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theprodigalrebel

Lifer
Oct 4, 2004
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Originally posted by: sixone
Originally posted by: compguy786
TM37- you are right
she apparently doesnt like me, but i like her..thats the one thing thats true. i didnt like her before until now, and i was totally different back in the day as well. Im getting my car in 02/07, im gonna take her out somewhere...and ill make it work...i hope she changes her mind then.
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Oh, boy.... :confused:
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You are going to take her for a drive in February? :confused:

You are gong to wait two months for some cheesy Valentine's Day gimmick that is bound to fail? No dude, she will have a date and will be hit on by two dozen guys in these two months. What gives you the idea you need to wait to get a car to win her over? BAD approach to the whole situation. You need to learn a few things about small-talk, feigning profound wisdom and the ilk.

Chicks dig a guy who is in control - of his life and every one in it. That's what you need to do - be the cool brooding smart guy with a killer sense of humor and throw in some sensitivity. This whole road trip idea suxorz.

Do something now...or find another girl.
 
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compguy786

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oh no im not doing a valentines thingy...im getting my license then =(
thats the sucky part, i have a car, or else i would have gone out way before.
she likes every part about me, but i still dont understand whats up
oh well
im not trying to go and have s#$ with her, i just want someone that is close to me and that i can happily spend time with and what not.
 
sixone

sixone

Lifer
May 3, 2004
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Originally posted by: compguy786
oh no im not doing a valentines thingy...im getting my license then =(
thats the sucky part, i have a car, or else i would have gone out way before.
she likes every part about me, but i still dont understand whats up
oh well
im not trying to go and have s#$ with her, i just want someone that is close to me and that i can happily spend time with and what not.
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If she wanted that, you wouldn't have made this thread. She's made her choice, it's time for you to man up and move on. Don't be a doormat - it's a hard habit to break.
 
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Snicks

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As someone who's been there....move on. My best friend in high school was a guy who was in love with me (he thought at the time). If she hasn't said anything to you by now.....it's NOT gonna happen.

Either realize that and be her friend or move on.
 
JEDI

JEDI

Lifer
Sep 25, 2001
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Originally posted by: compguy786
TM37- you are right
she apparently doesnt like me, but i like her..thats the one thing thats true. i didnt like her before until now, and i was totally different back in the day as well. Im getting my car in 02/07, im gonna take her out somewhere...and ill make it work...i hope she changes her mind then.
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ok.. i get it.. parody thread.

but what's the original? the one about the guy buying a $400 diamond necklace for his EX for christmas?

Edit:
that hard to read blob of words in your OP is a nice touch
 
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compguy786

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May 26, 2005
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yeah i think ive pretty much realized about only being friends...ehh i dont care...ite better to have her as a friend then nothing
thanks guys
 
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npoe1

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I had a similar problem way before and I used all my influence and charisma to get my best girl friend, and it worked for 3 years, after that I lost her as my girlfriend and as a friend, now I think that I hate her, if she didn?t fell for you before, I don?t think that it will work, my new best girl friend is in love with me but I will not take chances again, take our advice and have self respect because you will lose more than you know, I wouldn?t make the same thing if I got back in time, You will ruin everything you like in her, walk away and get someone else.
 
StageLeft

StageLeft

No Lifer
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There's only one thing you can do: wank to her endlessly and cry yourself to sleep about how that other guy is going to eventually be making out with her and then banging her and you never, ever will. Once you are older, say 25, you'll look back on your current self and hate how pathetic you are right now for obsessing over something that any objective human not your age would be able to tell with crystal clarity is never going to happen for you. Youth is cruel and it's sad for you now that you're in the midst of its tumultuous aggressions.

Make sure you remember the feelings you're having now, the lust, the frustration, the yearning, for when you're older and tempered by life, you will not feel them as often but once in a while they'll hit you like a punch to the gut and you'll remember what it was like to be 17.
 
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Zap Brannigan

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Without reading any of this I can safely say that you need to forget about who ever this chick is and meet new girls.
 
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Orsorum

Lifer
Dec 26, 2001
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Originally posted by: sixone
Ignore her - she's too dumb to waste your time on.

And you might as well get in the habit of self-respect early.
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Agreed. If she's flirting out of selfishness and you're actually thinking it's sincere, or you're considering spending money on her, you're wasting your time.
 
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