture.

Ambition creates prosperity.

I understand you're probably in that "adolescent hippy" phase and it may seem fashionable to be the "activist" fighting against "the man," but in reality, the greedy businessman creates more prosperity and puts more food on people's plates than the "zen activist."

Take the Amish as an example. Their lives are miserable because of their dysfunctional culture. They have very little joy (of course joy can be relative, but it could be so much better for them) outside of working and they have an entire world filled with encyclopedias, museums, art, business, material possessions (which this entire site is dedicated to), and the diverse philosophies of life which can bring them so many different kinds of joy, but instead they ignore those things and waste their lives living the same way for generations. Almost as they do not know what joy, life, or love is outside their unexperienced opinions because they refuse to acquire to means to learn how to comprehend new philosophies. They live to survive, nothing more.

Well how is this for an idea, idiot ;)


To be successful is business you must be greedy and ruthless. And indeed you do more good for the poor than the zen activist.

However, why do you need to be greedy in your personal life as well? Run a successful business, make it to the top, and then set an example for those below.

You do not need 20 cars. You need one car. You do not need a giant house, you just need a clean one sufficiently big to entertain fellow businessmen.

Imagine that. A seemingly greedy businessman who sets a good example. That is the future, my idiotic friend.
 

eflat

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Originally posted by: compuwiz1
I don't compare myself to others....It's just too hard to be humble, when I'm perfect in every way. LOL :D

It's okay we'll keep you in check.