All mobo's are an adventure and a learning experience. The VNF4 was very easy to get going in my simple ( one disk, no raid, one optical drive, one floppy) setup - the hardware just snapped together and ran memtest86 fine. Formatted and partitioned with BootitNG running off floppy. Booted XP CD in the SATA drive (no special drivers needed) and in 20 minutes XP was running. Initially, no BIOS settings needed - it ran fine with defaults.
The nVidia drivers loaded off the included CD without incident. Unfortunately, I ran into some of the driver problems which bedevil NF4 based systems but am able to live with these problems.
The Sonata case is reasonably quiet and the VNF4 has fan speed control based on temperature so the fan noise is audible only under high CPU load or high ambient temperature. BIOS provides fan speed control but I use SpeedFan to keep the temperature lower than the available settings in BIOS.
Bottom line: I like my VNF4 and it sounds as if it would fit your needs, as would any of several mobo's currently available.
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