What would you do... EDIT: I need help

[Random Variable]

if your girlfriend of two years had sex with her ex-boyfriend and got pregnant? :disgust:

EDIT: Well, I'm worse than I was yesterday. As hard as I try, I cannot stop thinking about her. What the heck is wrong with me? I thought I had put this all behind me.

 

[pulse8]

There's more than one answer?

 

[khtm]

Did this happen to you?
If so

Honestly, I would NEVER talk to her again. EVER.

:|

 

[Jfur]

well, I wouldn't stick around Hopefully, this is a hypothetical question?

 

[Random Variable]

<< There's more than one answer? >>


I don't know.


<< Did this happen to you? >>


Yes. I found out a few weeks ago, but it's finally starting to set in, and I feel like crap.

 

[Jfur]

<<

<< There's more than one answer? >>


I don't know.


<< Did this happen to you? >>


Yes. I found out a few weeks ago, but it's finally starting to set it, and I feel like crap. >>



that's awful -- you deserve better I can't even imagine...

 

[Danman]

That sucks man. :| I can't believe your gf did that to you.....:frown:

 

[khtm]

<< Yes. I found out a few weeks ago, but it's finally starting to set it, and I feel like crap. >>



And you're still with her, why......? :Q

 

[minendo]

man im really sorry.

my opinion on this situation is forget the b!tch and move on. I know that is a drastic opinion, but I personally do not stand for cheating or anything of that nature. just my two cents

 

[pulse8]

YES

There is only one answer.

Kick the b!tch to the curb. Stand up for yourself.

 

[Random Variable]

<< And you're still with her, why......? >>


I'm not with her. I don't even communicate with her.

EDIT: She keeps calling me, but I don't bother to pick up the phone.

 

[astroview]

Sorry bud, that sucks. She doesn't need you, hell, I'd LMAO at how she and he messed up royally.

 

[minendo]

<< EDIT: She keeps calling me, but I don't bother to pick up the phone. >>



good decision. eventually she will go away

 

[notfred]

Punch her real hard in the stomach, and say "no child deserves to live with you for a mom" Then leave.

 

[PliotronX]

<< I'm not with her. I don't even communicate with her. >>


That's cool, but damn that sucks what she did to you. I've had my heart messed with, but that is worse than any of my experiences with relationships. I hope your wound heals in great haste.

 

[Geforcekj]

is homicide still a crime?

 

[Random Variable]

<< Punch her real hard in the stomach, and say "no child deserves to live with you for a mom" Then leave. >>


I don't want to be incarcerated.


<< is homicide still a crime? >>


yeah, I think it is

 

[MichaelD]

I'll take a different angle. Speaking as someone who got BURNED AT THE FRICKIN' STAKE, are you sure that the baby IS NOT yours? I'm being totally serious. OK, she cheated. That sucks ass. But, how interesting that she cheats and boinks her exboyfriend and turns up pregnant and you've been boinking her all along and she didn't get pregnant? Follow me? I sincerely hope that it's not yours, because you deserve better than a girl like that.

Take comfort in the fact that there's always a seat at the table for you at the Men Who Have Been Severly Burned By Evil Women But Still Come Back For More Abuse Club. I'm not only the Club President...I'm also a client.

 

[Random Variable]

<< I'll take a different angle. Speaking as someone who got BURNED AT THE FRICKIN' STAKE, are you sure that the baby IS NOT yours? I'm being totally serious. OK, she cheated. That sucks ass. But, how interesting that she cheats and boinks her exboyfriend and turns up pregnant and you've been boinking her all along and she didn't get pregnant? Follow me? I sincerely hope that it's not yours, because you deserve better than a girl like that. >>


Well, we never had unprotected sex. But there is no way at this point that I can be 100 percent sure that it's not mine.

 

[MichaelD]

OK, fair enough. Why do you think it's his?

 

[geno]

Just move on man, that's the best you can do. Putting any futher thought into her is just gonna make it worse. Cut your losses and focus on something that'll get your mind off of this... sorry to hear the news, btw

 

[MichaelD]

<< Just move on man, that's the best you can do. Putting any futher thought into her is just gonna make it worse. Cut your losses and focus on something that'll get your mind off of this... >>



You have a point, however, I tried to do just that...guess what? The baby WAS mine. Talk about shock...I was drunk for two weeks after I heard the news. After I sobered up, it hurt even worse. Reality can be SUCH a bitch.

 

[Random Variable]

<< OK, fair enough. Why do you think it's his? >>


I guess because of the fact that I always used a condom and I always made sure that she was taking her birth control.

 

[geno]

Oh yeah, I'm not saying get your mind off things to promote denial or anything, but if this baby is 100% not his, I can't see any good in thinking about the situation. If the baby is his? Then that's a completely different story...

 

[kduncan5]

That she could allow herself to do that in the first place shows that she did not care enough about you to commit herself to any relationship with you whatsoever. That she is making repeated attempts to call you now shows either her willingness to express remorse over her indescretion, or her ignorance. Regardless of what her intentions are now, my reaction would be to ignore her attempts at remorse, or her ignorance, and move on with my life. Life experiences such as these are what teaches us about human nature. Learn from this experience, and strive to be a better human being than any proposed violence against her might tempt you to do. Life is only as good as what you make it to be. You shape your own future. And there is an entire life's worth of future ahead of you. Good luck to you in your chosen future.......-kd5-