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What should i do AT Peeps?

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desiplaya4life

Golden Member
me and this woman been talking since dec and we really like(d) each other. we have same taste in music bands (some most of you havent even heard of ex: the cranberries) love working with kids (she's a school teacher, i do kids volunteer) and connect on same levels. she used to call me every morning at 6am b4 she went to work . BUT one thing we both hesitate on was who call who first blah blah during the day. well that led to not talking to each other..

a week later I Took the step and i started talking to her again and she says she really misses me quite a few times and moving foward well we decided to go out following sat (this past sat). next morning at 6 she calls as i asked her to, i miss the call since i left it on vibration accidently and well then i returned her calll, left voicemail and never got a call back. thought i try to get in reach with her again and called her up in afternoon then at night and same stuff. no call return

sat came i txt'ed her basically "we are not going out, if you have other plans, go ahead n do so." now on her online profile she adds on these sad songs, picture of kids, writing phrases. one being "i took my heart out ...for you.. then i ate it" and so on. basically i see her been depressed for past 3 days.

i want her back. i really care for her. she connects to me on many levels quite others havent. what can i do? should i call her again or what?

thanks guys/gals
 
well i mean shoot i got in touch w/ her the first time.. if i do it again seems like im always the one who has to climb the mountains :-/ or should i not think like that? i dont wanna be the one always trying to go extra mile for the right thing..

im 20, she is 20.
 
i feel ya man, pretty much the same thing is happening to me ;\ dont know what to do. never get a read off the girl, man why cant it be like the movies or sumthin eh?
 
Sounds to me like it's not worth it. I mean...it sounds like she called and in her mind you did not drop everything and answer. You ignored her call (though you didn't mean to) and now it's drama time.
 
Originally posted by: George P Burdell
Originally posted by: Czar
stop being drama queens both of you

set a date and stick to it
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Exactly. Either grow a pair, or walk away.
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No kidding! For two people who supposedly connect on so many levels, they sure can't seem to connect.. Reading the OP is like reading a story about puppy love in Jr. High school.
 
Another thing.... just pick a day, and go out and talk all this out with her, face to face. Don't do it over the phone / im / sms / pigeon / whatchamaycallit. And please, please, don't dress like this.
 
Originally posted by: Acanthus
Originally posted by: RCN
Call her. Don't tell us. Do you have to let it linger?
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Great, 1st you're an archivist, now i have that horrible cranberries song from the 90s stuck in my head.

:|:|
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😀

and he (the fan) didn't notice.
 
The whole thing above is pretty sad for 20 year olds, but whatever. It may be shins. But who would think most people haven't heard of the Cranberries?
That is a lot like saying you like this obscure oldies band called the Beetles.
zombie, zombie, zombie
 
Originally posted by: RCN
Originally posted by: Acanthus
Originally posted by: RCN
Call her. Don't tell us. Do you have to let it linger?
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Great, 1st you're an archivist, now i have that horrible cranberries song from the 90s stuck in my head.

:|:|
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😀

and he (the fan) didn't notice.
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i did notice. 🙂

so i should call her and just ask her for dinner straight up?
 
Originally posted by: AcidBath
The whole thing above is pretty sad for 20 year olds, but whatever. It may be shins. But who would think most people haven't heard of the Cranberries?
That is a lot like saying you like this obscure oldies band called the Beetles.
zombie, zombie, zombie
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well alot of new age people havent heard of the cranberries. none of my friends know who they are.
 
Originally posted by: desiplaya4life
im just worried she wont pick up on me maybe🙁 what should i leave her in voicemail then?


lol no her name is not LaFawndah
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is this just an online thing and you haven't met in real life yet?

 
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
you call her and she doesnt return the call?... twice???

and then she claims to be depressed?

sounds weird to me.
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she's really wierd i know lol

yea it would be second time if i call her today n not answer.


and yea then she goes to put up all the kids pictures she has, sad songs that made her friends depressed lol, and crazy headlines.

real life thing!
 
Originally posted by: desiplaya4life
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
you call her and she doesnt return the call?... twice???

and then she claims to be depressed?

sounds weird to me.
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she's really wierd i know lol

yea it would be second time if i call her today n not answer.


and yea then she goes to put up all the kids pictures she has, sad songs that made her friends depressed lol, and crazy headlines.

real life thing!
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Q: when you call her and she doesn't answer... do you leave a message or just hang up?
 
Originally posted by: George P Burdell
Originally posted by: desiplaya4life
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
you call her and she doesnt return the call?... twice???

and then she claims to be depressed?

sounds weird to me.
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she's really wierd i know lol

yea it would be second time if i call her today n not answer.


and yea then she goes to put up all the kids pictures she has, sad songs that made her friends depressed lol, and crazy headlines.

real life thing!
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Q: when you call her and she doesn't answer... do you leave a message or just hang up?
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sometimes i just hang up n sometimes i leave a voicemail. the last call i made to her, i left a voicemail
 
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