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what would you do?

shopbruin

Diamond Member
allright i'm in a freaking quandry here.

i got a call from a company to interview. they start at 2k below what i'm making now. the reason i'm looking around is that my job is starting to drive me INSANE. i work roughly 50 hours a week, WITHOUT OVERTIME (yes i am a salary slave.). i'm asked to do the work of two people essentially yet still being compensated the same amount as when i was doing the work of one. my job duties have increased substantially but everyone at my company knows that raises are completely out of the question. we tried to hint at the subject when we hit our three months (yes perhaps a tad early but we were seriously being overworked) and were given the hint back of no.

this new job would be a lot more fixed hours. i would be doing about 36 hours a week. i would receive full benefits (dental, medical and vision) after three months. my hours are fixed. i no longer have to bring my work home.

are the hours of sanity worth the 2k less i make right now? i calculated before taxes i'd make about 170 less a month over the course of a year. right now i make enough to live. i don't live extravagantly - i haven't bought new clothes in about two months, which is sad... if i get a new job i'd have to invest in new clothes as i'd finally be working somewhere that has a dress code... but that's off the topic.

why am i being driven to insanity? customers. whining. complaining. all day long. this past week has been horrendous for me (and its only tuesday) with a recent spike in orders, emails, and more that need to be handled with and i can't get through them if i work NONSTOP for 10 hours. today i actually took a lunch for an hour, and felt so behind when i came back. i wanted to break down. i have broken down.

and of course i made the mistake of calling my parents, who told me to take the job if i wanted but to either
a. move home
b. go back to school (preferably get an mba, which i DO NOT want to do) so i can make more money. the ultimate goal is to make more money. i don't care if i don't have oodles of money.

the only other variable is i start student loan repayment in january and the extra income will be nice. *sigh* decisions. what would you do?

CLIFFS NOTES:
1. job driving me crazy
2. new possible job but for 2k less
3. what to do?
 
question: you said current job is 50 hours and potential job is 36. but you also said, "this new job would be a lot more fixed hours."

also, what does the new job entail?
 
well when i said fixed hours, i mean only 36 hours a week. the hours are set each day i come in, and i actually get to leave on time. i also have to take a lunch.

the new job is a lot of reception/admin assistant stuff. its very entry level, which is why it pays on the lower end. i'd also learn some HR stuff. i'd be working for a staffing firm, doing random office things.
 
so it's not really that you like your potential job, but that you dislike your current job, right?

how do you know you won't end up hating your potential job?
 
Find yourself a sugar daddy and give him a little play.. that way, you get new clothes and extra spending cash. Then you can choose that job of your desires.
 
Originally posted by: iamme
so it's not really that you like your potential job, but that you dislike your current job, right?

how do you know you won't end up hating your potential job?

because i won't have people screaming at me over the phone over being overcharged 5 dollars?

or that their item arrived one day too late?

or that they keep calling daily when we say "it takes up to six weeks to ship?"

i like the potential mostly because its new and will NOT drive me as insane as i am now. i don't think any other job in the world that i have right now could possibly do that.
 
Originally posted by: bleeb
Find yourself a sugar daddy and give him a little play.. that way, you get new clothes and extra spending cash. Then you can choose that job of your desires.
funny 🙂

 
i haven't bought new clothes in about two months, which is sad... if i get a new job i'd have to invest in new clothes as i'd finally be working somewhere that has a dress code...
Take the pay cut to save your sanity, and go to Target for some new clothes. I just bought a pair of wrinkle-free, stain-resistant khakis and a nice button-down shirt for $26. Unless you're bringing home mad crazy $$, there's no reason to shop at the expensive trendy places in the mall.
 
