What should i do? Girl problems...

[AdamDuritz99]

Hey sup. Ok, i've posted about this a month or two ago here, but things are getting even more questionable. Ok, so like usual we carry on converstations with email regularly. No biggie, just friends..distant at that. Well her Birthday was last Friday so i decided to send a birthday card. She was very happy and thought it was really nice that i remembered. Ok today i get two emails, and i don't know what to think. First off, i emailed her just saying how my thanksgiving went, and how i saw all my friends. So today she says she's glad i had fun this weekend and it reminded her about last year around this time.(she was really good friends with my friends last year. Kinda one of those perfect holiday seasons last year). Next thing she said, which i won't go into much detail, but she dreamed of me last night and i got a girl pregnant and she was really mad. The second email was one of those survey about your friends to learn more about them type of emails. There was a question that asked "have you ever been in love?". Her exact awnser was "Yes...". And i know she is talking about me. what the heck does that mean? I'm i just looking too deep into all this today, or is there some hint? I need advice......


peace
sean

*EDIT*
oh yah, if you don't remember my last post, just read it quickly. There's some important detials about her parents and the situation.

 

[notfred]

how easy is this one. SHE STILL LIKES YOU

 

[Grunt03]

I do think that you need help with this one.........
She wants you ..................

 

[Darknite]

ok young one. heres my suggestion. USE THE FORCE~! THE FORCE

 

[PliotronX]

I suggest you have a look at the condom thread

 

[silverpig]

My experience with the force is it only works on blondes and drunk girls... lol.

 

[PsychoAndy]

pics?

 

[AdamDuritz99]

<< pics? >>



LoL i should of figured that someone would ask. Sorry, i don't have a scanner or a digital camera.

I know this seems obvious, that's why i'm questioning it, but i just don't know. Like in my previous thread, there's problems with her parents, and everyone seemed to think i should just go on and not try to get into a relationship with her. Now everyone thinks i should?
i'm so confused....

peace
sean

 

[aka1nas]

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<< pics? >>

LoL i should of figured that someone would ask. Sorry, i don't have a scanner or a digital camera. I know this seems obvious, that's why i'm questioning it, but i just don't know. Like in my previous thread, there's problems with her parents, and everyone seemed to think i should just go on and not try to get into a relationship with her. Now everyone thinks i should? i'm so confused.... peace sean >>



Come to Best Buy and I will sell you one.

 

[dawman45]

hmm...i havent gotten another girl pregnant in any of my gf's dream to my knowledge...cant say the same for my own dreams

Dont worry about it buddy...girls love to overreact over everything and anything

 

[AdamDuritz99]

<< hmm...i havent gotten another girl pregnant in any of my gf's dream to my knowledge...cant say the same for my own dreams

Dont worry about it buddy...girls love to overreact over everything and anything >>



She was mad in her dream, not in real life. She was just telling me that. For some reason, that i don't know.

peace
sean

 

[RalphWiggum]

Have you guys been drifting further apart prior to her emails and her telling you of this dream?
I believe girls are evil , so I also believe that they can "sense" when you are losing interest in them and thats when they reel you out some more bait... Uhh sorry, but that fishing analogy is the best I can do...

 

[miniMUNCH]

The question is...do you still have feelings for her? Your old post was a month ago ya know. I won't say "love" because that is asking a little much when you haven't seen one another for a while.

Look...I'm 25 and been married for 2.5 years...something a realized real quick (thank be to God) is that I really clicked with my wife, aside from the fact that she's gorgeous...now, I remember thinking, "should I really cash in now or remain a bachelor for a while and she what other 'oppotunities' present themself." Well, I realized partly due to my dad's sage advice that a woman you really click with is a rare thing...and I 100% sold out pursue marriage...single best choice I have or will ever make.

A woman you really click with is rare, especially in this day and age...so my question would be: "Is this that kind of situation?" If you think that it's a possiblity then pursue it and nevermind her parents...she should do the same, it's just a truck and state college is just as good if not better.

On a side note: It really is mystifying to me that some individuals are so anti-religion...I wonder if they ever think about where or how the universe as we know and experience it came to be...I mean, it begs the question. And don't tell me "evolution"...I'll certainly buy that as mechanism (not a cause or driving force) for the advance and complexifcation of "life" but it doesn't answer why or how we are here. Just so you know: the big bang is also just a mechanism...it does explain why or how. Honestly, the beginning of our world is a mystery...it precludes the "supernature"...i.e. GOD or something or that sort. With that in mind...I really don't understand this intolerance for religion and/or spirituality....anyhow...time for bed.

 

[AdamDuritz99]

Before you go to bed miniMUNCH, yes i still love her. Even after this time. When we were together, we definatly CLICKED. but after going thru 2 months of her parents tourcher to us, she couldn't take it anymore. I don't know if she meant it, but when we broke up she just said, that she wants to be friends still, but she doesn't feel that way towards me anymore. I don't know if that was her way to let me go, or if she meant it though. And like her response said, Have you ever been in love and "Yes..." was her awnser.

peace
sean

 

[ace31216]

She is got it in for you...

 

[AdamDuritz99]

I'm about to email her again, do you think i should say anything, or just be normal?

peace
sean

 

[TuffGirl]

Your girlfriend probably meant it when she said she was in love with you but that doesn't necessarily mean she still is in love with you. The email survey question was "have you ever been in love?," right? I say if you're not sure about her present feelings, just ask her. It sounds like you're on good terms at least so you can ask that, which is more than how a lot of other exes are with each other. It's normal for a someone to have residual tender feelings for their ex especially after dating them for a long time, so that's probably what she's feeling now. But I wouldn't take that to mean she wants to get back together with you. If she did, I think she'd make it clearer.

In your post form a month ago, the consensus was that you should back out unless she stands up to her parents. She hasn't done so. Once she does do that, I think that would be a clear sign that she wants to get back with you. But until then, you should just keep it cool as friends.

IM me if you just want someone to listen, ok?

 

[Cattlegod]

10 bucks says that the girl in her dream that you got preg. was herself.

 

[Grinchy]

The most difficult thing to understand about women is that they don't make decisions like we do. They will end a relationship just because it doesn't feel right (and they'll stay in bad ones because it does feel right). And once the feeling is 'off', they aren't coming back, no matter how much the data adds up that they should or how much they miss you or love you or whatever. I was just discussing this Sat night with a woman who had called off her engagement recently. There isn't really any way for us to understand it, I call it the flip out factor, but whatever it is, in my small experience it is how they work on a visceral level and once they go there they aren't coming back into the relationship wholly unreserved anymore. And do you want that? Don't you deserve someone who isn't hesitant or hiding their actual emotions. I'm sorry bud, but I'd say she is still not interested in you, and you're best off trying to put it behind you and move on.

 

[xeno2060]

Be honest with her, ask her if she has feelings for you now. Tell her how you feel, then both of you take it from there. You can beat a dead horse,
but it's not gonna move. Goodluck!

 

[AdamDuritz99]

eh, i thought about this for a whle. I think i'm just going to let things go how they are. If she want's any sort of real relationship in the future, she's going have to stand up to her mom.
Thanks for the advice you all.

peace
sean