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What would you do in this situation?

Mill

Lifer
My dogs sleep indoors every night I'm home. I'm typically home by 10pm, and they spend the rest of the night inside, and then they go back out in the morning to use the restroom. Well, the other night I didn't get home until about 1AM, and my neighbor just now rang the doorbell and said the dog barking them up. Now, I don't know if the dog barked while I was gone, but she did bark for about 5-10 seconds when I came home before I could get her inside. As I said, they spend 13/14 nights indoors with me -- the exception being if I stay at someone's place for the night. There are 100,000 dogs in this neighborhood that bark ALL NIGHT LONG, and mine have always either been inside, or it was once every few weeks that I was gone that they'd have the chance to bark.

The interesting thing to me is that she said when the dog started barking was 1am, which was when I got home. I don't see how 5-10 seconds of a dog barking is a nuisance. If she sat out and howled at the moon for 10 hours like the other 100,000 dogs in the neighborhood do I could understand that, but that is not the case. They've got 2 or 3 cats, so they've always complained about my dogs "scaring" their cats through the fence. I think they just do not like dogs, and are trying to bully me because I'm the youngest homeowner in the neighborhood. They are always telling me things they want ME to do to MY home. There are these rocks along my fence that help with drainage and look pretty good. The other day my neighbor rang the doorbell and asked if I wanted those rocks. WTF? He said it would look much better if I moved them and put pine bark down there. That's his opinion, but it is my fvcking house! I like the way it looks.

I've been nothing but nice to my neighbors -- I'm always quite, never have loud parties, never play loud music, and I always keep my yard and house up. Over the past month or so they've became a thorn in my side by always bitching about something -- and I assume they think I will take it because I'm young.

So, what should I do? I have to go out of town tonight, and I was just going to let the dogs stay out in the yard. I know for a fact that they only bark if another dog comes by and barks at them, or if the neighbor's cat(who roams around) gets in my fence and fvcks with the dog. The exceptions are when I first leave(my girl dog barks for about 5-10 minutes) and then when I arrive back home(she barks for literally seconds because I run to let her in the house). I'm pretty pissed off that suck a big deal is being made out of this.

Cliffs:
1. Neighbor rings doorbell to complain about dogs
2. Dogs rarely bark especially compared to other neighborhood dogs
3. Neighbors have been bitching for months about various things that are none of their business and feel that because they are older they can bully me.
4. Going out of town and don't want to kennel dogs.


I like having a good relationship with my neighbors, and I have a great relationship with all of them, but I tire of someone's useless complaints(this is the prototypical guy that wants to strengthen and create a new HOA) to me about petty bullsh!t. I assume I could start being a jerk to them, but I don't want to ruin the relationship. What would you do?
 
Post pix of dogs plz.

This is the first time that happened right? I would probably just apologize and shrug it off. If they complain next time for 2 barks, then thats when you gotta start telling them that they are unreasonable.
 
Ignore them, they have no grounds for any legal action whatsoever.

Personally I would ask them how they can be serious about this complaint.
 
Dogs rarely bark especially compared to other neighborhood dogs

In my experience (being on both sides of this) people usually don't realize how much their own dogs bark when they aren't home. I suggest you:

a) Seriously setup a tape recorder next time your gone for a few hours, and then run thru it when your back. See if it's a real problem or not.

b) Our neighbors had two large dogs, as did we. When they lost their two dogs they became VERY sensitive to any barking by ours (prior, their dogs, quite honestly barked a heck of a lot more then ours did, as ours slept inside). Anyhow, we wound up getting our dogs de-barked. Contrary to what the PETA nuts will say, the dogs didn't mind at all, their personalities did not change ONE BIT and everybodies been happy.

Bill
 
they sound waaay too anal. barking dogs are just part of the neighborhood scene. sounds like your dog is the least "problem" causing dog in the hood. id just ignore them.
 
Originally posted by: Tiamat
Post pix of dogs plz.

This is the first time that happened right? I would probably just apologize and shrug it off. If they complain next time for 2 barks, then thats when you gotta start telling them that they are unreasonable.

They complained once before when I spent the night somewhere else. I've been here before when the dogs stayed outside at night for a good while, and they don't bark minus the few cases I mentioned above. It is possible that the female is barking when I'm gone, but she isn't a persistent barker or howls or anything like that. If she barks it is for a reason and is short in duration. I feel that they are being unreasonable, but I'm trying to be nice about it. I could understand if it was a constant problem, but like I said there are a plethora of dogs barking that I hear all night, so I'm not sure how an occasional bark when I'm not home is so disruptive as to warrant a complaint to me.

I do have a problem with people who let their dogs bark all night, that's why my dogs stay in at night just to prevent something like this. I just built a freaking fence about a month ago, so it really ticks me off that I'm basically being told they can't stay out there EVER at night because they might bark occasionally. I could get a shock collar, but Jesus Christ it isn't like they are a problem. No other neighbor has complained or ever even mentioned it to me.