Originally posted by: freesia39
Originally posted by: iamme
so it's not really that you like your potential job, but that you dislike your current job, right?

how do you know you won't end up hating your potential job?

because i won't have people screaming at me over the phone over being overcharged 5 dollars?

or that their item arrived one day too late?

or that they keep calling daily when we say "it takes up to six weeks to ship?"

i like the potential mostly because its new and will NOT drive me as insane as i am now. i don't think any other job in the world that i have right now could possibly do that.

i think you should switch jobs, since you hate your current one so much.

i just wanted to make sure you were prepared for that possible scenario 😉
 
Originally posted by: reitz
i haven't bought new clothes in about two months, which is sad... if i get a new job i'd have to invest in new clothes as i'd finally be working somewhere that has a dress code...
Take the pay cut to save your sanity, and go to Target for some new clothes. I just bought a pair of wrinkle-free, stain-resistant khakis and a nice button-down shirt for $26. Unless you're bringing home mad crazy $$, there's no reason to shop at the expensive trendy places in the mall.

my last shirt i bought was for 8 bucks at the gap outlet. i really don't mind buying target clothes, but the clothes i go for usually can't be more than 20 bucks. the most expensive item i have in my closet is my dress suit for interviews and that cost me 70 bucks (oooooh yeah working the robinson may's coupons/sales)
 
Originally posted by: freesia39
Originally posted by: reitz
i haven't bought new clothes in about two months, which is sad... if i get a new job i'd have to invest in new clothes as i'd finally be working somewhere that has a dress code...
Take the pay cut to save your sanity, and go to Target for some new clothes. I just bought a pair of wrinkle-free, stain-resistant khakis and a nice button-down shirt for $26. Unless you're bringing home mad crazy $$, there's no reason to shop at the expensive trendy places in the mall.

my last shirt i bought was for 8 bucks at the gap outlet. i really don't mind buying target clothes, but the clothes i go for usually can't be more than 20 bucks. the most expensive item i have in my closet is my dress suit for interviews and that cost me 70 bucks (oooooh yeah working the robinson may's coupons/sales)

hey, no shame in that. girls who can admit to budget shopping rock 🙂

i can't stand girls who are brand name whores. most of the time they don't even look good in their overpriced crap.
 
Originally posted by: iamme
Originally posted by: freesia39
Originally posted by: reitz
i haven't bought new clothes in about two months, which is sad... if i get a new job i'd have to invest in new clothes as i'd finally be working somewhere that has a dress code...
Take the pay cut to save your sanity, and go to Target for some new clothes. I just bought a pair of wrinkle-free, stain-resistant khakis and a nice button-down shirt for $26. Unless you're bringing home mad crazy $$, there's no reason to shop at the expensive trendy places in the mall.

my last shirt i bought was for 8 bucks at the gap outlet. i really don't mind buying target clothes, but the clothes i go for usually can't be more than 20 bucks. the most expensive item i have in my closet is my dress suit for interviews and that cost me 70 bucks (oooooh yeah working the robinson may's coupons/sales)

hey, no shame in that. girls who can admit to budget shopping rock 🙂

i can't stand girls who are brand name whores. most of the time they don't even look good in their overpriced crap.

or that their 80 dollar shirt looks just the same as a 10 dollar one?
 
Originally posted by: freesia39
Originally posted by: iamme
Originally posted by: freesia39
Originally posted by: reitz
i haven't bought new clothes in about two months, which is sad... if i get a new job i'd have to invest in new clothes as i'd finally be working somewhere that has a dress code...
Take the pay cut to save your sanity, and go to Target for some new clothes. I just bought a pair of wrinkle-free, stain-resistant khakis and a nice button-down shirt for $26. Unless you're bringing home mad crazy $$, there's no reason to shop at the expensive trendy places in the mall.

my last shirt i bought was for 8 bucks at the gap outlet. i really don't mind buying target clothes, but the clothes i go for usually can't be more than 20 bucks. the most expensive item i have in my closet is my dress suit for interviews and that cost me 70 bucks (oooooh yeah working the robinson may's coupons/sales)

hey, no shame in that. girls who can admit to budget shopping rock 🙂

i can't stand girls who are brand name whores. most of the time they don't even look good in their overpriced crap.

or that their 80 dollar shirt looks just the same as a 10 dollar one?

well, you do realize it costs $70 to stitch "Bebe" on the front, right?

😉
 
I would change jobs. Eat mac and cheese for a month, get new work clothes, and go with the new job. May I recommend JC Penny's for work clothes? Go there, pick out everything you need, and open a charge account. You'll save an extra 10%. If you hit it on the right day, you can save all kinds of money on clothes. Your current job isn't worth the stress.

