alcohol doesn't make you beat up people, or drive while being intoxicated. It's the person itself that makes the choice to be violent or careless. I've been drunk countless times, and i've always made certain i didn't act violently, or was a danger to others, nor would i ever drive while being intoxicated.
Anyway, if a wife gets beaten because her husband was drunk, she'd better blame it on him than on alcohol, and move out.
Using alcohol responsably never hurts anyone but the drinker.
Using cigs responsably makes everyone's clothes smell horribly, and causes their loungs to die off.
Aelus