What the hell am I wasting my fscking life here for!?!

[zippy]

What the hell am I still here- on these forums- for?!

What a waste of my fscking time...it's my own d@mn fault too.

I'm really down...nothing seems to be going my way...my sister is really sick with mono and strep throat- she was in the hospital for 5 days, I'm having girl problems because I'm a candy ass that can't even ask a girl out so now I'm really uncomfortable around her and I've been worrying my ass off about this, this particular girl is very busy over vacation too- so I'll see her thursday for awhile but it will have been 6 days since I last saw her and I wanted to see her today/tomorrow. To top it all off, I realized that I don't even have enough good friends to have a New Years party.

On the plus side, I ordered a dreamcast today---whoop dee fscking do.

This fscking sucks.

 

[RSI]

Sorry to hear 'bout all that zippy.

Don't worry though, I'm sure everything will turn out fine, just hang in there buddy.

-RSI

 

[Pretender]

My life is worse. You're still a newbie nerd. You're getting a chance to meet your girl. Lets see, I've managed to put off asking someone out for two years. I win.

 

[abracadabra1]

*sigh* for ZIPPY.

i know what you feel bud. when i was younger i went down a similar self-destructive path for months and years. i isolated myself lots because of this sh*t i was going through. i lived in honduras so there were no computers or tvs or radios or anything i could occupy myself w/ so friends were really the only fun there.

i managed to isolate myself in the fields and forests many a times.

just hang in there bud. everything will finally come together...but you just have to hang in there.

just one thing i think may help you...simple quote- do all that you can in a day and then you will be satisfied.

do this everyday and it'll work wonders for you and everyone else.
GL dood!

 

[SuperGroove]

<< What the hell am I still here- on these forums- for?!

What a waste of my fscking time...it's my own d@mn fault too.

I'm really down...nothing seems to be going my way...my sister is really sick with mono and strep throat- she was in the hospital for 5 days, I'm having girl problems because I'm a candy ass that can't even ask a girl out so now I'm really uncomfortable around her and I've been worrying my ass off about this, this particular girl is very busy over vacation too- so I'll see her thursday for awhile but it will have been 6 days since I last saw her and I wanted to see her today/tomorrow. To top it all off, I realized that I don't even have enough good friends to have a New Years party.

On the plus side, I ordered a dreamcast today---whoop dee fscking do.

This fscking sucks >>




While I feel bad that your sister is sick(I hope she feels better, 5 days in the hospital is very uncomfotable), the rest is just plain whining. You feeling uncomfortable around a girl that you haven't even asked out? How is that possible? Not having enough friends to have a New years party? It sounds like you are someone who needs attention.

My family didn't have breakfast and lunch on Christmas. We didn't give each other gifts this year, in hopes that we could save enough money to open out Dry Cleaning business again. My uncle moved in with us so that he could help us out. It's embarassing for my dad and my mother. To top it off, I've lowered myself to whining. I help out the cause though. I take care of my brother, run errands for my parents and I've held myself through the past two horrible years well enough so that I could go to college. This has been the dream of my parents. I've made them happy.

My advice is, when you feel the world has turned against you, think about those who are much less fortunate. Just think of yourself as the glue to keeping things together in tight situations. When all else fails, THEN come here

Paul
P.S-Why waste your time here? I saw you playing Counter-Strike OH yea, don't seach for my old posts, you'll find that I'm a hypocrite

 

[zippy]

Thanks guys.

I'm not a &quot;loser&quot; at my high school either! It's freakin weird...I can't even describe it. I...I dunno, I'm just so sick and tired of everything. All I want to do these last few days is sleep because when I'm asleep my problems aren't there.

 

[zippy]

Supergroove, I know people have many more and much more difficult problems than I do. It's just that I haven't had time to ease into mine if you will, I haven't found a niche. I was just kinda handed them.

I feel uncomfortable because she knows I'm going to ask her out (I presume) and everyone I know knows that I am- yet I don't even though I want to so badly! I've wanted to ask her for almost 2 months- but I just can't do it for some reason. I really don't want to miss my chance because she is very special.

I was playing CS earlier because I have nothing better to do with my time- lack of true friends...

 

[Soybomb]

I think when it really starts to bother her you'll force yoruself to do it. Get on the ball now, make plans, formulate a strategy, we'll all help you if you want, next time you see her tell yourself you will ask her out. Don't even think of not doing it, just make the words start coming out and dont turn back.

 

[ltk007]

Wow, and I thought I was the only loser on this board. Oh wait, no I didn't.

