not kidding, a friend of mine moved to virginia for a while and got ridiculed and belittled many times and accosted several times by people who demanded he move "back to the union"
and i dont want to have the same thing happen to me, i dont know if i could handle such asbuse
Don't take this wrong, but is your friend a jackass? I've lived in quite a few places, union and non union. And if I didn't live there, I've travelled to most. People treat me the way I treat them.
I recently moved to CT from the midwest and everyone told me "they're different up there, they're rude, they're not as friendly, they're stand-offish, etc, etc, etc". Not true. Everyone's been absolutely great. Just like people were in Missouri, Kansas, Alabama, North Carolina, Minnesota, Texas, Florida, etc, etc, etc.
But, I'm a pretty friendly guy, so maybe it's just me.