when did you get over the fear of talking to good looking girls?

skim milk

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freshman year in college?
senior year in college?
after college?
and how did you overcome that fear?

now that i think about it... i think i've always had some kind of a social phobia.. but im guessing everyone goes through the phase. Just some people quicker than others
Now that I'm getting over the social part... i still have trouble trying to initiate a conversation with a attractive female.


or were you always a pimp ?



 

Savij

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Once you make up your mind to do it and keep doing no matter how many times you get shot down (talk to different girls, don't harass the same girl endlessly)
 

skim milk

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Originally posted by: fredtam
6th grade

that's odd
in sixth grade, i never had a problem talking to any girls.. the problem developed in my late high school years.
 

thirtythree

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still haven't.

edit: of course, my inability to communicate isn't exclusive to good looking girls.
 

Sid59

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just pretend they have a paperbag over their head.

works on so many levels.
 

fredtam

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Originally posted by: fritolays
Originally posted by: fredtam
6th grade

that's odd
in sixth grade, i never had a problem talking to any girls.. the problem developed in my late high school years.

Thats when I realized what I got to do with the hot girls. I also realized that I had to talk to them to be able to do it. Even though it took a while to get any of them to do it I had long overcome my fear of asking for it.
 

Mill

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Never had a fear of it, but I am a realist and do know that I won't be getting too many of them in bed.
 

suklee

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Originally posted by: thirtythreestill haven't.

edit: of course, my inability to communicate isn't exclusive to good looking girls.

I hear ya.
 

Flyermax2k3

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Meh, I rarely talk to girls (99% male school, very few females in our dorms) let alone hot ones. Hot chicks are teh scary!!!!
 

Atlantean

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Talking to them or asking them out? I have always been able to talk to them, and usually can make friends with them if I like them... asking them out is a different story.
 

HOWITIS

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don't think i've ever been "scared". nervous though. i'm always nervous when talking to a girl i like.
 

HOWITIS

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Originally posted by: Atlantean
Talking to them or asking them out? I have always been able to talk to them, and usually can make friends with them if I like them... asking them out is a different story.


man, i called up this one girl and asked her out and she was at her boyfriends house, lol. talk about feeling like an ass.

 

opticalmace

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Originally posted by: thirtythree
still haven't.

edit: of course, my inability to communicate isn't exclusive to good looking girls.

too bad you can't edit in real life eh :p