 

[Pretender]

Don't make the mistake I did. Ask her out, don't even think of what will happen or what can, do it now before it's too late. The next chance you see her, the next time you call her or talk to her.

 

[zippy]

Thanks guys! When I see her thursday I will ask- I have to! Otherwise...I dunno if I'll have another chance. Maybe I'll have another chance with her- but I'll be so fed up with myself I won't let myself and I'll get truly depressed...right now I'm just sad and pissed off at myself.

BTW, lol ltk. Thanks for the laugh.

 

[mpg]

Hehe a cuple weeks ago I was in the same bind, I made goals to meet woman and stay off the computer. That exactly what I did. I made out with a chic and got to know her *real* good(and I even asked her out, I still didn't recieve a answer) and met tons of friends. I figured out a cuple things woman are good for nothing and so are most of your friends. I still want to have sex with her but its to hard to work around her schedule to get to that stage. Anyways its my &quot;friends&quot; sister, so that doesn't help much. Now I'm back to hermit stage where I sit at the computer all day, I could go out but I'm too lazy.

BTW, did you guys go out on a date or anything yet? How do you know she is interested? Advice, talk to a friend of hers to see whats up and use this person to find out anything you need to know.

 

[EmperorNero]

well gee thanks a lot! I never really worried too much about sitting in front of my computer all day b/c I always knew there are ppl just like me. and now that you guys are saying outright that sitting in front of your comp all day makes a person a loser, now I feel bad about MY life. damn! now I'm depressed too.

 

[zippy]

mpg, I know that she likes me- quite a few of her friends have told me. We have gone to a bunch of movies and last saturday we were at a mutual friend's house and held hands watching a movie. I would have asked then but she was leaving 20 minutes after the movie ended so...

 

[Soybomb]

Ohhhhh zippy....man you've already been accepted if you're holding hands. How old are you? If you more than say a junior in highschool asking out for a date is pretty much unnecessary. Call her up, and suggest you two go get some food and go bowling or something, at the end of the date try for a good night hug, consider politely asking for a good night kiss the next time

 

[Yo Ma Ma]

I agree with Soybomb, if you are holding hands with her then you've nothing to worry about!

 

[mpg]

Make it spontanous, I say. Do something weird...thats what I do anyways. Make shure you are looking into eachothers eyes though. I don't really like to plan it out. What happened to me is that I was talking on the phone with a friend of the girl I liked, she told me that the girl I liked, thought i was cute blah blah blah and said I should ask her out right there (with her brother there). Anyways I asked her out joking around i guess. She ran out of the room embarassed. Later we went outside I said &quot;you still haven't answered my question&quot; I think she blew me off I don't exactly remember what she said. Anyways our relationship progressed and we were scamming ( a combination of frenching and touching ) with eathother, after that everything has come to a hault. Anyways I don't think that relationship is going anywhere, I can resume it if I want to. I just don't want to deal with that crap anymore. Its difficult to go out with her for a cuple reasons 1) I'm friends with her brother 2) She doesn't goto my school 3) If its a bad breakup I can risk ass whooping ...the list goes on.

There is other woman out there but I know if I went out with her I would have some kind of sex, thats all i'm interested anymore. i'm blabering. Anyways good luck. let us know what happens.

 

[zippy]

I know...but I think she wants it more official...

 

[mpg]

Hehe where I live, when you are going out...you are having SEX! so basically asking a chic &quot;do want to go out?&quot; decoded is &quot;is it alright if we have sex?&quot; It varies from people to people, but these are the chics I look for.

hehe look what you did zippy, you made me think about her?! :frown: Theres nothing like a chic comming to you and hold ur hand and cudle next to you.

 

[Valhalla1]

do what I do. smoke some weed. you'll feel much better.

 

[zippy]

Valhalla, no thanks, my uncle ruined his life because of drugs. I'd rather face my problems- well, not really, but it sure beats drugs.

 

[Muadib]

Don't give into the fear zippy. You're more than half way there, but you must take the next step NOW or this could become a pattern for you. You can do it man!!!!!

 

[IBhacknU]

well Zippy, your title speaks for itself. There's more to life than this board. You're a sharp kid... you'll do fine

 

[UnixFreak]

My philospy on this, take it from someone that has endured some crap, whenever something bad happens to you, or you are feeling down, just remember, &quot;god is seeing how tough you are&quot;. I am not really a religous person, but I believe this more than anything else. Its true, good things will come to you if you are strong enough to handle it.

 

[shiner]

You're probably here for the same reason I am...It's cold and icy outside, my girlfriend is in Pittsbugh at her Parent's house until Jan 3rd, and I just don't give a rat's behind about getting out on the icy streets in either of my cars.