What would you do if...

NTB

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Someone made a blatant pass at your girlfriend/boyfriend? Not just "would you like to go out?" or something similar; I understand that that may happen when you or your SO are alone, and it doesn't bother me, so long as they don't follow through . :pBut some guy asked my girlfriend and she told him no, she already had a boyfriend....at which point he tried to kiss her. :disgust: To her credit, she simply stormed off rather than going ballistic. Hearing the story ticked me off (at him); I don't know what I would've done had I actually been there. Hopefully it never would have happened, had that been the case. How about you?

Nate
 

CraigRT

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confront the bastard.. and if he said ANYTHING i didn't like to my face... i'd resort to physical force... no one touches one's S.O.
 

N8Magic

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Asking a girl if she is single is one thing, but trying to kiss her after the fact that she said no is grounds for a beating.
 

deerslayer

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Originally posted by: N8Magic
Asking a girl if she is single is one thing, but trying to kiss her after the fact that she said no is grounds for a beating.

 

ivol07

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Confront him and let him know that you don't appreciate what he tried to do, and neither does she. Doesn't necessarily have to resort to a beating....although it would probably make you feel better.
 

Anghang

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baseball bat to the knee caps is always nice :)

j/k...

do you know this guy that made the pass at your significant other?...if so, some words need to be exchanged and he needs to be regulated in terms of respect for others...
 

LordMaul

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I'd ask him if he wanted a kiss. If he said yes, I'd kiss his lips with my shoe.

:Q
 

NTB

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lol guys...looks like we all think alike. She said she felt like slapping him one, and I said she should've. I told her I would have given him a shot to the family jewels if I'd been there. But I like to at least think I have a little self control, so I'd probably just dress him down verbally first; if he does it again, then I'll beat the snot out of him. And I think I'll let her help (oooh, she was pissed...). Problem is that I don't know who it was. Somebody in one of her classes; not anybody she knew that well.

Nate
 

pulse8

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If it's some random guy, I'd just let it go. Your girlfriend obviously handled herself just fine. Guys never give their girlfriends enough credit in situations like this. They always have to kick some ass for some reason.
rolleye.gif
 

Cyberian

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I don't like what the guy did at all, but it's amazing how everyone says "beat the sh!t out of him" without knowing the ages, sizes or physical condition of either party.
 

NTB

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Originally posted by: LordMaul
Nice Shoes, wanna [the most foul of foul words]?

What, those shoes? You'll just ruin 'em with blood and teeth and what not. :D

Nate
 

NTB

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Originally posted by: pulse8
If it's some random guy, I'd just let it go. Your girlfriend obviously handled herself just fine. Guys never give their girlfriends enough credit in situations like this. They always have to kick some ass for some reason.
rolleye.gif

I did too give her credit. "Beat the bum" was simply my gut reaction; apparently it was hers as well. And yet she chose to walk away. And after a few seconds, I thought it would be better to talk to him first, as well. I think she handled herself perfectly.

Nate
 

NTB

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You too, hollowman? I was here earlier and there were 3 or 4 on the first page of OT alone. Maybe we do need a new one....nah, that'll never fly.

Nate
 

Oakenfold

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Originally posted by: ivol07
Confront him and let him know that you don't appreciate what he tried to do, and neither does she. Doesn't necessarily have to resort to a beating....although it would probably make you feel better.


Agreed.

I would say to beat the living snot out of him but even if you are under 18 all it takes is one punch, they fall to the ground dead, what exactly do you plan to do?
I know it's not very likely to happen but is it really worth it to throw away your life or get a rap sheet because of a loser who's going to get their's anyhow through Karma?

Don't even start on the liability issue and the possiblity of being sued.
People do the strangest things in today's age. ;)
 

pulse8

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Originally posted by: NTB
Originally posted by: pulse8
If it's some random guy, I'd just let it go. Your girlfriend obviously handled herself just fine. Guys never give their girlfriends enough credit in situations like this. They always have to kick some ass for some reason.
rolleye.gif

I did too give her credit. "Beat the bum" was simply my gut reaction; apparently it was hers as well. And yet she chose to walk away. And after a few seconds, I thought it would be better to talk to him first, as well. I think she handled herself perfectly.

Nate

My comment wasn't directed so much to you as to the other guys suggesting you beat his ass. I think you and your girlfriend handled the situation just fine. I'd be pissed, too, but to find some guy and beat his ass because he likes my girlfriend is just silly. He was out of line, but he's probably got the point now. For all we know, he could've just been completely wasted and didn't know what the hell he was doing.
 

slycat

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right ..what if ur 120lbs...and the other guy is a head taller, and larger...
and what if this is a racial neighborhood?..
i mean like u and ur gal is waiting for a bus at a black neighborhood...and this black
dood comes up to your chick to talk shit...what do u do?...
u wanna try fight him in his neighborhood?...even if u beat him...u think u guys gonna
be fine?
 

hollowman

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Originally posted by: slycat
right ..what if ur 120lbs...and the other guy is a head taller, and larger...
and what if this is a racial neighborhood?..
i mean like u and ur gal is waiting for a bus at a black neighborhood...and this black
dood comes up to your chick to talk shit...what do u do?...
u wanna try fight him in his neighborhood?...even if u beat him...u think u guys gonna
be fine?

then what do you suggest? just watch your chick being harassed?
 

illusion88

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I would probaly kick his ass, or at least attempt to. Mabye he wouldnt mind a CS challenge? Lol.... Lightsaber duel.
But then again, im god awfully alone so I dont have to worry about this. HAHA one less thing for me not to worry about, my "girlfriend" will NEVER cheat on me! ;)
 

StageLeft

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I've hospitalized 6 people for doing this in the past and spent 18 months up in Pelican bay for it.
 

hollowman

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Originally posted by: illusion88
I would probaly kick his ass, or at least attempt to. Mabye he wouldnt mind a CS challenge? Lol.... Lightsaber duel.
But then again, im god awfully alone so I dont have to worry about this. HAHA one less thing for me not to worry about, my "girlfriend" will NEVER cheat on me! ;)

hahaha...
 

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