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What should i do ?

First of all, you need to realise somthing. Teenage romance is a hard thing for everyone at that stage of life. And i think you were a little too full on in that msg you wrote.
 
Originally posted by: FormerlyKwarkers
First of all, you need to realise somthing. Teenage romance is ridiculously stupid and hormone-driven for everyone at that stage of life. And i think you were a little too full on in that msg you wrote.

fixed that for you 🙂
 
Originally posted by: FormerlyKwarkers
First of all, you need to realise somthing. Teenage romance is a hard thing for everyone at that stage of life. And i think you were a little too full on in that msg you wrote.

Yep, that letter was 100% phony and if the girl had any common sense, she wouldn't talk to him ever again.

That was the lamest ****** I've read all day. compguy786, grow the fvck up and quit being a little twerp.
 
Originally posted by: Nikamichi
Cliffs:

-Young prebuscent male gets horny on female friend
-Female runs away crying
-Hilarity ensues


actually, i didnt get horny on her or anything
it was definately not on her
 
Even if there are no cliff notes, paragraphs are always a huge help.

EDIT:

And tell us what you said to her so we can ridicule you.
 
i told her i got lonely the other night and looked at porno movies and then got sprung and then you know what happens.........
but i am truly not like that, like im not a horny bastard that talks horny 24/7
i dont like that lifestly at all
 
Originally posted by: compguy786
i told her i got lonely the other night and looked at porno movies and then got sprung and then you know what happens.........
but i am truly not like that, like im not a horny bastard that talks horny 24/7
i dont like that lifestly at all


everyone likes pr0n and whacking,dont worry about it
 
Originally posted by: compguy786
i told her i got lonely the other night and looked at porno movies and then got sprung and then you know what happens.........
but i am truly not like that, like im not a horny bastard that talks horny 24/7
i dont like that lifestly at all



I'm speechless
 
You sound too desperate, to be honest. That will turn her off more than the videos you made of you dancing.

Play it off. You messed up. Apologize and move on. Don't plead or beg.

You'll be ok and you're young so you'll learn but it doesn't sound sincere, it sounds clingy.
 
im not desperate to get a girl and F$#$^ her up, i know the consequences and i dont love her for her body, i lover her for her perosonality and etc
 
I understand. I didn't mean it that way.

I apologize if you took it that way. I wasn't trying to be a smartass but rereading my post, I guess you can take it that way.

You're busted. What can you do now? Just play it off like you're this fun and crazy guy and if she doesn't take you back then she's going to be mising out.

I AM being sincere about being clingy tho. IMO, it looks that way by that email. qYou should always be honest with your feelings with a woman but don't come off clingy or needy. I guess I can't say it correctly or something in text.
 
Originally posted by: compguy786
hey guys
recently i had a good conversation with my great friend online, for some reason i told her some weird nasty stuff, i dont know what happend or what got into me because im not like that. I like this girl alot, shes a very sweet girl and has had some trouble in the past but doesnt look like it at all. she told me today that the other day you took it to extremes on what you told me, and that you made me feel sick and i didnt want to talk to you at all then, and if i talked, i only said a couple of words. I have no idea what to do because i dont do nasty stuff or i am not like that at all. I did some weird stuff the other day and i told her, i dont know what got into me taht night. but i wrote her a email today as a apology letter and before i left a message to her, this is the message i wrote

Hey XXXX, what in the world happend to your myspace , looks like you went gothic or something lol, well this is what i have to say
I am very deeply sorry about whatever happend online like 2 days ago, i dont know what happend to me, i think i just went over the limit or like a evil spirit got into me, I am deeply sorry for just cutting you off on AIM, i had to leave like right then because my dad was out the door, and i didnt have even time to say im sorry. After that i went to a friends house then to the gym to play basketball, today was the worst night of my life. I couldn't Focus on basketball at all, i didnt shut down anyone and made A point, when usually im hitting threes. My friends were all up to me and were like whats up with you , you look sad, and i told them im fine. truth is, i appreciate you telling me about what i did wrong, i am very deeply sorry about it, you should have told me right then, i went over the limit that day, i have no idea what got into me because i dont do any of that, i guess some wrong influence got into me or something. i had called you after nine. You probably were out with your sister or just rejected my call for some reason. If you heard my message, youll probably feel how i felt about that situation. I was like so sad the whole time and thinking "what the f#$% happend to me the other day"
seriosuly i dont know and im definately not like that, you probably think im a horny bastard pervert or something now. I feel really really guilty, please forgive me because i am definately not like that and dont do anything like that. It will mean alot to me if you forgave me for my online actions. i wouldnt want anyone to think im sick or anything, or just plain nasty, if i were really like that, i would probably like go get hoes and stuff, i got home at 12:15 and you signed of on 12:10, i was like s$%^, please please forgive me, i feel terrible and just plain like an idiot. I have never ever talked to or done anything so horrendous, sick and disgusting to anyone, i honestly dont know happend to me that night i swear on anything i have no clue, please forgive me, or i will like cry forever, i cannot lose the only real best friend i ever had, the only friend that ever made me feel good, the only friend i really liked. Please dont hate me, the whole time after you told me, i was just so sad and felt broken and felt hated, i am truly not like that , i can never imagine me doing that, the devil. or something got into me. Your really really special to me and i wouldnt dare do anything to hurt you, i love you so much that i made a dumb video of me dancing, for you, and even took time out and made a little GIF image of me dancing. Please call me back, or something, it will mean alot to me, and i beg you still, please forgive me, and you dont know how sorry i feel and how guilty and idiotic. thank you for telling me my own mistake that i did not realize. i didnt tell you that crap to like me more or something, that would DEFINATELY tell someone that this guy is the horniest bastard alive or something. Yes it is very sick, disgusting and just so horrendous of whatever i told you, whatever i told you was what i did, and i dont know why i did that, i never ever do that. you know i am not like that, when you listen to my message, you will understand how bad , guilty and just ashamed i feel. i cant believe i stooped so low, once again, thank you for telling me, what i did wrong, please please dont leave me, or stop talking to me whatsoever, i really really love you and wouldnt do anything to make you sick or hurt
Thank you very much, and i am deeply sorry and guilty
XXX

