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When I Knew I Was Gay

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Originally posted by: aidanjm
Originally posted by: Injury
Originally posted by: HeroOfPellinor
It's funny. Nobody ever BECOMES anything...we're all born the way we are. You aren't lazy...you were born with ADD. You aren't hiding your problems at the bottom of a bottle of booze....you were born an alcoholic. Heck, somebody made a post a few weeks back linking to a study that says if you're a religeous person it's not because you made that decision through countless hours of mental reasoning....it's because you were born that way. You're not fat because you overeat...you were born that way.

:thumbsup: for urinating on every person who prefers to shift blame for life's problems on other things.

it's pretty one sided. he fails to acknowlege that many human qualities are indeed determined before birth. Hair color, eye color, handedness (left handed, right handed), some aspects of personality and temperament, etc. blame implies someone or something is at fault. I see homosexuality as a perfectly natural and healthy, normal veriation of human sexuality (just as being left handed is a perfectly normal human variation) and therefore I wouldn't use the word "blame" when talking about causes. You might as well ask what is to blame for people being straight.

Hopefully one day there will be a cure for those who are gay. Whether the problem originated from some mutation or gene thing or something else...well I'm not a doctor so I'll leave that to them.

Homosexuality is not a natural/healthy/normal occurance IMO.
 
Originally posted by: Ryan
When did you know Aidan?

I can't pinpoint a specific time, but I do know that I was 12 or 13 when I was actually able realize that I was gay, and had the knowledge/words to understand that.

Also - coudn't they find some attractive guys to go on Oprah!?!

Just because you arent attracted to them doesnt make them unattractive. :shocked:
 
Originally posted by: Cabages
Its funny as ****** at my house. My brother actually believes himself to be a girl. He believes God made an accident, and slapped a dick on him. God should have slapped a "Dumbass" sticker on him instead.

Tell me, how in the hell are you born gay, when you can be straight than all of a suddenly turn gay? Wouldnt you be born f***ed up instead?

Depending on the circumstances, doctors may have determined your brother's gender. Very rarely there are cases where a child is born with ambiguous sexual organs and the doctors make a decision by hitting the kid up with hormones of either sex.
 
Originally posted by: Ryan
Originally posted by: zoiks
Originally posted by: The Godfather
Ahh i don't want to say anything on this subject, so i won't. But damn, if you're gay, you're gay. You don't have to make it all public, asking for marriage, talking like a bitch and acting feminine. Just bang guys and move on with your life.

No, i'm not gay.


KY jelly and a sphinctor is all you need. If you're gay that is.

KY?!!? Any respectable gay man knows to use Pjor Eros 😛
Huh! Just ordered a bottle -- I'd been using Astroglide...
 
Originally posted by: hjo3
Originally posted by: Ryan
Originally posted by: zoiks
Originally posted by: The Godfather
Ahh i don't want to say anything on this subject, so i won't. But damn, if you're gay, you're gay. You don't have to make it all public, asking for marriage, talking like a bitch and acting feminine. Just bang guys and move on with your life.

No, i'm not gay.


KY jelly and a sphinctor is all you need. If you're gay that is.

KY?!!? Any respectable gay man knows to use Pjor Eros 😛
Huh! Just ordered a bottle -- I'd been using Astroglide...

It's awesome stuff - you only need a few drops - never dries out, even water proof 😱
 
Originally posted by: Ryan
Originally posted by: hjo3
Originally posted by: Ryan
Originally posted by: zoiks
Originally posted by: The Godfather
Ahh i don't want to say anything on this subject, so i won't. But damn, if you're gay, you're gay. You don't have to make it all public, asking for marriage, talking like a bitch and acting feminine. Just bang guys and move on with your life.

No, i'm not gay.


KY jelly and a sphinctor is all you need. If you're gay that is.

KY?!!? Any respectable gay man knows to use Pjor Eros 😛
Huh! Just ordered a bottle -- I'd been using Astroglide...

It's awesome stuff - you only need a few drops - never dries out, even water proof 😱

:disgust: Why don't you just use synthetic motor oil? 😛
 
Originally posted by: arcenite
Originally posted by: Ryan
Originally posted by: hjo3
Originally posted by: Ryan
Originally posted by: zoiks
Originally posted by: The Godfather
Ahh i don't want to say anything on this subject, so i won't. But damn, if you're gay, you're gay. You don't have to make it all public, asking for marriage, talking like a bitch and acting feminine. Just bang guys and move on with your life.

No, i'm not gay.


KY jelly and a sphinctor is all you need. If you're gay that is.

KY?!!? Any respectable gay man knows to use Pjor Eros 😛
Huh! Just ordered a bottle -- I'd been using Astroglide...

It's awesome stuff - you only need a few drops - never dries out, even water proof 😱

:disgust: Why don't you just use synthetic motor oil? 😛

Because this stuff is good for your skin too 😛 Doesn't stain 😉
 
Originally posted by: arcenite
Originally posted by: Ryan
Originally posted by: hjo3
Originally posted by: Ryan
Originally posted by: zoiks
Originally posted by: The Godfather
Ahh i don't want to say anything on this subject, so i won't. But damn, if you're gay, you're gay. You don't have to make it all public, asking for marriage, talking like a bitch and acting feminine. Just bang guys and move on with your life.

No, i'm not gay.


KY jelly and a sphinctor is all you need. If you're gay that is.

KY?!!? Any respectable gay man knows to use Pjor Eros 😛
Huh! Just ordered a bottle -- I'd been using Astroglide...

