whats the right thing to do in your opinion?

[NiceCold]

whats the right thing to do in your opinion?

say someone brought their teenage kid to your house to hang out for a week or 2. you are going somewhere..... do you leave the teen behind alone in the house with big screen tv and gaming consoles? or do you take him with you? the trip will be 1-2 hours.

opinion1 says:
afraid his mom will say something if take him where ever go, must ask his mom for each time go somewhere but if cant reach his mom..... leave him behind in the house alone with big screen tv and gaming consoles and ofcourse internet.


opinion2 says:
the teen is their responsibility once he is placed with them. must take him where ever they go.




whats your opinion?

 

[Kadarin]

If the kid is underage and if you agreed to take responsibility for supervising the kid, then you need to supervise the kid.

 

[NiceCold]

say the mom did not mention anything about supervising or tell to take him where ever they go..... and say the kid is 13-15

 

[BoomerD]

Why the fuck would anyone in their right mind agree to keep a teenage kid that's not theirs?

Can you must tie him up and keep him in the basement until the mom returns? That makes the most sense to me.

 

[KeithP]

A 13-15 year old child is old enough to be left alone for at least a few hours. If the child can't be trusted alone for that amount of time you shouldn't have agreed to take him/her in the first place.

-KeithP

 

[NiceCold]

say the mom did not straightly bring her child to you to look after, just taking her child to hang out with you for a week or two.


if the mom comes check on her child while you not here and only see her child alone in the house.... would the mom be angry and piss for ditching her son and being irrisponsible?

 

[Whoozyerdaddy]

If he's 13-15 and he doesn't have to wear a bicycle helmet all the time he's fine to leave alone for a couple of hours.

 

[coldmeat]

What kind of "hanging out" are you doing with this kid?

 

[NiceCold]

say the kid does not have many friends and you are grown up that likes gaming.... the kid likes gaming too and you both is male thats why the mom wants her son to hang out with you while she go do whatever she want.

when you going somewhere for 1-2 hours... and every other trip like stores ect....... would you take him with you? or ditch him alone in the house?

 

[BoomerD]

Are you trying to hook up with some young boy? Is that what this is all about? Trying to find ways to convince the mom that it's all in friendship and gaming?

Where's that Chris Hansen pic when I need it?

 

[coldmeat]

You never thought of this before agreeing to take him in? Do you never leave the house? What about work??

 

[TechAZ]

Take the kid with you.

And why do you begin every reply with "say...."?

 

[Kirby]

you some kind of pederast?

 

[NiceCold]

i seriously think its wrong to ditch the kid alone. ditch him like dogs and cats. it is your responsibility to take him with you where ever you go.

 

[zerocool84]

What kind of "hanging out" are you doing with this kid?

The hanging out in the basement putting lotion on itself kind.

 

[Whoozyerdaddy]

i seriously think its wrong to ditch the kid alone. ditch him like dogs and cats. it is your responsibility to take him with you where ever you go.

Dude... what the fuck are you asking us about? Can you just lay out the situation in real terms so we know what you're blathering about? Maybe then you can get a real answer.

 

[LOL_Wut_Axel]

I have no idea what the hell you're on about right now, but you're really sounding like a moron. Try to convey your message in a more direct way.

 

[Locut0s]

If the teen is a she, hyper sexy and 19 yrs old I can think of a 3rd option. :hmm:

 

[BoomerD]

If the teen is a she, hyper sexy and 19 yrs old I can think of a 3rd option. :hmm:

And that's based on all your many...conquests? :hmm: :whiste:

 

[Locut0s]

And that's based on all your many...conquests? :hmm: :whiste:

Hay now at the very least allow me to dream here.

 

[Kadarin]

I agree with others in that you're really framing the situation in too poor a way for us to be able to give you any real answer.. How well do you know this kid and/or his mother? What are you leaving the house to go do? Does the kid want to stay or go? Is the kid responsible and mature? Are you? Why are you watching him and not a relative? Are you wanting to have gay sex with him? Does he like or dislike you, or neither?

 

[SandEagle]

i'll only leave him unsupervised if he promises to mow my lawn unsupervised too

 

[shortylickens]

A 13-15 year old child is old enough to be left alone for at least a few hours. If the child can't be trusted alone for that amount of time you shouldn't have agreed to take him/her in the first place.

-KeithP

Thats my feeling on the matter.
You should have learned a lot more about the kid before taking him on.
Teens are too complex to be ignorant of their nature.

 

[PlasmaBomb]

 

[slayer202]

A 13-15 year old child is old enough to be left alone for at least a few hours. If the child can't be trusted alone for that amount of time you shouldn't have agreed to take him/her in the first place.

-KeithP

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