I highlighted the important parts so you can just read the bold font words.
 
Originally posted by: compguy786
i told her i got lonely the other night and looked at porno movies and then got sprung and then you know what happens.........
but i am truly not like that, like im not a horny bastard that talks horny 24/7
i dont like that lifestly at all


I'm scarred for life. kthx.:laugh:
 
Originally posted by: Snagle
Originally posted by: compguy786
hey guys
recently i had a good conversation with my great friend online, for some reason i told her some weird nasty stuff, i dont know what happend or what got into me because im not like that. I like this girl alot, shes a very sweet girl and has had some trouble in the past but doesnt look like it at all. she told me today that the other day you took it to extremes on what you told me, and that you made me feel sick and i didnt want to talk to you at all then, and if i talked, i only said a couple of words. I have no idea what to do because i dont do nasty stuff or i am not like that at all. I did some weird stuff the other day and i told her, i dont know what got into me taht night. but i wrote her a email today as a apology letter and before i left a message to her, this is the message i wrote

Hey XXXX, what in the world happend to your myspace , looks like you went gothic or something lol, well this is what i have to say
I am very deeply sorry about whatever happend online like 2 days ago, i dont know what happend to me, i think i just went over the limit or like a evil spirit got into me, I am deeply sorry for just cutting you off on AIM, i had to leave like right then because my dad was out the door, and i didnt have even time to say im sorry. After that i went to a friends house then to the gym to play basketball, today was the worst night of my life. I couldn't Focus on basketball at all, i didnt shut down anyone and made A point, when usually im hitting threes. My friends were all up to me and were like whats up with you , you look sad, and i told them im fine. truth is, i appreciate you telling me about what i did wrong, i am very deeply sorry about it, you should have told me right then, i went over the limit that day, i have no idea what got into me because i dont do any of that, i guess some wrong influence got into me or something. i had called you after nine. You probably were out with your sister or just rejected my call for some reason. If you heard my message, youll probably feel how i felt about that situation. I was like so sad the whole time and thinking "what the f#$% happend to me the other day"
seriosuly i dont know and im definately not like that, you probably think im a horny bastard pervert or something now. I feel really really guilty, please forgive me because i am definately not like that and dont do anything like that. It will mean alot to me if you forgave me for my online actions. i wouldnt want anyone to think im sick or anything, or just plain nasty, if i were really like that, i would probably like go get hoes and stuff, i got home at 12:15 and you signed of on 12:10, i was like s$%^, please please forgive me, i feel terrible and just plain like an idiot. I have never ever talked to or done anything so horrendous, sick and disgusting to anyone, i honestly dont know happend to me that night i swear on anything i have no clue, please forgive me, or i will like cry forever, i cannot lose the only real best friend i ever had, the only friend that ever made me feel good, the only friend i really liked. Please dont hate me, the whole time after you told me, i was just so sad and felt broken and felt hated, i am truly not like that , i can never imagine me doing that, the devil. or something got into me. Your really really special to me and i wouldnt dare do anything to hurt you, i love you so much that i made a dumb video of me dancing, for you, and even took time out and made a little GIF image of me dancing. Please call me back, or something, it will mean alot to me, and i beg you still, please forgive me, and you dont know how sorry i feel and how guilty and idiotic. thank you for telling me my own mistake that i did not realize. i didnt tell you that crap to like me more or something, that would DEFINATELY tell someone that this guy is the horniest bastard alive or something. Yes it is very sick, disgusting and just so horrendous of whatever i told you, whatever i told you was what i did, and i dont know why i did that, i never ever do that. you know i am not like that, when you listen to my message, you will understand how bad , guilty and just ashamed i feel. i cant believe i stooped so low, once again, thank you for telling me, what i did wrong, please please dont leave me, or stop talking to me whatsoever, i really really love you and wouldnt do anything to make you sick or hurt
Thank you very much, and i am deeply sorry and guilty
XXX

I highlighted the important parts so you can just read the bold font words.