It's awesome stuff - you only need a few drops - never dries out, even water proof 😱

:disgust: Why don't you just use synthetic motor oil? 😛

What the hell are you talking about? Is that an oil you use for anal sex? I don't get it. Excuse me if i'm wrong but from the above comments it sounds very much like it.
 
Originally posted by: Ryan
Originally posted by: zoiks
Originally posted by: The Godfather
Ahh i don't want to say anything on this subject, so i won't. But damn, if you're gay, you're gay. You don't have to make it all public, asking for marriage, talking like a bitch and acting feminine. Just bang guys and move on with your life.

No, i'm not gay.


KY jelly and a sphinctor is all you need. If you're gay that is.

KY?!!? Any respectable gay man knows to use Pjor Eros 😛

Wow, that's expensive for only 100ml... but if it only requires a couple of drops, then it sounds great. I'm gonna grab a bottle 😛
 
Originally posted by: The Godfather
Originally posted by: arcenite
Originally posted by: Ryan
Originally posted by: hjo3
Originally posted by: Ryan
Originally posted by: zoiks
Originally posted by: The Godfather
Ahh i don't want to say anything on this subject, so i won't. But damn, if you're gay, you're gay. You don't have to make it all public, asking for marriage, talking like a bitch and acting feminine. Just bang guys and move on with your life.

No, i'm not gay.


KY jelly and a sphinctor is all you need. If you're gay that is.

KY?!!? Any respectable gay man knows to use Pjor Eros 😛
Huh! Just ordered a bottle -- I'd been using Astroglide...

It's awesome stuff - you only need a few drops - never dries out, even water proof 😱

:disgust: Why don't you just use synthetic motor oil? 😛

What the hell are you talking about? Is that an oil you use for anal sex? I don't get it. Excuse me if i'm wrong but from the above comments it sounds very much like it.

it's a lubricant that people can use for sex. it wouldn't just be gay people, it could also be heterosexual people.
 
Originally posted by: Looney
Originally posted by: Ryan
Originally posted by: zoiks
Originally posted by: The Godfather
Ahh i don't want to say anything on this subject, so i won't. But damn, if you're gay, you're gay. You don't have to make it all public, asking for marriage, talking like a bitch and acting feminine. Just bang guys and move on with your life.

No, i'm not gay.


KY jelly and a sphinctor is all you need. If you're gay that is.

KY?!!? Any respectable gay man knows to use Pjor Eros 😛

Wow, that's expensive for only 100ml... but if it only requires a couple of drops, then it sounds great. I'm gonna grab a bottle 😛

me too 😱
Pricilla's here i come 😀
 
Originally posted by: LolaWiz
Originally posted by: Looney
Originally posted by: Ryan
Originally posted by: zoiks
Originally posted by: The Godfather
Ahh i don't want to say anything on this subject, so i won't. But damn, if you're gay, you're gay. You don't have to make it all public, asking for marriage, talking like a bitch and acting feminine. Just bang guys and move on with your life.

No, i'm not gay.


KY jelly and a sphinctor is all you need. If you're gay that is.

KY?!!? Any respectable gay man knows to use Pjor Eros 😛

Wow, that's expensive for only 100ml... but if it only requires a couple of drops, then it sounds great. I'm gonna grab a bottle 😛

me too 😱
Pricilla's here i come 😀

They also have Pjor Eros for women - I don't know if it's the same formula though. A little bottle lasts me for a few months 😱
 
Well, since ya asked, I knew I WASNT gay early on (thankyou cheryl!! -older brothers girlfriend-wink!) and it didnt take my first digital prostatic exam to confirm either...and we hetero's demand OUR equal rights... why'd the straight thread got locked?
 
Originally posted by: Krazefinn
Well, since ya asked, I knew I WASNT gay early on (thankyou cheryl!! -older brothers girlfriend-wink!) and it didnt take my first digital prostatic exam to confirm either...and we hetero's demand OUR equal rights... why'd the straight thread got locked?


Parody threads always lose.
 
Originally posted by: Krazefinn
Well, since ya asked, I knew I WASNT gay early on (thankyou cheryl!! -older brothers girlfriend-wink!) and it didnt take my first digital prostatic exam to confirm either...and we hetero's demand OUR equal rights... why'd the straight thread got locked?

probably because it looked like a troll thread 😛
 
I wonder, what made you desire to tell all of AnandTech when you first knew you were gay? You think we'd care? I don't really mean that offensively, its just strange how you are sharing personal information on a Hardware Forum.

I haven't seen a thread on a guy describing the first time he had sex.
 
Originally posted by: The Godfather
I wonder, what made you desire to tell all of AnandTech when you first knew you were gay? You think we'd care? I don't really mean that offensively, its just strange how you are sharing personal information on a Hardware Forum.

I haven't seen a thread on a guy describing the first time he had sex.

If you don't care, why are you in this thread?

I have seen a few threads here about guy's first times, altho I've seen many more threads about how many people are virgins.
 
90% of the threads here are about personal information of one kind or another. That's what makes it interesting.
 
Originally posted by: The Godfather
I wonder, what made you desire to tell all of AnandTech when you first knew you were gay? You think we'd care? I don't really mean that offensively, its just strange how you are sharing personal information on a Hardware Forum.

I haven't seen a thread on a guy describing the first time he had sex.

You're more than welcome to read my thread about coming out: http://forums.anandtech.com/messageview...hreadid=1402527&enterthread=y&arctab=y
 
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