What to do if girl violates you

[justint]

What if you were really good friends with a girl, but due to another relationship you were committed to you didn't want to be any more than just friends. Your friend wants it to be more than it is though, and you have some akward moments but think you have cleared everything up with a long long conversation one day. So several weeks later you are both watching TV and you fall asleep only to wake up to find her...ummm servicing you orally. Needlless to say you get really pissed and kick her out. What to do next? How do you handle this? Should you tell your signifcant other? Should you ever even talk to your friend again? This is a complicated one.

 

[sohcrates]

That happened to me twice last week!

Oh wait, no it didn't.




Seriously, though, i would think you could talk about it reasonable with said person...i certainly wouldn't completely ignore them if they're a good friend

 

[spanky]

i'd tell her to pay up.

j/k...

i would think this woman has got some issues in her head. stay away.

 

[guyver01]

<< you fall asleep only to wake up to find her...ummm servicing you orally. >>



Am i the only one who doesn't find that to be a bad thing?????

 

[pyonir]

<< What to do if girl violates you >>


ask her to do it again?

 

[NFS4]

I'd bring rape charges against her. Hey if women can do it, why can't men?:Q

 

[Jzero]

This girl might as well have PSYCHO written on her forehead.
I'd avoid her, although she's probably not above stalking if she's not above giving a sleeping guy a BJ.

 

[Carbo]

For crying out loud, grow up and stop being so holier than thou, Flanders!

 

[Adul]

not mind

 

[yobarman]

another vote for Psycho clingy bitch.

 

[notfred]

who cares, since it didn't actually happen.

 

[AU Tiger]

<< you fall asleep only to wake up to find her...ummm servicing you orally. >>



Am i the only one who doesn't find that to be a bad thing?????

Ditto

 

[Fausto]

<< i would think this woman has got some issues in her head. stay away. >>


Sounds like she frequently has more than just "issues" in her head..

Fausto

 

[TuffGirl]

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<< you fall asleep only to wake up to find her...ummm servicing you orally. >>



Am i the only one who doesn't find that to be a bad thing????? >>

Uhhh yeah. You apparently missed the part about his having a significant other and being in a committed relationship?



This girl does sound like bad news and she isn't being much of a friend if she doesn't respect your wishes to be faithful to your s.o. I think you should drop her as a friend for a while.

 

[yakko]

File rape charges and hope she gets the help she needs.

 

[Tiranee]

shoulda enjoyed it.

 

[gopunk]

<< << you fall asleep only to wake up to find her...ummm servicing you orally. >>



Am i the only one who doesn't find that to be a bad thing?????

Ditto >>




apparently you've never had the pleasure of being chased by a girl you really don't want.

 

[AU Tiger]

justint, How you handle depends on many things. If you are serious with your girlfriend I would tell her. It would be a lot better than her finding out down the road. I believe she would have a few thoughts on how to handle your friend as well.

 

[Beau]

<< What to do if girl violates you >>



Shut up and just be glad your getting any. (Finals week sucks, girls get too stressed out)


If you feel that you can't work it out with her on a personal level, then just ignore her, she'll get the point. Rape charges are a bit much to do to a friend I think.

 

[Stiler]

ask your "siginifact other" to meet your best friend

 

[AU Tiger]

apparently you've never had the pleasure of being chased by a girl you really don't want.

There were a few girls in college I could put in that category, but thankfully none of them were bold enough make a move like that. I really don't know what I would have done in that situation.

 

[gopunk]

<< apparently you've never had the pleasure of being chased by a girl you really don't want.

There were a few girls in college I could put in that category, but thankfully none of them were bold enough make a move like that. I really don't know what I would have done in that situation. >>



so you see how it can be a bad thing then...

 

[Hammer]

I can see how that would be a problem in a committed relationship. I had another girl I hadn't seen in a while come up to me and kiss me with my gf less than 5 feet away. :Q I would just tell her you don't trust anymore and that its best if you don't see each other.

 

[Cattlegod]

<< who cares, since it didn't actually happen. >>

 

[Fritzo]

<< <<

<< you fall asleep only to wake up to find her...ummm servicing you orally. >>



Am i the only one who doesn't find that to be a bad thing????? >>

Uhhh yeah. You apparently missed the part about his having a significant other and being in a committed relationship? >>



I'm still not seeing the bad side here

There's no such thing as bad oral sex. Some is just better than others.