:laugh:
 
LOL the bold doesn't help you.

it starts out as...


i dont know what happend to me because my dad couldn't Focus on basketball at all My friends were all telling me about your sister and im definately a horny bastard pervert etc. 😀
 
Originally posted by: Snagle
Originally posted by: compguy786
hey guys
recently i had a good conversation with my great friend online, for some reason i told her some weird nasty stuff, i dont know what happend or what got into me because im not like that. I like this girl alot, shes a very sweet girl and has had some trouble in the past but doesnt look like it at all. she told me today that the other day you took it to extremes on what you told me, and that you made me feel sick and i didnt want to talk to you at all then, and if i talked, i only said a couple of words. I have no idea what to do because i dont do nasty stuff or i am not like that at all. I did some weird stuff the other day and i told her, i dont know what got into me taht night. but i wrote her a email today as a apology letter and before i left a message to her, this is the message i wrote

Hey XXXX, what in the world happend to your myspace , looks like you went gothic or something lol, well this is what i have to say
I am very deeply sorry about whatever happend online like 2 days ago, i dont know what happend to me, i think i just went over the limit or like a evil spirit got into me, I am deeply sorry for just cutting you off on AIM, i had to leave like right then because my dad was out the door, and i didnt have even time to say im sorry. After that i went to a friends house then to the gym to play basketball, today was the worst night of my life. I couldn't Focus on basketball at all, i didnt shut down anyone and made A point, when usually im hitting threes. My friends were all up to me and were like whats up with you , you look sad, and i told them im fine. truth is, i appreciate you telling me about what i did wrong, i am very deeply sorry about it, you should have told me right then, i went over the limit that day, i have no idea what got into me because i dont do any of that, i guess some wrong influence got into me or something. i had called you after nine. You probably were out with your sister or just rejected my call for some reason. If you heard my message, youll probably feel how i felt about that situation. I was like so sad the whole time and thinking "what the f#$% happend to me the other day"
seriosuly i dont know and im definately not like that, you probably think im a horny bastard pervert or something now. I feel really really guilty, please forgive me because i am definately not like that and dont do anything like that. It will mean alot to me if you forgave me for my online actions. i wouldnt want anyone to think im sick or anything, or just plain nasty, if i were really like that, i would probably like go get hoes and stuff, i got home at 12:15 and you signed of on 12:10, i was like s$%^, please please forgive me, i feel terrible and just plain like an idiot. I have never ever talked to or done anything so horrendous, sick and disgusting to anyone, i honestly dont know happend to me that night i swear on anything i have no clue, please forgive me, or i will like cry forever, i cannot lose the only real best friend i ever had, the only friend that ever made me feel good, the only friend i really liked. Please dont hate me, the whole time after you told me, i was just so sad and felt broken and felt hated, i am truly not like that , i can never imagine me doing that, the devil. or something got into me. Your really really special to me and i wouldnt dare do anything to hurt you, i love you so much that i made a dumb video of me dancing, for you, and even took time out and made a little GIF image of me dancing. Please call me back, or something, it will mean alot to me, and i beg you still, please forgive me, and you dont know how sorry i feel and how guilty and idiotic. thank you for telling me my own mistake that i did not realize. i didnt tell you that crap to like me more or something, that would DEFINATELY tell someone that this guy is the horniest bastard alive or something. Yes it is very sick, disgusting and just so horrendous of whatever i told you, whatever i told you was what i did, and i dont know why i did that, i never ever do that. you know i am not like that, when you listen to my message, you will understand how bad , guilty and just ashamed i feel. i cant believe i stooped so low, once again, thank you for telling me, what i did wrong, please please dont leave me, or stop talking to me whatsoever, i really really love you and wouldnt do anything to make you sick or hurt
Thank you very much, and i am deeply sorry and guilty
XXX

I highlighted the important parts so you can just read the bold font words.


Reminds me of a Cinemax movie.
 
I am a patient, caring, thoughtful woman with a smile on my lips and love in my heart...

...and halfway through reading that I wanted to scream and tear my hair out.

Brevity and sincerity, please.

Tell her that you're sorry. Tell her you don't know why you told her that except that it's the kind of stuff you talk with your guy friends about and she is such a good friend and you feel so comfortable talking to her that you just kind of forgot who you were talking to at the moment. Tell her you respect her way too much to ever talk about guy stuff like that to her and that it'll never happen again! Tell her you feel just awful and would she please forgive you.

It's short, to the point, covers all parts of the apology, plausible explanation, makes what you did sound less perverted (it's just guy stuff).
 
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