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jman19

jman19

Lifer
Nov 3, 2000
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Originally posted by: compguy786
Hey ATOT members,

i have this really close girl-friend of mine that i like and love very much. Apparently 2-3 days ago she asked me that if she should go out with this one dude, and me and her are seniors , while this "kid" is a sophomore. she did the dumbest thing by asking me that question when she knows i like her and all. Apparently i have gotten over the situation REALLY quick, im not into her as much as i used to be either. Shes going out, and from me being around her, she flirts with me more and talks to me more still, i mean what the crap do i do about it ?? she flirts like crazy with me in front of her bf all the time ! i think she likes me, but she said before that it wouldnt work out or something. The next thing im trying to do is when i get my car, me and her go out and spend time together, and she said her "bf" would be okay with it. btw this girl and i have known each other since the 2nd grade, me and her are like really close and are basically best friends. This girl back in the day hated the crap out of me more than anything, until we got into high school, we started talking and became really close. This girl has impacted my life more than anything in the whole world. So is it worth it that i take her out and stuff ??? is it worth spending money on a girl that already has a bf ?
thanks guys
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She'll use you for attention and bang the other guy. You lose.
 
sixone

sixone

Lifer
May 3, 2004
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Ignore her - she's too dumb to waste your time on.

And you might as well get in the habit of self-respect early.
 
Ultralight

Ultralight

Senior member
Jul 11, 2004
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Originally posted by: sixone
Ignore her - she's too dumb to waste your time on.

And you might as well get in the habit of self-respect early.
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Agree. Man, things of the heart can be like transversing a mine field. Basically, as the old saying goes, "She wants her cake and eat it too." A major use job IMO. Walk away and don't look back.
 
UberNeuman

UberNeuman

Lifer
Nov 4, 1999
16,937
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compguy786: You should remain friends with her and do things with her.... Such as dropping her off at her boyfriends house and offer to drive them around town on their dates and wait outside to take her back to her house once the lovin' is done....
 
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91TTZ

Lifer
Jan 31, 2005
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Originally posted by: compguy786
Hey ATOT members,

i have this really close girl-friend of mine that i like and love very much. Apparently 2-3 days ago she asked me that if she should go out with this one dude, and me and her are seniors , while this "kid" is a sophomore. she did the dumbest thing by asking me that question when she knows i like her and all. Apparently i have gotten over the situation REALLY quick, im not into her as much as i used to be either. Shes going out, and from me being around her, she flirts with me more and talks to me more still, i mean what the crap do i do about it ?? she flirts like crazy with me in front of her bf all the time ! i think she likes me, but she said before that it wouldnt work out or something. The next thing im trying to do is when i get my car, me and her go out and spend time together, and she said her "bf" would be okay with it. btw this girl and i have known each other since the 2nd grade, me and her are like really close and are basically best friends. This girl back in the day hated the crap out of me more than anything, until we got into high school, we started talking and became really close. This girl has impacted my life more than anything in the whole world. So is it worth it that i take her out and stuff ??? is it worth spending money on a girl that already has a bf ?
thanks guys
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Pathetic.
 
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compguy786

Platinum Member
May 26, 2005
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TTIWWOP- ????

----compguy786: You should remain friends with her and do things with her.... Such as dropping her off at her boyfriends house and offer to drive them around town on their dates and wait outside to take her back to her house once the lovin' is done.... --- thats the ONE thing id NEVER do..that would just super end it right there. that would be done for.
 
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compguy786

Platinum Member
May 26, 2005
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its been really been hard to decide if i should just drop her as a friend and such, she helps me alot in stuff adn everything, shes been really nice to me compared to what she used to be. idk..but leaving her just for the bf reason..idk..ive gone down a bit...now i like another girl and now she tells me that the girl i like is ugly and whatnot===when shes hot===
 
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spidey07

No Lifer
Aug 4, 2000
65,469
5
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compguy,

What you need to do is take her and kiss her. If she rejects you have your answer, if not, you have your answer. Stop beating around the bush so to speak.
 
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theprodigalrebel

Lifer
Oct 4, 2004
10,515
6
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The transition from childhood-friends-to-young-adult-romance is a tricky one. You can't just mess around - it's gotta be something really special or it just won't work.

Does this girl like you (not just as a friend)? We all have superhero egos but if she hasn't taken a shine to you in over, what, 15 years of knowing you, she probably won't now - unless you have uber skills at using words to manipulate feelings. In that case, forget about it. Be the best man at her wedding.

Are you telling me in all these years, there has once NOT been one moment when you held her face in your hands, told her she was the best thing in your life, watched her close her eyes and kissed (or something like that)? Sorry, but two people who find each other attractive and really like each other usually go down that road. It's a man-woman thing. If it hasn't happened already, it probably won't.
 
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tm37

Lifer
Jan 24, 2001
12,436
1
0
Originally posted by: jman19
Originally posted by: compguy786
Hey ATOT members,

i have this really close girl-friend of mine that i like and love very much. Apparently 2-3 days ago she asked me that if she should go out with this one dude, and me and her are seniors , while this "kid" is a sophomore. she did the dumbest thing by asking me that question when she knows i like her and all. Apparently i have gotten over the situation REALLY quick, im not into her as much as i used to be either. Shes going out, and from me being around her, she flirts with me more and talks to me more still, i mean what the crap do i do about it ?? she flirts like crazy with me in front of her bf all the time ! i think she likes me, but she said before that it wouldnt work out or something. The next thing im trying to do is when i get my car, me and her go out and spend time together, and she said her "bf" would be okay with it. btw this girl and i have known each other since the 2nd grade, me and her are like really close and are basically best friends. This girl back in the day hated the crap out of me more than anything, until we got into high school, we started talking and became really close. This girl has impacted my life more than anything in the whole world. So is it worth it that i take her out and stuff ??? is it worth spending money on a girl that already has a bf ?
thanks guys
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She'll use you for attention and bang the other guy. You lose.
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It is not often that I literally laugh out loud but that was one of them

OP - You are trying to be more than friends with a chick that is just your friend in her eyes. unless both consent there is no sex.
 
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compguy786

Platinum Member
May 26, 2005
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TM37- you are right
she apparently doesnt like me, but i like her..thats the one thing thats true. i didnt like her before until now, and i was totally different back in the day as well. Im getting my car in 02/07, im gonna take her out somewhere...and ill make it work...i hope she changes her mind then.
 
sixone

sixone

Lifer
May 3, 2004
25,030
5
61
Originally posted by: compguy786
TM37- you are right
she apparently doesnt like me, but i like her..thats the one thing thats true. i didnt like her before until now, and i was totally different back in the day as well. Im getting my car in 02/07, im gonna take her out somewhere...and ill make it work...i hope she changes her mind then.
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Oh, boy.... :confused:
 
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tm37

Lifer
Jan 24, 2001
12,436
1
0
Originally posted by: compguy786
TM37- you are right
she apparently doesnt like me, but i like her..thats the one thing thats true. i didnt like her before until now, and i was totally different back in the day as well. Im getting my car in 02/07, im gonna take her out somewhere...and ill make it work...i hope she changes her mind then.
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They don't.

She won't

If you can handle being just friends great but if you go in trying to get the poon you will lose a friend and your happiness
 
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