what should i do with 2 girls?

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TranSoft

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1st of all, I can't get them both to bed at the same time... don't even go there.
i'm lookin for a long and healthy relationship.
here's my situation:

i met a girl, X1, a long time ago... we got along very well until she had to move to another state.
then... i met another girl, X2... and we have been going out for a couple of years.

now... the X1 comes back to town to visit... so we met up and hung out. I told X2 that X1 is coming by to visit...So X2 wanted to meet X1 for lunch. So I took them both out for lunch etc... anyway I hung out with X1 most of the day because I really missed her. X1 made me really happy and just gave me a fresh look in life again. X2 has been in my life for a while and has been by my side most of the time...

Here's what I'm stuck with:

X1: We talked a lot before and always understood each other more than best friends. when we hang out, we both enjoy every aspect there is being around each other. But now she's gone again but she left behind a deeper scar in my heart. I'm not sure if she feels the same way I do but I think she does. You just kinda know the feeling.


X2 been there for me and I can really depend on her. We don't have too much in common. We always have to put a lot of effort to work something out. We known each other for a while and our parents met and everything seems to be going in the right direction. I just don't feel like everything is working as it should be. Maybe I could use an example: It's like having a very good paying job but you're just working there because you know that you'll be financially secure.
She really cares for me and would/has sacrificed so much for me. I feel like I owe her my life but we lost the spark through times of hardship and I don't see her the same way as I use to. I know she's a wonderful person but I just don't feel it.


Do I follow my heart or mind?
 
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filmmaker

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Originally posted by: TranSoft
Do I follow my heart or mind?
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Both. If you don't know how X1 feels or even know when she'll be in your life again, it might be best to work something out with X2.

Or if you care about X1 enough, you'll do mostly anything to be with her. Just don't kill anyone. ;)
 
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Encryptic

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Since X1 is in another state and X2 doesn't have the spark anymore, I'd just go with the 3rd option: Neither of them.
 
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GoingUp

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Sounds like a disaster in the making. Its tough. I think that you owe some loyaly to X2 because of the support she gave you. On the other hand, if the spark isn't there, then maybe you shouldn't stick together in a relationship. Either way youre taking a huge risk. Make sure youre upfront and honest with the both of them, and whatever you do, don't cheat on one with the other.
 
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Electric Amish

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If you have to work at everything it's never going to be "fun", it's always going to be work.

How much time did you spend with X1?

amish
 
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TranSoft

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Originally posted by: Electric Amish
If you have to work at everything it's never going to be "fun", it's always going to be work.

How much time did you spend with X1?

amish
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we hung out for two days...
but before X2 we talked a lot over the phone... never really got the hook up
 
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DaiShan

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go for both, that way they will both find out and dump you. Then you will be alone, which is what you deserve for not putting YAGT in the title. !!! :p
 
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PG

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Since you can't figure it out give me their numbers and I'll show them a good time.

 
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MikeMike

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tell x2 that you have feelings for x1, and that you like both of them a lot. however if x1 gets back in your life your relationship w/ x2 (who ur talkin too) might be in jepardy (spell it for me please) and that you just want x2 to kno wthat, see what she says.

and of course ban yourself from at for not putting YAGT and not putting PICS!!

MIKE
 
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TranSoft

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Originally posted by: MrYogi
You don't see a spark in X2 bcos u are still interested in X1. :|

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X1 kinda just magically appeared recently after lost of communications a couple years ago.
 
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