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What's the worst breakup you're ever experienced?

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My first breakup sucked because the girl was a skitzo (reason we broke up) and she pestered me for months... That was over 3 years ago, and if I see her even today she's all weird about everything... wanting to meet for coffee, etc...

Stay the fvck away! sheesh!
 
dated a girl i loved but we were young and she ended up leaving me saying she was too young to be in a mature relationship with just 1 person... 2 weeks later she staretd dating her friend Taylor who had liked her for a while... our friendship fell apart and we didn't speak for a year. After a year we started to become really close friends again, 2 years later we were so close and she was having probs with taylor so they mutually broke up and she started seeing me foer a month all was well and we were going to get back together in 4 months when igot out of the AF and returned home but a month later she telsl me she is datijgn taylor again and they eventually get back toegher.... 9 months after that (now) taylor breaks up with her to see other ppl or so he says

heh ain't love grand
 
I've always kept on guard when I knew a breakup was coming, so havent been hurt that much. But there was this once where i was totally caught unaware. my ex cheated on me and that caught me totally off guard cos I never expected it, saw her in the bus on my way to work ( what a coincidence) she was holding hands with another guy. She got off the bus, I got down with her and confronted the guy..argument blah blah. But the real killer is that she looked me right straight in the eye and told me to fvck off.

never spoke to her again.
 
Broke up with girlfriend of over a year on the phone because she pissed me off. Then another girl who I was harmlessly flirting with towards the end of that relationship decided to save all our chats and print them out, then give them to the ex-girlfriend. I had my head cut out of photos. Blown way out of proportion for comments that were taken out of context. Whatever, she was a terrible prude anyway and hasnt had a boyfriend since me... that was... 8 years ago.
 
dated a girl seriously for 3 years, she called me one night as was normal, but surprised me by telling me we should take a break, a week later that "break" was officially "lets see other people"... i hate her for that. but now i have a much better girlfriend...
 
I dated the same girl from 8th grade through my Junior year in high school. We'll call her girl A. The relationship was just one major drama, to say the least. Anyway, early on in my senior year this other girl (girl B) and I were really interested in each other and we had a ton of fun together. I broke it off with girl A so I could date a girl B. We had broken up about 618 times before, so to her it was nothing unusual. But when I started dating B and we got real close real fast (we even had a scare where we thought I had possibly slipped one by the goalie), A went ballistic. She met me in the halls and started shoving me, screaming at the top of her lungs, etc. This happened a few times, but because we all were in the game group of friends, there were consequences to her actions. By the end of the year, she was basically hanging out with Freshmen and Sophomores. In hindsight I feel really bad... I didn't treat her any better than she treated me. We were real asses to each other most of the time.
 
Originally posted by: Ilmater
The first girl I ever had sex with cheated on me the same night I had sex with her. I had only been with her 3 times, so I clearly acknowledge that I was not good, but that was rough.

But really it was pretty mild. She was driving me nuts always wanting to kiss me around other people, which I hated. When I found out, I drank a :beer: to her being a b1tch, and called her up the next day:

"So, you cheated on me huh?"
"I'm so sorry I..."
"Nah, no big deal. I'll get over it. Hope things work out well for you."
*click*

That's the WORST breakup I've ever had, and it was pretty civil. If I saw her tomorrow, I really wouldn't even be mad.

Nice :beer:

Ya gotta respect that.
 
Try this, was dating this girl in HS and things were going cool for about a month. We went out to see a movie then afterward she asks if I want to go to a beach. Well we do and we walk for a while then sit down on a log looking out on the ocean. Now we had some kissing before that night but not much and I was ampted to get some. Well, she basically dumped me right there on the beach. We then had to walk all the way back to the car then drive home.

12 years later and I'm still pissed about that one.
 
I helped cause a breakup that was a long time coming:

My (former) roommate (we'll call him David) was dating this girl (we'll call her Claire) for about 8 months in college. He left for a spring semester internship in an adjacent state.

Claire confided in me that she wanted to see other people *while still stringing David along*, without him ever finding out. The hint from her was that I was her first choice. I thought this was pretty skanky (especially since I was already dating another one of our friends), so I planned to tell David.

Oddly enough, David knew that I had family/friends in the area of his new internship, and confided in me that HE wanted to get some nookie on the side. This set up quite an interesting situation.

I told each of them that I'd set them up with a good friend. I then instructed both to get on AIM and change their screennames. Then I introduced them to each other, without knowing who the other was. I told them both to lie about their locations, their real names, etc. Can't ever be too safe whilst cheating, you know.

Apparently it took them about half an hour to realize that they not only knew each other, but that they were currently dating. I got my truck egged, but it washed right off. My smile never has.

Much credit goes to my then-girlfriend/current-fiancee for helping set up David's side of the scenario.
 
Originally posted by: LanceM
I helped cause a breakup that was a long time coming:

My (former) roommate (we'll call him David) was dating this girl (we'll call her Claire) for about 8 months in college. He left for a spring semester internship in an adjacent state.

Claire confided in me that she wanted to see other people *while still stringing David along*, without him ever finding out. The hint from her was that I was her first choice. I thought this was pretty skanky (especially since I was already dating another one of our friends), so I planned to tell David.

Oddly enough, David knew that I had family/friends in the area of his new internship, and confided in me that HE wanted to get some nookie on the side. This set up quite an interesting situation.

I told each of them that I'd set them up with a good friend. I then instructed both to get on AIM and change their screennames. Then I introduced them to each other, without knowing who the other was. I told them both to lie about their locations, their real names, etc. Can't ever be too safe whilst cheating, you know.

Apparently it took them about half an hour to realize that they not only knew each other, but that they were currently dating. I got my truck egged, but it washed right off. My smile never has.

Much credit goes to my then-girlfriend/current-fiancee for helping set up David's side of the scenario.

:beer: Good job!
 
I'll be honest and say that I would have not had the idea to introduce one to the other if they hadn't both come to me at practically the same time. It was just luck.
 
Originally posted by: LanceM
I helped cause a breakup that was a long time coming:

My (former) roommate (we'll call him David) was dating this girl (we'll call her Claire) for about 8 months in college. He left for a spring semester internship in an adjacent state.

Claire confided in me that she wanted to see other people *while still stringing David along*, without him ever finding out. The hint from her was that I was her first choice. I thought this was pretty skanky (especially since I was already dating another one of our friends), so I planned to tell David.

Oddly enough, David knew that I had family/friends in the area of his new internship, and confided in me that HE wanted to get some nookie on the side. This set up quite an interesting situation.

I told each of them that I'd set them up with a good friend. I then instructed both to get on AIM and change their screennames. Then I introduced them to each other, without knowing who the other was. I told them both to lie about their locations, their real names, etc. Can't ever be too safe whilst cheating, you know.

Apparently it took them about half an hour to realize that they not only knew each other, but that they were currently dating. I got my truck egged, but it washed right off. My smile never has.

Much credit goes to my then-girlfriend/current-fiancee for helping set up David's side of the scenario.


best ever
 
Originally posted by: LanceM
I'll be honest and say that I would have not had the idea to introduce one to the other if they hadn't both come to me at practically the same time. It was just luck.

And some quick and creative thinking.
 
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