What makes a kiss good?

[weezergirl]

For me it's the person. And since I've never really kissed a person that I didn't really like I can't say I've ever had a "bad" kiss. What is a bad kiss? and sometimes I wonder if i'm a bad kisser or a good kisser. My bf says I'm a good kisser but duh, he's going to say that! Just wondering what you guys think of as a good kiss. And any tips?

 

[shiner]

Well as long as the don't try to suck off my face or leave a river of slobber all over my chin when finished then I consider it a good kiss. I swear some people are horrible kissers.....dated a girl a few years ago that was like kissing a catfish.....

 

[hoihtah]

three things.

1. playful
2. wet
3. voluptious

 

[SagaLore]

slightly opened mouth, keep lips moist but not slobbery, don't stick tongue in but let tongue's touch, keep headed cocked slightly to the right and move head right/left slowly, push forward with lips and then pull back kind of like tug of war

and good kissing is accompanied with good touch use your hands on the face, neck, side, arm, hip, etc.

 

[Draco]

This is the wrong place to ask, I'd imagine 85% of the guys on here haven't even touched a boob, much less kiss a woman

Girls generally have a better feel for this, I'd ask your girlfriends. Besides, If he says your good, then I wouldn't worry about it.

 

[Instagib]

<< This is the wrong place to ask, I'd imagine 85% of the guys on here haven't even touched a boob, much less kiss a woman

Girls generally have a better feel for this, I'd ask your girlfriends. Besides, If he says your good, then I wouldn't worry about it. >>



Speak for yourself fap boy!

 

[nihil]

<< three things.

1. playful
2. wet
3. voluptious

>>



agreed. and one more thing....electricity.

 

[StageLeft]

<< I'd imagine 85% of the guys on here haven't even touched a boob, much less kiss a woman >>

Your sentence doesn't make sense since generally kissing would preceed boob touching!

Anyway my first kiss was very very bad. Very bad. I blame it on both of us but more on her

 

[nihil]

<< This is the wrong place to ask, I'd imagine 85% of the guys on here haven't even touched a boob, much less kiss a woman

Girls generally have a better feel for this, I'd ask your girlfriends. Besides, If he says your good, then I wouldn't worry about it. >>



no way dude, i touched a chicks boob 2 times!!

 

[Adul]

Soft gentle warm feeling kisses. You can tell when someone hasnt kissed before versa someone who has kissed before.

 

[Hossenfeffer]

Anbesol

 

[weezergirl]

<< This is the wrong place to ask, I'd imagine 85% of the guys on here haven't even touched a boob, much less kiss a woman

Girls generally have a better feel for this, I'd ask your girlfriends. Besides, If he says your good, then I wouldn't worry about it. >>



hehe. i would ask my gfs if i wanted to kiss a girl, but i'd rather hear from the guy's perspective.

 

[SagaLore]

<<

<< This is the wrong place to ask, I'd imagine 85% of the guys on here haven't even touched a boob, much less kiss a woman

Girls generally have a better feel for this, I'd ask your girlfriends. Besides, If he says your good, then I wouldn't worry about it. >>



no way dude, i touched a chicks boob 2 times!! >>



your mom only breastfed you twice? :Q

 

[Ameesh]

<<

<< This is the wrong place to ask, I'd imagine 85% of the guys on here haven't even touched a boob, much less kiss a woman

Girls generally have a better feel for this, I'd ask your girlfriends. Besides, If he says your good, then I wouldn't worry about it. >>



hehe. i would ask my gfs if i wanted to kiss a girl, but i'd rather hear from the guy's perspective. >>




you want to kiss a girl!??!

 

[Draco]

<<

<< This is the wrong place to ask, I'd imagine 85% of the guys on here haven't even touched a boob, much less kiss a woman

Girls generally have a better feel for this, I'd ask your girlfriends. Besides, If he says your good, then I wouldn't worry about it. >>



Speak for yourself fap boy! >>



I am speaking for myself. I'm not included in one of the 85%

 

[heartsurgeon]

passion

 

[toph99]

playful. my ex girlfriend and i both liked kissing rough... sucking hard on the lips etc. or to tease she'd keep her mouth just out of reach of mine. twas fun

 

[hoihtah]

weezergirl...

when it comes to physical/sexual intelligence,
man and woman are held upon a different scale.

i'm not sure what a guy would think if a girl knows how to kiss so well.

...

all because we all know the fact that only practice makes perfect.

 

[ElFenix]

too sloppy
getting choked by tongue
not responding at all

those are bad.

 

[Mr N8]

Kiss like you want to be kissed. Don't be shy or timid about it. Dry lips are a bad thing. Flavoured chapstick is also a bad thing. Had a GF once, and she loved this cherry chapstick. That didn't last long. The chapstick didn't last long, that is. She was an incredible kisser then, now she's even better that we've been married for 5 years!

MM

 

[sheselectric]

not too much tongue. lip action is better.

 

[DAPUNISHER]

I've been kissing the same woman for so long I'm probably less qualified to comment than the FAP FAP kings.

 

[SpecialEd]

i've thought about this and i've come to the conclusion that there are no good or bad kissers... but is a matter of kissing compatibility. Everyone is different and its just a matter of finding someone that kisses just like you.

As for my opinion of bad kisses... i've kissed girls that have sucked soo hard on my tongue that I had bruises the next day. Some times girls open their mouths soo wide... you feel like your going to drool all over their face... some girls don't open their mouths at all... kissing them is like trying to shove you tongue down a straw....

there is the matter of too much tongue.. too little tongue... you need a good mix of kissing with the just lips vs deep kisses...


you need to know what types of kisses are appropreiate in certain situations... good kissing ettiqute goes along way in my book.

 

[Geekbabe]

I'd never thought about it, sort of like asking what makes a sun rise beautiful or something

 

[bizmark]

I like mine to be fairly sloppy. I don't mind a little slobber. One girl that I went out with had a big problem with slobber. I had to be very careful or she'd get pissy.

Biting can be very exciting. Just lightly use your teeth and bite the other person's lower lip, and pull back slowly and let the lip slide through your teeth. Also bite their neck, earlobes, etc. Obviously not strongly enough to draw blood or leave bruises -- just playful, light bites.

But most of all it's the excitedness of the people involved. (This is talking about non-"peck" kisses, like hello or goodbye kisses. I"m talking about passionate kisses here.) Even if the other person is a "bad" kisser in one way or another, there's something really great about her being really excited about kissing you, and showing it by being really active in the kissing. Grabbing your hair, pulling your face down to hers, pressing her body completely into you, hands forcefully pressed against your back. Esp. if it keeps going on that way for hours.

And it's even better when it's like this bipolar thing, with stages of heat and then tenderness. One minute you're hot and heavy, the next you're looking each other in the eyes, lips barely touching, just looking at each other and knowing that you both have so much love for each other. Until she grabs your hair again and starts the passion again. Back and forth and back and forth....

Teasing is great too. You shouldn't continually give a guy what he wants.

Oh, one really cool thing to do (it's not really related to good kissing) is to seal your lips completely with the other person's, then one person starts inhaling through the mouth, drawing air out of the other person's lungs (and maybe through their nose as well). You can keep doing this for at least a few times back and forth. It's really strange to have the air forcibly extricated from your lungs. It's a cool feeling. Heheh it would freak my ex out when I did that, I would kind of sneakily do it every once in a while