This all being said, there is a support group for people who hate their job. It is called "Everybody" and they meet at the bar.

R
 
Originally posted by: rgwalt
I would change jobs. Eat mac and cheese for a month, get new work clothes, and go with the new job. May I recommend JC Penny's for work clothes? Go there, pick out everything you need, and open a charge account. You'll save an extra 10%. If you hit it on the right day, you can save all kinds of money on clothes. Your current job isn't worth the stress.

This all being said, there is a support group for people who hate their job. It is called "Everybody" and they meet at the bar.

R


mac and cheese? please.

spam and rice. make spam last a week at least. 😀
 
I took a $6k pay cut when my company reorganized, and I ended up with a worse job than what I started with!
I'd have been as happy as a pig in slop to have taken a $2k hit for a job I liked more.
 
Does your current job have full benefits? If not I would change in an instant. That alone is worth more than $2k a year. You need to calculate what your being paid per hour at each place. You will be making much more at the new place if your only working 36hrs/week. Your time is worth alot.
 
Well I've decided to take a vacation in February and I'm quitting my job after that.
"Boss, I'm taking a 2 week paid vacation, thanks... Oh, and here's my two weeks' notice!"
I've been there 2 years, and I've been under-appreciated and under-paid and never got a raise. The only reason I stayed was because Christmas time = big bucks (I work for an internet toy store)
 
Originally posted by: shimsham
money cant buy happiness.
Exactly, your current job sounds like it is taking its toll, and enough stress really can ruin your life. It also sounds like your current employers are weasels who will abuse you until you burn out, then throw you away and hire the next victim.

Take the pay cut and do something you enjoy with the extra 14 hours a week. If the new job works out well, you can always stay with that company and try for a promotion to a better-paying job there later.
 
i suggest you take or keep the job that has the greatest potential to improve your career. so what if u work 50 hours. nothing in life is handed to you except for the ones with rich parents.

Originally posted by: freesia39
allright i'm in a freaking quandry here.

i got a call from a company to interview. they start at 2k below what i'm making now. the reason i'm looking around is that my job is starting to drive me INSANE. i work roughly 50 hours a week, WITHOUT OVERTIME (yes i am a salary slave.). i'm asked to do the work of two people essentially yet still being compensated the same amount as when i was doing the work of one. my job duties have increased substantially but everyone at my company knows that raises are completely out of the question. we tried to hint at the subject when we hit our three months (yes perhaps a tad early but we were seriously being overworked) and were given the hint back of no.

this new job would be a lot more fixed hours. i would be doing about 36 hours a week. i would receive full benefits (dental, medical and vision) after three months. my hours are fixed. i no longer have to bring my work home.

are the hours of sanity worth the 2k less i make right now? i calculated before taxes i'd make about 170 less a month over the course of a year. right now i make enough to live. i don't live extravagantly - i haven't bought new clothes in about two months, which is sad... if i get a new job i'd have to invest in new clothes as i'd finally be working somewhere that has a dress code... but that's off the topic.

why am i being driven to insanity? customers. whining. complaining. all day long. this past week has been horrendous for me (and its only tuesday) with a recent spike in orders, emails, and more that need to be handled with and i can't get through them if i work NONSTOP for 10 hours. today i actually took a lunch for an hour, and felt so behind when i came back. i wanted to break down. i have broken down.

and of course i made the mistake of calling my parents, who told me to take the job if i wanted but to either
a. move home
b. go back to school (preferably get an mba, which i DO NOT want to do) so i can make more money. the ultimate goal is to make more money. i don't care if i don't have oodles of money.

the only other variable is i start student loan repayment in january and the extra income will be nice. *sigh* decisions. what would you do?

CLIFFS NOTES:
1. job driving me crazy
2. new possible job but for 2k less
3. what to do?

 
2K is not worth your sanity.You'll have extra time if you take the new job,I bet right now that you eat a lot of fast food and take out meals because of your long work hours.That's money you'll easily save once your work week is more reasonable.
 
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