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What to recommend when ur FUBARED in ur mind? *YAGT*

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MrFlashy

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And yeah, I know.. it's not called the EX without a reason.. but still..
So this is the deal...

Last weekend I went over to visit her, she lives in another country, but it's not that far from me and I also needed to try and get some more posters up to sell the car I still have there.
Things went as things usually do..and no dissapointment there 😀 but all in all it was a good weekend. I had to catch a early train on sunday morning and as I had been travelling for some 10 minutes I got a sms that ended with "I miss you".. Heeey nice I thought and answered something like (can't recall straight off) "Thanks for a great weekend bla bla bla and I miss you too".. and now the fun starts.

Usually we have been able to call eachother, send mail etc and it has all been good. The following monday I gave her a call just to break a few words and it was, well a bit chilly. Not unfriendly or anything, but totally not interested. Fair enough I thought and didn't hear anything for a few days. So I sendt her a mail asking if she had gotten any feedback on the car, on wednesday, but got no reply for the whole day, so in the evening I just sendt her a short sms asking if she was ok and still alive. Did get an answer that she was over at a friends(female that is) drinking some wine and just relaxing.

Then all dead. Wrote a mail again early today, still wondering about the car. No reply, called her, no answer, sendt her a sms, nada. And right now I am not sure if I should be pissed off or just F*** it and go and get hammered 😉
But the thoughts are just grinding ur brain to mashed potatos and it's REALLY screwing with me as I promised my self not to get back with her for a dozen reasons and still I am so "concerned".. So if anyone know a good cure, the alcohol one I know 😉 but other ideas are appriciated 😉

//Mrflashy
 
Originally posted by: Fritzo
Why is she an EX in the first place? That will determine if the relationship is fixable or not.
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Well, she played around with a guy she wasn't supposed to, they never made it to down and dirty, but still. And the fact that she for the last year we spendt together basically was with me because I had a job and she didnt.. and thats the easy, Teen-rated version of it 😉

//Mrflashy
 
It's over. Plain and simple, it's over.
You two might be able to still be friends, but the relationship is over.
If you keep trying to get back with her, you will just end up getting your feelings hurt more.
Find someone else, forget your ex, and you'll be so much happier.
 
Originally posted by: OrByte
god

stalker much?
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Ok, now that one I didn't get. If refers to the post count, it's low because I really don't have much to ask about. I read, I try, I fail. Then I ask. Simple as that. 🙂

//Mrflashy
 
19 posts??? WWYBYWB??? (who were you before you were banned?)

and also enable your profile, put your computer in the anandtech rigs thing or shorten it up... uh......what else?

oh yeah post pics!!! shens means you are lying, YAGT means yet anohter girl thread and......

i think you should awit a few days.... see whats going on. try calling her then.

and welcome to ATOT 🙂
 
Originally posted by: jndietz
19 posts??? WWYBYWB??? (who were you before you were banned?)

and also enable your profile, put your computer in the anandtech rigs thing or shorten it up... uh......what else?

oh yeah post pics!!! shens means you are lying, YAGT means yet anohter girl thread and......

i think you should awit a few days.... see whats going on. try calling her then.

and welcome to ATOT 🙂
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1. Not been banned. Just a fresh rookie on the boards actually.
2. Profile is enabled, but I can't find back to the "rig" thing, found it a while ago, but didnt mess around with it then. Now that I need too, I can't find it! 😉
3. Jupp, I seriously thinking of the alcohol way for a day or two. should help 😉
4. Thanks 🙂

//Mrflashy
 
Originally posted by: MrFlashy
Originally posted by: OrByte
god

stalker much?
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Ok, now that one I didn't get. If refers to the post count, it's low because I really don't have much to ask about. I read, I try, I fail. Then I ask. Simple as that. 🙂

//Mrflashy
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Oh ok I apologize.

Let me put it another way. Do you like to stalk people alot? you know, like a stalker? Its just that, you seem a little.....clingy.... to me.
 
Originally posted by: MrFlashy

1. Not been banned. Just a fresh rookie on the boards actually.
2. Profile is enabled, but I can't find back to the "rig" thing, found it a while ago, but didnt mess around with it then. Now that I need too, I can't find it! 😉
3. Jupp, I seriously thinking of the alcohol way for a day or two. should help 😉
4. Thanks 🙂

//Mrflashy
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you're the man flashy. you're the coolest new member this boards has ever seen IMO. all the others just have the blackman avatar and post links to free ipods or have something stupid to say like "hi".

don't go to the alcohol :/

EDIT: oh yeah, and we need :camera:s!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Originally posted by: OrByte
Oh ok I apologize.

Let me put it another way. Do you like to stalk people alot? you know, like a stalker? Its just that, you seem a little.....clingy to me.
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i was like that with my first g/f. she was a whore and i didn't wanna accept it.
 
Originally posted by: OrByte
Originally posted by: MrFlashy
Originally posted by: OrByte
god

stalker much?
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Ok, now that one I didn't get. If refers to the post count, it's low because I really don't have much to ask about. I read, I try, I fail. Then I ask. Simple as that. 🙂

//Mrflashy
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Oh ok I apologize.

Let me put it another way. Do you like to stalk people alot? you know, like a stalker? Its just that, you seem a little.....clingy.... to me.
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Ah ok, then I see your point. And no, can't really say I like to stalk, it has that creepy, sleezy thing over it. And yeah I see that it seems a bit clingy, hopefully it isn't but it might be that how she see it as well.. good point.

//Mrflashy
 
yeah... just give it a rest for a few days. don't go straight to alcohol. if you have to rely on alcohol to supress your feelings, then you have some problems... what i'm gettin at is just don't do anything rash. if she's over you, you're gonna have to get over her. its just how things go in this wicked world.............
 
Originally posted by: jndietz

you're the man flashy. you're the coolest new member this boards has ever seen IMO. all the others just have the blackman avatar and post links to free ipods or have something stupid to say like "hi".

don't go to the alcohol :/

EDIT: oh yeah, and we need :camera:s!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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lol.. not to sure if it's so popular to post her pic on the internett witouth her permission. Nasty things might befall me then. Voodo is a baaaad thing 😉

and can someone PLEASE explain to me how in the name of our lord I can give a link in my sig something else than the http addy? the usual .[.L=http]http://my text[./L] won't work for some reason? (witouth the . ofcourse)

nm, found out how it works..

//Mrflashy
 
Originally posted by: jndietz
yeah... just give it a rest for a few days. don't go straight to alcohol. if you have to rely on alcohol to supress your feelings, then you have some problems... what i'm gettin at is just don't do anything rash. if she's over you, you're gonna have to get over her. its just how things go in this wicked world.............
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Nah, the alcohol is just for a night out on town with friends. Clubbing and having somefun. Can't recall last time I was out partying or drinking so I figure it's about time 😀

//Mrflashy
 
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