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When was the last time you cried from your own REAL LIFE event?

Zeze

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Mar 4, 2011
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It's common to get emotional over movies, or life documentaries, etc.

But when was the last time you cried from something you experienced in your own life?

For me it was breaking up with my ex 3 years ago. Although I was the heartbreaker, I was sad because I cared for her as a friend and she took it pretty bad.

But I don't like this example because breakups are..... typical.

Anyone have a cooler / movie-like experience with strangers or friends?
 

Engineer

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Oct 9, 1999
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When I had to tell my wife that I just lost $60,000 in the stock market (about 4 to 5 years ago).
 

HamburgerBoy

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Apr 12, 2004
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I don't remember exactly. Probably over the summer stressing out about taking the GRE while trying to sleep.
 

AreaCode707

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Sep 21, 2001
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Last week when one of our special goats was killed. Thread is around here somewhere. :( Felt so bad we couldn't protect our pet from a horrible death.
 

Sho'Nuff

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Jul 12, 2007
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2.5 years ago, when my son was born. Best thing that ever happened in my life.
 

masterxfob

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May 20, 2001
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i get misty eyed whenever i see or think of my 8 month old niece. so sweet and pure, i just get emotional, am so happy, at just a thought of her.
 

Cerpin Taxt

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Feb 23, 2005
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Death of my grandfather. I didn't cry at the funeral of my paternal grandfather, but my maternal grandfather was incredibly special. I can feel it well up in me still, if I sit and think about it. I miss him so much.
 

Lummex

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Apr 6, 2008
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I think about 6 months ago. I just had so much stress bottled up inside of me. Needed to let it out somehow. So happy a lot of that stress is gone now!
 

davmat787

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My wife and I had twins born prematurely due to an abruption. One weighed 1 pound 10 ounces, the other 2 pounds 10 ounces. After we were told the odds of them developing all sorts of conditions like 65% retardation, etc. And the fact that both even living more than a week is very unlikely. That was too much and I cried over that, the thought they would have such an uphill battle and might not lead a normal life.

They were in the NICU for over three months before we could bring them home, hell it was about a month before we could even hold them. Then there was the time I was holding one of them and she stopped breathing. Turned grey and appeared dead. Fortunately the NICU nurses are some of the best and were able to handbag her back into normal breathing, but just the thought of holding your newborn nearly dead was too much and I cried from that.

Don't consider it unmanly under the circumstances and exhaustion.

Turns out they beat all of the odds and are doing good in school. There are a few eyesight issues but nothing that is not or can not be fixed thru some standard corrective measures. When they were about three, we were even approached by a modeling talent scout, he was legit and said they are absolutely beautiful and coupled with the fact that twins are in demand thought we could make some very decent cash.

It did not take long for the wife and I to decide it was not the right thing to do for both the twins and us. They are going to be a couple of heart breakers though.
 
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apac

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It did not take long for the wife and I to decide it was not the right thing to do for both the twins and us. They are going to be a couple of heart breakers though.

You are very, very smart parents. Bravo.
 

Sluggo

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Jun 12, 2000
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Putting my dog down, its a lot more emotionally trying than you think its going to be.
 

Remobz

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Jun 9, 2005
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A few days after my mom's funeral when it finally hit me.

I was in denial for awhile and then it hit me so damn hard that was in the fetal position crying like I never did before.

Whenever I see movies about people on death beds from cancer I get emotional to this day:(
 

Dr. Zaus

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In 1976, sitting off the coast of Vladivostok, the red faced, red headed 21 year old sat at the fire control technician’s station with his hand on the end of the world and revenge in his heart. The central military port for the Russian navy in the Pacific, Vladivostok, had a population of over five hundred thousand civilians. It didn’t seem that targeting missiles, each with multiple nuclear warheads, on civilians was moral dilemma for the top brass. Particularly so given the three not targeted at the Russians. Drills are common on a nuclear fast attack sub. Drill, drill, drill was the motto, most likely so that, when the time came to end the world, those aboard would treat it like little more than another drill.

The first part of the drill came down: target the red’s city. All but three of the nuclear weapons targeted the sea port, barracks and church. The Godless communists used the church as a communication center, knowing that the articles of war forbid the destruction of religious buildings. The missiles were set for air-burst, five hundred feet off the ground, the height that would maximize the damage and minimize the fall out.

The second part of the drill came down: flood the tubes. This was not a common occurrence in a nuclear launch drill, but all the same orders were followed. The launch tubes were flooded, all but three of the missiles targeted and ready for use, “just in case those red sons of bitches ever hit us”. These were intended to be ship-to-ship weapons, small bombs, only ten times the strength of that dropped on Hiroshima and not designed for use on civilian populations.

The third order came down, “red day seven”. The chief of the boat read aloud, this was not a drill. The captain of the boat and first officer retrieved their launch keys. “red day seven”, the chief read the second confirmation, the officers put their keys into the launch panel and turned them. “red day seven” the final confirmation code was read out loud, in disbelief the officers re-read the code themselves. On their order my dad opened the launch tubes and brought the knife switch to half way.

As the ginger man sat there, he wondered if he was truly going to do this. Was he going to be the man to move his hand seven inches to the left and end the world? He was an incredibly smart man, only the brightest can make it through nuclear training school and only the best of those are given the job of fire control technician. He reasoned in himself that we would never launch first. If we were launching then it was only because they had tested the will of the US to respond. “Those sons of bitches had already killed our women and children”. He was ready; he was going to do this. His hand sweaty, he held tight on the lever arm, ready for the final command.

“fire”, he thought in his mind, and the fire of hell itself would be brought to these Godless red bastards. Just then, the order came down, “abort, abort, abort”, three hands were on the launch switch in an instant and slowly the leaver was put back into pre-launch position.
 

Rhoxed

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Jun 23, 2007
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A couple times recently, lost my grandmother 1 month ago, and 2 close friends in the last week. These have been some trying times lately.