My dogs have gotten out a few times before I had the fence and they shot past me at the door, or got off their leash when I was taking them out. I always tried to catch them, but the female is so fast that it would take hours to get her back inside. They'd always bitch about that too saying it bothered their cats. WTF? How can their cats roam around, but if my dogs get out once or twice it is a Federal Crime?
 
definitely ignore them. tell them you've been polite all this time and perhaps if you're really curious, you'd like to know why they consistently harass you about every small thing that bothers them. maybe mention the age discrimination thing, and possibly think of something useful to scare them off. there's no reason for them to harass you, but if they do, maybe it's time for you to file a harassment complaint.
 
Originally posted by: bsobel
Dogs rarely bark especially compared to other neighborhood dogs

In my experience (being on both sides of this) people usually don't realize how much their own dogs bark when they aren't home. I suggest you:

a) Seriously setup a tape recorder next time your gone for a few hours, and then run thru it when your back. See if it's a real problem or not.

b) Our neighbors had two large dogs, as did we. When they lost their two dogs they became VERY sensitive to any barking by ours (prior, their dogs, quite honestly barked a heck of a lot more then ours did, as ours slept inside). Anyhow, we wound up getting our dogs de-barked. Contrary to what the PETA nuts will say, the dogs didn't mind at all, their personalities did not change ONE BIT and everybodies been happy.

Bill

a) is a very good idea, and something I will seriously try out. I figure I'm going to cave tonight and just take them to the vet tonight so it doesn't seem like I'm not taking their complaint seriously.
b) I'm just not too keen on the idea of de-barking. If I do the tape idea and find it is a real problem I might possibly consider it, but it just seems like something I wouldn't want done to me, and as I said I haven't had any other complaints and I don't really think their barking is a problem. Perspective is the key like you said, so maybe they are just sensitive to it.
 
as far as i know, dogs don't really bark unless someone comes to the door or the owner comes home. in rare occasions, dogs go further. like someone said above, your neighbors are way too anal.
 
Originally posted by: Skoorb
You've had your dogs for month, so I'd just forget about it.

Have you considered a doggy door?

I have, but I'm not sure how it will work since the door is one of those 90% glass doors with panes and a wooden frame. Anyone had experience with putting a door in something like that for dogs?

I've had Sienna for over a year and Grissom for about 6 months. He never barks unless something crazy is going down, and she only barks when she hears a human near my property or another dog walks by barking. People let their dogs run free around here, and I've never done that, so I don't understand how I'm this major problem.
 
Why don't you write them a nice polite letter similar to the post you wrote for this forum?
 
set up the recorder and see how much the dog barks. if the dog really does bark alot, and you must keep it outside maybe you could buy your neighbors one of those "dog clickers". i cant recall what they are actually called, but it basically works like a dog whistle that emits a sound that distracts a dog to help stop them barking. but the way your neighbors sound, they would more than likely overuse it and the dog would eventually ignore it.
 
Originally posted by: SampSon
Why don't you write them a nice polite letter similar to the post you wrote for this forum?

Certainly something I could do, but since they are neighbors wouldn't it be better just to talk to them?
 
Originally posted by: Mill
Originally posted by: SampSon
Why don't you write them a nice polite letter similar to the post you wrote for this forum?

Certainly something I could do, but since they are neighbors wouldn't it be better just to talk to them?
I would do both. As you very well know it's always first priority to have things in writing.
 
I think I'd ask my neighbor on the other side, and maybe the one behind too, if they've noticed your dogs barking excessively, and if it's bothered them. that'll give you a better idea of whether there's a real problem.

maybe one of your other neighbors, whoever you're friendliest with, wouldn't mind letting your dogs in at night and out in the morning for you, those odd times you need to be away overnight. that's not a big deal to do, and neighbors do stuff for each other all the time.. they'll ask you to do the same for them sometime maybe, or ask you to take in their mail and paper when they're on vacation or something else.. neighborly.. in return, maybe.

 
Originally posted by: tami
as far as i know, dogs don't really bark unless someone comes to the door or the owner comes home. in rare occasions, dogs go further. like someone said above, your neighbors are way too anal.

Not saying its the case here, but plenty of dogs nusance bark when playing or out of boredom.

Bill
 
Originally posted by: bsobel
Originally posted by: tami
as far as i know, dogs don't really bark unless someone comes to the door or the owner comes home. in rare occasions, dogs go further. like someone said above, your neighbors are way too anal.

Not saying its the case here, but plenty of dogs nusance bark when playing or out of boredom.

Bill

true, but i live in probably the doggiest city in the world (nyc) and i rarely hear that happening. that's not to say i've never heard a dog bark before -- i just don't hear "recurring" barking which seems to be the cause of complaint for this particular neighbor.
 
Originally posted by: bsobel
Originally posted by: tami
as far as i know, dogs don't really bark unless someone comes to the door or the owner comes home. in rare occasions, dogs go further. like someone said above, your neighbors are way too anal.

Not saying its the case here, but plenty of dogs nusance bark when playing or out of boredom.

Bill

Which is why your tape-recording idea is pretty solid. I can't say 100% positive that she doesn't bark more than I think, so I guess I have to figure it out.
 
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