When you are making plans with a girl...

Hyperblaze

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Are you normally the one responsible for making plans or does she also give you input on what she wants to do?

I tend to get the case of "I don't know, what do you want to do"?

 

LanceM

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My wife wants me to make the decisions, but gets mad when I don't make the right ones.
 

Hyperblaze

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Originally posted by: spidey07
Men are supposed to lead.

So lead.

I strongly believe in equal rights :D

I'd like her share of input so that we do something we both enjoy!
 

spidey07

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Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
I strongly believe in equal rights :D

I'd like her share of input so that we do something we both enjoy!

You need to get it through your head that women want you to make the decisions. That's what the man is supposed to do. If she wants to do something in particular then she'll ask.
 

JS80

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Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
Originally posted by: spidey07
Men are supposed to lead.

So lead.

I strongly believe in equal rights :D

I'd like her share of input so that we do something we both enjoy!

to them equal rights means equal money, not equal work.
 

blue1friday2

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Sometimes I say "I don't know" because I genuinely don't care. It's not like everyday I have some idea or some plan of stuff to do. Sometimes I say "hey let's go play mini-golf" and sometimes I say "I don't know." It's not like guys never say they don't know. Maybe she doesn't care.

Edited: for extremely poor grammar.
 

thirdlegstump

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I too believe in equal rights for women and when making plans with my gf, I give allowance for her input. However in the end, the judgement hammer is mine as all women are incapable of making rational decisions.
 

erub

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Originally posted by: deathkoba
I too believe in equal rights for women and when making plans with my gf, I give allowance for her input. However in the end, the judgement hammer is mine as all women are incapable of making rational decisions.

haha

yeah, especially if I'm casually dating someone, I usually chose something that I would like to do, I figure she won't accept or offer an alternative if she's not interested in that. After dating someone for a while though, its nice if they at least occasionally offer up something..