have you run prime95 at stock speeds already? Are you using MBM5 to give you all the volts and the rails? What brand and power are you using? Also the 5V has been notorious for giving Abit owners problems.
Like I said, why do you think its only those two things, you havent done anything to narrow anything else at all done. It could be your power, not giving out enough, your 5V could not be getting enough, you could have power fluctuations, I dont know what the temps are, what you are using for cooling, there are other forms of memtest, for windows usage here
http://www.benchmarkhq.ru/fclick/fclick.php?fid=151 Its not as good, but it does get the job done, and you can use that in windows. Your timings for the Mushkin should be at 2-2-2-11 (11 has been tested to be the best for Nforce2 boards) and give it all the voltage you can through your Abit.
It could be more than those things I have listed, but I dont want you to get new memory, just because and still have this problem. Let the memtest I gave you run all night while you are sleeping, or for a few hours if you go out and have some drinks, hang out with some friends. But the problem needs to be narrowed down by a process of elimination.
Hope what I gave ya helps out